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Du Mu once wrote in his poem: "It's nothing to talk about being old. People have more to do in middle age."

Middle age is like a station in the middle of the road. The road behind is gone, and the road ahead is foggy. You can't stop if you want to. You can only try your best to move forward.

If "the radio in the car", "cigarettes on the steps" and "Lycium barbarum in a thermos cup" are standard for middle-aged men,

Then "children's homework", "husband's complaint" and "poor sleep" are the labels that middle-aged women can't tear off if they want to.

A middle-aged woman is a mother, a daughter and a wife, but not herself.

But it is precisely because she is a mother, a daughter and a wife, living in a chicken feather, and the days are on the line, which abruptly turns middle-aged women into men with six million dollars.

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King Kong glared at him just because he was too tired.

There is a saying in Buddhism: "King Kong shines, not inferior to Bodhisattva."

Everyone likes a kind-hearted bodhisattva, and likes the bodhisattva to repay evil with good deeds and govern people harmoniously; Hate king kong's disgusting face, and fight violence with violence.

Middle-aged women, however, don't have so many good moods to be gentle and kind to you. Life has already made them bitches.

Some time ago, my friend Xiaolan told me that she was rejected by her son.

Xiaolan's son is 3 years old and hasn't attended kindergarten yet. One day I met my neighbor, and the neighbor jokingly asked my son, "Do you like mom or dad?"

Xiaolan thought that his son would choose himself without hesitation, but he said:

"I like my father, and I don't like my mother at all. Because my mother is fierce, I accidentally spilled the water, and she scolded me. She wants to spank me if I don't wear pajamas at night. "

"Are you such a mother?" I asked Xiaolan.

She said, "What saddens me most is that when I think about it, everything he said is right."

Xiaolan is a full-time mother. Before we got married, she was the gentlest among our girlfriends. We all joked that she would be a good wife and mother in the future.

Only when you really become a mother do you know that every little thing in life is enough to drive you crazy.

At six o'clock in the morning, I made breakfast in a daze, called the children to get up and called my husband to eat. Finally, when both of them left, she began to wash clothes, sweep the floor, mop the floor and buy food. ...

You can't be idle for a moment, and you will be exhausted in the afternoon.

Physical and mental exhaustion, how can you still have the mind to do anything? A young girl in Innocent Girl has a fire in her chest every day. As long as there is a small spark, it can be ignited.

"Why did I become like this?" Small blue collapsed and asked.

In fact, not only Xiaolan, but also the star Dany once asked in Weibo:

A passage from a netizen in Zhihu seems to answer this question:

There is no mother in the world who doesn't want to be gentle and considerate. They don't want to be hysterical, but they can't even live for a moment.

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King Kong's body dare not get sick or fall down.

On 20 18 Asian Games in Jakarta, a gymnast touched everyone.

Her name is Chusovitina, and she is 43 years old.

Gymnastics is an industry that eats youth meals, and 15-20 is the best age for athletes. After the age of 20, you will be called an old athlete, and you must choose between retirement and transformation.

But why does Chusovitina insist on playing at her age?

Because, she is a mother.

She said, "I won't be old until you are well."

In fact, as early as 1999, 24-year-old Chusovitina decided to retire.

She is married, with a gentle husband and lovely children, and her life should have been wonderful.

But when the child was 3 years old, he was diagnosed with leukemia. Treating leukemia requires a high cost of treatment.

In order to treat the children, their family is still not enough. At the age of 27, Chusovitina decided to participate in all the competitions in back in the game, just because a gold medal was equivalent to a prize of 3,000 euros.

Women are weak, but mothers are strong.

Failure again and again, injury again and again, she overcame again and again and stood up again and again.

27 years old is an impossible age for athletes, but for the sake of children, she makes everything impossible possible.

I have heard such a saying: "Men are sick like Daiyu, and women are sick like King Kong."

In fact, my mother never wanted to lie down and rest. It's just that the children are starving and the housework is a mess. She can only put away all her feelings and grievances and fight hard.

