Hello everyone! First of all, thank you for your concern and love for our classmates, and thank you for your strong support for our class work. Unconsciously, I have been in charge of this class for more than two months. Today, it is a fate to have such an opportunity to sit together and discuss and exchange some things about children's study and life. As the head teacher of the children, before the exchange, I want to express my deep gratitude to all the parents who came or didn't come today in my own name. Thank you for your support to my work and study in the past two months. Without your support, the children could not have made such great progress. I'd like to take this opportunity to share some of my personal thoughts with you first. Some of the parents sitting here have had contact with us, so they may know me and my children better, but some parents may have less contact with me and their children because of their busy work.
Next, I will briefly introduce the characteristics of our class and the current study and living conditions. From the day I took over this class, I found that many children had poor language skills and incorrect writing. In class, there are fewer children who are inactive and dare to answer questions. Often only a few people are singing the leading role. For example, students such as Dong Xiaohua, Xiaoqing Wang and Yu Chuan answered more. A good habit can benefit children for life. I have such an experience: once a good habit is formed, it will stick to it when I grow up. Parents should help their children form good study habits: 1. Concentrate. Some children have bad behavior habits, poor routine training, poor self-study ability and difficulty in concentration. Therefore, parents should be strict, and often remind their children to listen attentively, pay attention, don't make small moves, and don't interfere with others' lectures. When you get home, you should create an environment suitable for children to study, so that children can develop the good habit of doing their homework in time after school and doing other things after finishing their homework at the specified time. 2. Think independently. Parents should guide their children to think about problems that children can't solve. The important thing is not to teach them how to solve a problem, but to tell them how to solve a problem and cultivate their independent thinking ability. 3. Be careful. Children's homework must be completed within the specified time, but it must not be sloppy. This requires correct content, neat handwriting and timely completion. In order to let children develop good habits, improve accuracy and responsibility, children should be required to develop the habit of inspection. 4. Cultivate children's active thinking. Don't look at children's problems from the perspective of an adult. Be good at cultivating children's diligence, encourage and praise children's questions appropriately, and correct children's wrong ideas in time. Parents should talk more about what their children are exposed to, inspire and induce, and never ignore their children's problems, which will make them afraid to ask questions. 5. Memorize vocabulary and texts. Pupils have a good memory, and some things can be memorized and remembered for a lifetime. Parents can guide their children to recite as many words and texts as possible when guiding their children to learn. We have such an activity every day: insist on reading for 30 minutes after class. And ask parents to sign. If it is my afternoon self-study, I will read books with my students and create an atmosphere for them. At the same time, copy an ancient poem or famous aphorism to your child every day. A student is regularly checked every day. Before each class, a student tells an idiom story to enrich his knowledge. Improve reading. 6. Develop the habit of reading books and newspapers. Parents need to buy and subscribe suitable books, newspapers and periodicals for their children to create a reading environment, but it is best not to order too many books, but to order fewer but better books. In order to prevent "skimming", parents can read with their children, discuss the problems in the book with them, and guide them to take reading notes. 7. Develop phased study habits. Master the learning cycle and cultivate children's habit of learning according to the cycle of preview, listening to lectures, reviewing and writing homework. Every weekend, in addition to requiring children to finish their homework on time, they are also required to review and preview new content in time.
As a senior three student, it is very important to develop good habits, because it will affect the child's life and lay a good foundation for entering junior high school, including study and life. Some parents communicate and have no way to educate themselves. In fact, it is more important to have this heart. In terms of educating children, I mainly tell you these aspects.
1) Children are children, so be naive. Never teach children some worldly things in society and let them become adults.
2) Let children do what they can and adults help.
3) Let children arrange their own time reasonably, and parents just give appropriate guidance.
4) Read more extracurricular books and increase some extracurricular knowledge.
5) Keep close contact between home and school, communicate with children at home, and often take time to go to school to understand children's learning and ideological status.
At this parent-teacher meeting, I want to let you know that the concept of education and teaching is changing now, and our parents' concept should also change gradually, and we should pay more attention to the long-term and all-round development of children. Recognizing whether a child is a qualified and useful talent is not determined by a test paper, but by society. What the future society needs is people with sound personality, mental health, strong social adaptability and lifelong learning desire and ability. A person's observation ability, thinking ability, comprehensive application ability of knowledge and viability are very important. Therefore, knowledge alone is not enough, but students' comprehensive quality, emotion, attitude and values are more important. Therefore, we can't just focus on scores as before.
