I think this is also the normal state of most young people.
whether at school or at work, I get up, eat, sleep and do the same thing day after day. Unconsciously, all the good times of life were wasted by myself.
I think of a sentence shared by a friend I haven't seen for a long time in a circle of friends some time ago:
I wonder if you have asked yourself the same question. I don't know if you ever longed to grow up, thinking that when you grow up, you can realize your dream. When you grow up, you can meet the person you have been waiting for for for a long time, and finally you can leave the hometown where I have lived for more than 2 years.
But when we really grow up, we find that dreams can really be realized not just by talking. Most people gradually lose themselves in the pursuit of their dreams. I thought that when I grow up, I can finally wait for the long-awaited love, but the reality is that every time you really pay, you get betrayed. In the end, you hurt yourself and hurt yourself, but you still pretend as if nothing happened. The reality after growing up makes me afraid to believe in love.
when we grow up, we did leave the hometown that we wanted to leave countless times, but in reality it is called leaving our hometown.
Later, we were displaced from place to place, but our hometown stayed forever in the 18-year-old summer that we wanted to go back but couldn't.
A girl told me that she said that he and her ex-boyfriend were going to talk about marriage, but their ending turned out to be nothing. And just a while ago, she said that he was getting married, and I should put it down.
I asked her, "Do you still have any regrets?"
She said, "It's false to say that we have no regrets. We all thought that the other person was the one who could be with us for life, but in the end, we discovered that we had never entered each other's hearts. We blindly perfunctory, blindly provocative, blindly drifting away, in the end only suspicion and misunderstanding. Maybe others think that we are separated because of different places. In fact, only I know that what really separates us is from the bottom of my heart. He doesn't love me so much at all. " When she said this, there was no smirk or sadness on her face. Instead, she had never been calm. "I think it's time for me to let go. I am very grateful that he came to my world, pulled me out of the bottomless abyss and brought a beam of light into my life, but I think we are here. In the future, we will go our separate ways and never meet again after the mountain. "
No farewell is the best farewell.
We always say that we are sorry that we didn't say goodbye to him/her, but will the ending really be different after you say goodbye?
to put it bluntly, the reason why you think you didn't say goodbye to that person is because you never thought that he would disappear into your life.
In fact, you only think of him in the dead of night.
you didn't say goodbye to him, which is obviously your excuse for not wanting to forget him.
I think when most people get used to having someone around them, when he suddenly leaves, you will always have some regrets and some regrets. In fact, it's all because this person has walked into your life silently and become a part of your life. That's why you were so sad when he left.
It's like seeing a girl on the Tik Tok before. She just fell in love. She walked into the lovelorn museum alone. When people asked about her, she said those little habits when they were together, intentionally or unintentionally. It's just that she cried as she talked. Maybe that person has really become a part of her life, like a thorn in her heart. How can it not hurt when it is suddenly pulled out?
But this is when we grow up. All we can do is try to get out of sadness. Some people forget, some people feel heartache, and some people choose to seal up their memories. These experiences have taught us to become stronger.
I once heard a saying:
People who hurt you never want to help you grow up. What really makes you grow up is your pain and reflection. The experience itself has no special meaning, what makes it meaningful is your strength.
It's true. Whether in the world of love or on the road of pursuing dreams, to tell the truth, we have all been hurt and shed tears. Life has brought us thorns all the way, but there is always a beam of light shining into our life, which may be a book, a song or a person.
As Tagore once said, if you shed tears when you miss the sun, you will also miss the stars.
So, we shouldn't forget the original brightness of life just because of one person or one thing.
Dear, no matter whether you are on a road with a direction or not, please remember that things will work out in the end. Don't let your dream grow up and you will never be able to do anything.