A CCTV program interviewed three Peking Opera actors, Li Haiyan and his mother. The daughter said to Li Haiyan, "Mom, you have worked hard."

Who knows that Li Haiyan burst into tears and held the child in her arms and said, "Nothing, mom is used to it."

After the interview, Li Haiyan told reporters frankly:

We saw the mother's strength before our eyes, but ignored that she was a woman as weak as water.

Her strength is more of a performance.

Mom will get sick, too, but she will turn her back to take two cold medicines and drink a cup of hot water, and then continue to be energetic;

Mom will also be sleepy, but she will still pay attention to the child kicking the quilt and getting up several times in the middle of the night;

Mother will be afraid of the dark, but she will say to her child, "Baby, don't be afraid, mother will protect you."

It is said that mothers are like king kong, but how many mothers are not strong while crying?

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The heart of King Kong has nothing to do with life and death.

Every woman is a little princess disease and blx before marriage, delicate and fragile, sensitive and suspicious;

But after marriage, there will still be a feeling of narcissism. Spring is sad and autumn is hurt, and a heart of gold is invincible.

Once I didn't touch the spring water with my fingers, now I can hold the baby in one hand and make soup in the other;

I used to go to the public toilet outside, but now I can clean up the smell of my ass without changing my face.

It used to be very tiring to walk up to the fifth floor alone, but now I am resistant to rice with one hand, carrying oil with one hand and carrying a baby with the other. It is not difficult to go upstairs in the morning.

No wonder many people say that being a mother cures most women's melodramatic diseases.

Xixi, a college roommate, has fair and beautiful skin, long legs, high academic qualifications and good personality. After graduation, she directly married the rich second generation who chased her for three years.

Everyone in our dormitory envies her for her good luck, and she will have no worries about food and clothing in the future. I didn't expect her husband to cheat when she was pregnant with a second child.

But Xixi is a full-time wife, and her family income depends entirely on her husband. So for the sake of the children, she chose to forgive.

I didn't expect her husband to be even more unscrupulous, and even took Xiaosan to Xixi and said some horrible things.

Xixi couldn't bear it, and chose to take the baby streaking.

Five years after leaving the workplace, she came to the job search website again.

It's just that society is not friendly to her. She is not a fresh graduate, a single mother with two babies.

But Xixi is no longer Princess Xixi. Now she is the mother of two children and Iron Man.

Work hard during the day and write soft articles part-time at night, and you can't lack the company of two children. Sisi became the king of protection for himself and his children.

Anthony said in "Spending a Long Time with Anthony": "Sometimes the sun is fine, sometimes the sun is dark, and this is life."

Life is not easy, and mother's life is even more difficult.

But for my mother, no matter how hard life is, I can bear it, and I can add some sugar to the bitter days.

For the softest place in her heart, she must have an invincible and indomitable heart.

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No matter how strong King Kong is, he needs someone to take care of him.

Mu Xin once said: "Motherly love is a kind of selflessness."

Mom, I have done too much for a family.

She used to be a little princess in her pocket, but now she has become an omnipotent iron man in her family.

But we only see the greatness of maternal love, but forget that mothers are human beings, vulnerable and helpless, and cry at night.

I once saw a short film "What Mom Didn't Say", which made me cry.

The mother in the video urges her daughter to eat well while making do with it;

My mother's eyes are uncomfortable, but my daughter found out, but she kept saying "nothing";

Because of my bad eyes, I had an accident and needed surgery, but in order not to worry my daughter, I always comforted: "Nothing." ...

Isn't such a mother our own mother?

Always try to be brave in front of us and protect us with the hardest shell, but inside is a soft love.

However, mom is not superman after all.

She will fall and get hurt, and she is also eager to understand and hug.

When a person tries his best, what he fears most is your inaction.

So, when mom is tired, don't forget to take the lead and tell her, "Thank you for your hard work.

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