Zhu Yongxin, vice mayor of Suzhou, is a famous professor of education in China. He presided over a research project called New Education Experiment. He advocates: unlimited belief in the potential of children; Never be disappointed in your children; Never be stingy with your parents' praise and encouragement; Teach children something useful to life. Please all parents in the world remember this sentence: "You may not be a genius, but you can be a genius parent." We take this opportunity to encourage parents.
In order to better regulate children's behavior habits, I ask children not to be late in the morning. After coming, all the children will take the initiative to clean the classroom and take morning reading. Every day when children arrive at school, they always consciously take out the things in their schoolbags, with books on the right, exercise books on the left and pencil boxes in the middle. Every time I do my homework, I always take out a pen, an eraser and a ruler. Every time I leave the classroom for another class, I always clean up my desk and stuff my chair. Reduce the chances of muddling along, basically organized. At the beginning of implementing these specific requirements, I was worried about whether the children could do it. As it turns out, the children did a good job. During my home visit, I also found that many children can do these seemingly trivial things at home. Good study habits will benefit children for life. Next, I will talk about the requirements of Chinese learning. Chinese ability mainly refers to children's "listening, speaking, reading and writing" ability. "Listening" means not only listening to the teacher carefully, but also listening to other students' speeches carefully. Accept or filter useful information while listening. At present, classroom training accounts for a large proportion in this kind of training, and most children in the class can listen to others' speeches carefully. In today's Chinese class, we can often hear such independent opening words as "I want to add …" and "I don't agree with him …". But some students haven't done enough. Today's children are good at "talking", and sometimes what they say has a certain depth. On the way to send their children home every day, parents can consciously communicate with their children what happened at school. It not only enhances feelings, but also is a good opportunity to practice speaking. It is best to let the children speak completely and methodically. In class, children's "speaking" ability is also very important. After two months of training, the children in this class should be able to improve their oral expression. When they speak, they can make their voices loud and clear and make people feel comfortable. Individual students' expressive ability is not strong enough, but they are also making progress, and they dare to raise their hands to speak in class. In addition, I also try to make children willing to talk as soon as possible. For example, group discussion in Chinese class and then recommending one person to speak will increase everyone's chances of speaking. For example, using morning reading to let children introduce the latest news and stories they have heard, and using class activities to let children exchange reading experiences and wonderful stories, children's ability can not be improved at once, but as long as they persist in doing and practicing, there will always be progress, let alone being a man.
If you want to say something wonderful, you need to read a lot of extra-curricular books besides the necessary life experience. According to the Chinese curriculum standard, the reading volume of fifth-grade students is not less than 654.38+0 million words. Now I find that children's reading is far from enough, so since the beginning of school, I have given them fixed homework and read for half an hour every day. Children insist on reading every day. You should at least read me an essay. You must read aloud. The feeling of watching it once is definitely different from that of watching it three times. After reading at least one article, it is very important to know a word. I found that some children in my class actually like reading, but most of them lack this interest. So how to better stimulate children's interest in reading? Borrowing books from the library recently, the children talked about it. Moreover, I think if there is a reading craze in the class, it will be of great help to children's reading and writing. On the other hand, if you have time, if you like reading, I suggest you read and share with your children. Of course, this is based on your time. This is also a way to improve children's reading interest. Because her parents read the same books as themselves and found them very interesting. In addition, for shorter articles, children should be instructed to read their feelings, so that the reading effect will be better. About writing, it mainly refers to writing good words and short exercises. At present, the handwriting of children in the class is generally not so satisfactory, and the writing posture needs to be further improved. One punch, one foot and one inch. Because you have to study, take exams, and inevitably have homework. At present, the routine homework includes memorizing words, reading and reciting texts, reading extracurricular books and so on. After two months of observation, I found that some students in the class could not finish these homework well. Some are scrawled, some do little, and some often say that I forgot or didn't bring it. I stated in class that things like not bringing or forgetting are not reasons for not handing in homework. Therefore, my handling method is to do it again and stop lying. However, children's self-discipline ability is still particularly poor. Coupled with other reasons, so up to now, there are still a few students in the class who do less homework and simply don't do it when they encounter problems. I think this is the biggest problem in our class at present. Parents' cooperation is especially needed. Some students are particularly slow in their homework. After I talked to her father, I asked his father to check and sign every day to see when his daughter did her homework, and then write it down for me. This effect is much better, and her work speed has improved a lot. So far, there is no reason to forget to bring her notebook. So I think that as long as our parents and teachers cooperate closely, children can develop good study habits. The third grade of primary school is a particularly important year, which is a crucial period for them to grow from children to teenagers. I hope our parents will care more about their children and help them through the important stage of life, which is especially important for their future growth.
