We want live high, not anyone in anyone's eyes. I am who I am, and the one who can make me feel really happy and confident is the real me.
Yesterday, I communicated with a very, very powerful master, a master worth over 1 million yuan. The master was so modest that he had no airs at all. He helped me solve the problem patiently.
recently, I saw that others are almost making money by doing online education. I feel a little anxious, and I can't sit still. I also want to make money quickly and surpass others.
I told the master that I wanted to talk about writing courses, but I was a little unsure, because I saw many people who talked about writing were master-level, and their courses were excellent and popular, and I only wrote for more than a year, so I had no advantage compared with them.
tell me, master, why are you competing with them? Although they are masters, their courses are for very powerful people. Your courses can be very grounded. You can tell them to the online white who just started writing.
In this world, there are still many ordinary people. At that time, you will be more popular than them.
The teacher's words reminded me of a very powerful lecturer the other day. He told me that he wanted to write, so he bought some master's writing courses, because he just gave lectures and he never wrote.
When he attended the master's writing course, he felt a little abstruse, which didn't help much for the person who just started writing. It sounded like such a thing, and it was a bit difficult to implement.
Suddenly I feel confident. Although I am a little white, I have my own advantages! Why should I compare with others? I just want to be myself.
the master said, don't think too much, you just have to be yourself. You have to believe in yourself. Only by believing in yourself can you do better.
After communicating with the master, I suddenly had an idea that I would make a 1-day plan and spend 1 days to change myself.
I finished my 1-day plan yesterday, and I was a little excited.
I found that as long as you want to finish something, you can really finish it. I have never felt this way before, and I broke through myself at once.
what I ask myself is that I should practice every lesson many times in the future, so that I can share it after I am satisfied with it, and if I am not satisfied, I will not talk about it again.
I want to make my courses the same as my articles, and do my best in every class.
I want to be myself and stop enviing others.
adjust your mind, growth is more important than success.
I would like to live to be my true self: I have a variety of customs and I am at peace with the world!
you should believe in yourself, like yourself, believe in yourself and recognize yourself.
instead of others believing in themselves, others recognizing themselves and others believing in themselves, that is called Thaksin, not self-confidence.
we really don't need to care too much about other people's ideas without disturbing them and causing them trouble.
As long as you don't interfere with others, influence others, or cause trouble to others, you can be abnormal and be yourself, which has nothing to do with others.
start being yourself today.
be your best self.
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Be yourself, there is no shame, others have nothing to do with you, just do what you should do.
Last night, another sister came to see me. She said that she had just started an English training class in a strange city. In order to find customers, she was going to hand out leaflets on the street and ask for someone else's phone number.
She felt embarrassed. What should I do?
Actually, I did the same thing last year.
My husband needs to attract customers when he is working. At that time, I was on the construction site with my children and pulling customers for him.
actually, when I was trying to attract customers for him, I didn't think about success or failure. I just introduced my business to customers. As for success or failure, it's someone else's business. If I don't introduce it, it's my business.
so when I do this, I just do it myself, regardless of other people's eyes. We live for ourselves, not for others.
Be the truest self, just be yourself and live to be yourself.
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The past tense is only the past tense. We have a good tomorrow, and only by looking forward can we have a chance to be better ourselves.
Yesterday, a divorced elder sister left me a message. She asked me if I wanted to remarry. I told her, yes! Why not?
it's a long life. you can't go alone. you should find a partner to go with you.
But before you remarry, you must be your best self. Let yourself be confident and happy first. Only when you are happy can you manage the happiness of this family. If you bring it into your marriage in such a depressed state, your marriage will not be happy. You can only give it to yourself, but others can't.
I suggest that elder sister quickly make herself feel better, make herself confident and find her happiness.
eldest sister always doesn't believe in herself, fearing that she can't find her own happiness.
She told me that she had made many mistakes in the past, and she couldn't forgive herself.
I told her that the past has turned over and we should move on.
once again, everyone should live: I have a variety of customs, and I am at peace with the world. As long as you don't influence others, you can be abnormal and be yourself.
whether others like you or not, you must like yourself.
The past is the past, right or wrong, it's all history. History has turned over, and it's meaningless to go back. It's better to start over and be a more beautiful self.
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As long as you put your heart into it, you can really achieve a lot of things. Only by doing things with your heart can your self-confidence radiate from the inside out.
I used to finish the task just for the sake of finishing the task. When I saw others giving a lesson every day, I just wanted to give it, so I didn't pay so much attention. Since the teacher finished speaking, I prepared the course yesterday, but I wasn't too satisfied with myself, so I didn't say it, because this course was going to be given to billionaires, which I definitely couldn't cope with, and I won't deal with every class in my future.
Yesterday, I suddenly seemed to be enlightened. Under the guidance of the master, I suddenly realized that when you are giving a lecture, you can only speak this course well if you are satisfied with yourself.
Recently, I always want to do something to help others. I never think about myself. The people I helped thanked me and gave me red envelopes. I have never received their red envelopes. I am willing to help them and help them from the heart. As long as they are happy, it is my greatest happiness. As long as they are happy, it is my greatest happiness.
Although my family was very poor when I was a child, at that time, no one helped me when I needed someone to help me, but now I want to help others with my meager strength.
I think people can't live for themselves. You want the value of live high. I want to wait until I am old and can't walk. At that time, I hope that my articles can be seen by more people, and my fragrant spirit can influence more people.
I hope that I can publish a book in the future, so that more people can see my spirit and let them move forward with me.
when some people are confused, I am also confused for them, because I have been confused before, and I know the taste of confusion is hard, so I want to help more people and help them get out of it.
A real strong man is not how many people he has settled, but how many people he can help and others. This is virtue, and it is ability to help others. Only those who have virtue and ability are strong.
I'm super confident. I'm self-confident, I'm independent, I'm unique, and I have a different life.