After being single for a long time, I feel this way, as if everyone is fine and no one likes it. Indeed, being single for a long time will lose this feeling of liking people. People who don't particularly care about anything just need to take care of themselves every day and do their best. This kind of life is really easy, but it is also very lonely. Some people say that I am not afraid of loneliness, but I am more comfortable than loving you. What a deep injury this is.
If you lose the ability to like people, you can probably joke as much as you like, because you don't care. Such people look more optimistic than anyone else and live freely every day. Yes, no one can make you scratch your heart, think about it day and night, and naturally live comfortably.
Of course, loneliness is the norm. Don't look at such people who are not sad every day. They have many friends every day, but none of them likes them. No amount of friends and no amount of play can fill this loneliness. Sometimes they want to find someone they like, but they are afraid that that person will make you sad again, so they can only be timid.
Such people feel insecure. It is impossible for such a person to take the initiative to chase a person. If the person you like has lost the ability to like, then go for it boldly. Be nice to him and give him a sense of security. The important thing is persistence. I'm sure you will catch up. Of course, you should treat him well after you catch him. After all, he may not be with you because he likes you, or he may just be unable to let go of the sense of security you gave him. All you have to do is turn this sense of security into love.