Sincerely hope that you can contact us in time. Phone call or email will do. Note: Students' growth books need the cooperation of parents. Who doesn't want their children to have a good witness when they recall their childhood when they grow up, and who doesn't want to leave good memories for their children, then our growth bag is the witness of their children's footprints, and parents can help them organize together. There are also children on duty who hope their parents can support them. Children are on duty once a week. They are given breakfast in the morning and come on duty early. Because this is the obligation of every student, children's sense of collectivity and responsibility is very important for their future growth. Children who live nearby on Saturday and Sunday, I hope their parents can take good care of them. As the saying goes, a small negligence may change their lives. Students with good conditions or poor foundation on Saturday and Sunday can make up lessons, or make up lessons at home by themselves. Don't run around. Internet cafes and crazy play are not good, so be temperate. Tell the children to go home early after school at night, do their homework and don't run outside. Parents in our class are of high quality. I'm glad to cooperate with our work. But let me tell my parents first: a teacher has his own management methods. If you trust my children, please follow some of our rules with your children. As the saying goes, Fiona Fang can't be achieved without rules, and only those who know the rules can achieve great things. We must expect everything. To tell the truth, there are already many teachers in this class. No one wants to take such a class, and the principal has talked to me many times. I really can't help it, but it was a long time ago and I don't want to borrow this class. Since I am the parent of this class, I will treat all my children equally, but if you have any objection to my management style, I will say so. This class will not change teachers until the sixth grade graduation, so you can do something for yourself to adapt to me. . . . . . But let's just say that there may be many parents who know me more or less, because I have been in the graduating class for several years, and it is estimated that all the parents who are doing it have children and relatives who are my students. Seriously, no matter who you report anything to, it will eventually fall on me, so if you have anything, just say it to your face, don't. . . But I haven't felt that there are such parents in our class. However, no matter how much the teacher pays, it is inseparable from the support of parents. To tell the truth, a lot of things have happened in these two days that I have never encountered in teaching 12 years. I haven't slept much these two days, and I feel that I have a clear conscience for every child. It is estimated that every parent is also eager for his son to become a dragon and his daughter to become a phoenix. But as a teacher, I can set a good example for my children, ask parents and stare at the teacher in the backlight. Have you ever reflected on yourself? Parents send their children here for the same purpose, for children, for long-term prosperity, for children, don't do this to parents again. Right, so how to do it, children study well and study first? Are you doing it for your children? Maybe some parents still remember the sulfuric acid throwing by students in Tsinghua. Why do children in colleges and universities do such things? That's because his family and his heart are abnormal. In fact, many children should pay attention to their healthy growth now. As parents, we all think so when our children are sick. The child is not only clever, but also healthy. So parents, what should we do for our children? This is an example! Most things these two days are related to money. Yes, although I am new in our class, I have learned one thing now, that is, the number of poor students in our class is the first in the whole school. I don't know the reasons for these links, but I have three or four classes in Mong Kok. Maybe it's because there are too many flights and the family conditions are much worse. I want to ask all the parents present, are you willing to spend the rest of your life in this state? I think the answer is no, because I think every parent puts your expectations on their children, hoping that your children can just get into a good school and find a good job to change the status quo. What you are giving your children now is not financial wealth, but spiritual strength. A self-reliant child must be promising. I believe your children don't want other children to know that your family is poor. He is a child who is taken care of. Of course, the reality will be good, and we all have the right to go to school. . Maybe you don't want others to know that you are poor, because we all have self-esteem. Maybe you can educate your children in this way, which will inspire them and teach them the philosophy of life. We will certainly overcome the difficulties ourselves and don't let our children grow up in inferiority. Be a happy child, then I don't want you to cast a shadow over the child's mind for a little profit. Besides, he may want to know why what our parents say is different from what they do. Is this how life dies? Yes, take care of you. Let's calculate, it costs about 100 yuan a year, and it takes only six years to 1000 yuan. But if you calculate an account, which is more important before 1000 yuan, or will children grow up through self-improvement and gain more wealth in the future? I think our parents are smart, and the most important thing in a child's life is. . Don't worry, you should have called you, but, uh, I'm not talking about those people. Some parents didn't come for two months after I asked. Speaking of this sensitive topic, they came too fast to let the children study, and wanted to say something irrelevant. Are you qualified to be a parent? Gigi, there's another one! Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone! First of all, I would like to extend my good wishes and sincere wishes to all the leaders, teachers and students present here!
