In emotional disputes, women are more vulnerable, bear a grudge against love rat, and have the idea of revenge.
Why is there love rat? Why can love rat succeed many times, capture women's hearts and cheat women? There are many explanations. Some people think that love rat knows how to pick up girls, knows amorous feelings, is attentive, knows how to be cold and warm, and is easy to please women.
From the perspective of evolutionary psychology, some people think that love rat was born because it conforms to the principle of maximizing reproductive benefits. For men, the more women there are, the easier it is to pass on their genes to future generations. Women also want to increase their offspring and inherit genes. In this case, women also tend to look for love rat in order to cultivate more offspring. Moreover, love rat's genes will be inherited, and many of his descendants will cheat and laugh at women. Fortunately, the proportion of love rat is small, but it has been stable, showing the tenacity of evolutionary genes.
If you were hurt by love rat, how would you retaliate?
For women, they are not afraid to see love rat. Love rat's greatest existence value is to let women know about good men and bad men. What kind of man can talk about feelings and what kind of man can't? In this sense, love rat is a negative example. Although he suffered misfortune, he accumulated experience, which made his eyes brighter and more discriminating.
It's normal to be hurt by love rat and feel resentful, but you must never get caught up in the whirlpool of resentment. This will do no harm to love rat, but it will do great harm to yourself. The most reasonable attitude is to call him "damn", just like stepping on shit on the road. Wipe the soles of your shoes and keep walking. Please pay attention to shit in the future.
Even a failed relationship is worthwhile as long as it can bring joy to both sides at the beginning. After all, you are in love and have experienced the beauty of love. Although short-lived, it is also a test of life. There's no need to resent. You should smile and look back. Say goodbye to the past and break with love rat.
On the other hand, resentment can not only solve the problem, but even revenge may not make you happy. Revenge is a double-edged sword, even if it hurts others, it will hurt yourself. Especially for women, is revenge effective? How lethal is it? Very suspicious. How much happiness can you get even if you retaliate against each other? I'm afraid I will regret it and lose it. It's better to end it early than to retaliate.
The end of a relationship is not the end of all feelings in life. Breaking up with love rat early is for a better start and an earlier start. There is no point in wasting time and energy on love rat. Starting a new life is the theme. A woman can't start a new relationship if she doesn't forget the past and hold a grudge. Resentment can only start a new relationship and accept another man if you close your heart, be paranoid, bind yourself in a cocoon, open your heart and have a sunny heart. The experiences of many women show that it is easy for love rat to satisfy each other, but it is more important to learn from them, how to treat men and start a new life. A smart woman should step on love rat's head and move on. Entanglement is a waste of life.