Have dinner with friends on weekends. Adults sit at one table and children sit at another table.

While we were talking, we suddenly heard a little boy on the other side of the child say, "This Barbie has 36 cups." The boy who is talking is the son of his friend Li Peng, who just celebrated 12' s birthday two days ago.

A friend of mine teased the boy, "What's a 36-cup cup?" Barbie's breasts, of course

We all burst into laughter, Li Peng's face would, went up and pushed the child "what nonsense, you don't know anything".

"Children are not sensible and talk nonsense."

Li Peng turned to a table and said, I can see that he is embarrassed.

12 years old is a crucial year for children to change from teenagers to teenagers.

During this period, girls' secondary sexual characteristics have arrived, while boys' psychology has crossed ahead of time, although later.

Therefore, parents should properly popularize sex education for their children.

The ancients said that "men and women don't give and receive". Although modern people are not so conservative, they still have to get along with each other to a certain extent outside school, especially during the sensitive period of children.

This period is a rebellious period for children, and their thoughts fluctuate greatly. Usually the relationship between parents and children should be more of a friend relationship. There will also be a qualitative leap in the height of children. Although my heart is not very mature, I already regard myself as an adult, and I don't want my parents to interfere too much. Parents and children should discuss related matters.

"Without the rebellion of parents, there can be no rebellion of children. "

Therefore, the child's adolescence is not particularly terrible. As long as the method is proper, the child is still the little boy who said "mom is great" when he was a child.

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Two days ago, my sixth grade son came back and pulled me aside. He said solemnly, "Mom, I want to tell you something, but you can't tell Dad." .

All right, go ahead.

"Huang Yiran has a big accident and may be taken away by the police."

Huang Yiran is his good friend. I was surprised because the parent-teacher conference was held only two days ago. His class teacher said that the boys in the next class not only smoked, but also fought with classmates from other schools and wrestled with many classmates, and were taken away by the police station at that time. Later, everyone recorded it wrong.

This will be a stain that those children will never erase and will be recorded as students.

The son went on to say, "On Saturday, a girl in our class invited many students to KTV for their birthdays. When she was singing, she rushed over and kissed Huang Yiran. In the evening, when Huang Yiran came home, her mother was very angry when she saw the lipstick marks on his face. The next day she went to school and said that she would call the police. Fortunately, I made up the lessons that day, otherwise I would have gone. "

I was shocked to hear that. Are all children so precocious nowadays?

I comfort my children and feel anxious. "It seems that sex education is imminent."

"Education is no small matter", and sex education is the top priority.

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Two days ago, my colleagues in obstetrics and gynecology talked about such a thing.

On that day, two boys and girls, about 15 years old, were pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.

At that time, Dr. Wang was on duty. Seeing that the two children were quite tall but full of childishness, she asked a family member. The two children left in a hurry and did whatever they wanted.

Doctor Wang said with a face of regret. "Fortunately, the child has grown up, otherwise it is really an endless heart." Colleagues are also crying.

We say "study hard" to our children all day, but we always hide our children's adolescent education.

Because no one taught us how to protect ourselves better in adolescence, we naturally don't tell our children what to do right.

16-year-old nephew is addicted to chicken shake these two days.

The content in it is really pleasing. In the era of network information, opening a web page casually may have unhealthy content. Of course, we don't have to panic. With proper guidance, children will grow up healthily.

Adolescence is a watershed in a child's life. Parents should pay special attention to what to say and do. Be a good life guide for children, and your career will be half successful!