Our school is carrying out the teaching reform mode of autonomous learning, which gives students a free learning space. It tests students' self-control and exercises their self-study ability.
Self-study ability is a very important ability, which contributes to teachers' teaching and students' learning, and greatly promotes the change of students' learning style. Self-study is not an ordinary ability, nor can it be imagined that students will have this ability through one or two self-study practices. The cultivation of self-study ability should be a long-term process, which should be sustained and cultivated step by step. Wei Shusheng mentioned in his book: Students don't have the habit of self-study at first, just like a stationary car, but they have the desire to cultivate good habits, just like a burning car. The first push should not be impatient, slow and long, which conforms to the law of movement and people's psychological state. Under the correct guidance of teachers, students have gradually formed good study habits through practice. Only when students have this excellent habit and master the method of self-study can they effectively promote the completion of learning.
Students, in those days, Confucius once sighed in the face of the surging river: "The deceased is like a husband." In an instant, we are all middle school students. We have to face up to the growing pains, especially the temptation of online games. Through the sketch just now, the students have realized how to avoid similar tragedies. I believe you will learn something from them. I hope you learn to adjust yourself, understand your parents, treat setbacks correctly, and let your youth have no regrets.
When it comes to learning, we children all have a certain degree of fear. To tell the truth, learning is really hard and tiring, and sometimes we feel that paying is not necessarily rewarding. But on the other hand, can you stop learning when you are bitter? Isn't it more bitter to relax now? A person's temperament and accomplishment can only be reflected through knowledge. In order to be more "sweet" in the future, we must study hard.
People often say that interest is the best teacher. If we can find another pleasure in our busy life, so that we can really fall in love with learning, and learning will also fall in love with you, then we will never feel nothing. At this point, I regard learning as a game. To learn this thing, we must rely on ourselves, so it is particularly important to turn passivity into initiative!
For learning methods, our teacher Wu summed up three words: "static", "diligent" and "lively". "Quiet" means to calm down and study hard; "Diligence" means hard work and no laziness; "Live" means flexible learning and application, not rigid. This may be our lack of learning methods. I think learning is also a kind of practice. Only by constantly improving on the basis of maintenance will we make continuous progress.
What is progress? Achieving the goal is a kind of progress, which requires us to constantly set higher goals for ourselves. Set the best students in our class as the pursuit target.
In this learning process, sometimes I fail. I will be depressed. But everyone knows that life is smooth sailing! This requires students and parents to have a good attitude and face everything bravely and confidently. Don't measure us by our achievements.
Speaking of children our age, parents must have a headache. Because we have just tasted the taste of growth and understood the pressure and troubles, but it seems that we can't do without natural playfulness. "Play" is necessary, because the learning task is getting heavier and heavier. Be sure to let yourself have potential to tap, learn to adjust yourself, and always have a good state to face learning. So, what is the real ability to play? Allocating your time is the best way to seize a short 45-minute class.
I know my parents are not only worried about studying, but also about being a man. At home, my relationship with my parents is not only parents and children, but also big friends and children. My parents created a warm home for me and gave us the most sincere love in the world. All my parents are the same. You can do anything for us. Here, on behalf of all the children, I say "thank you!" " To all my parents. We will study hard at school and repay you with excellent results.
This is the end of my speech.
Thank you all