In recent days, because of Ruyi's royal love in the palace, angels have once again returned to everyone's sight. That year, I don't know how many girls fell in love with Lily because of Leng Qingqiu, and I don't know how many boys can't forget that smile.

"Golden Powder Family" is a good idol drama, with both the plot and the actors' acting skills online. Playboy Jin Yanxi fell in love with the arrogant and simple Leng Qingqiu, and fell in love with her at first sight, abandoning Bai Xiuzhu and other rich girls with both talents and looks, and staged the Republican version of the overbearing president falling in love with Cinderella.

I was especially envious of Leng Qingqiu when I was young. I thought she dared to love and hate. When she loves, she is vigorous and arrogant. So my QQ signature in those years was: "I am like this, it doesn't matter if you don't like it." I think I must be like this in the future. If I love someone, I will put a moth to the fire. If I don't love someone, I will tell the whole world. I will never make up my mind and I will never compromise.

However, after so many years of ups and downs, I have loved some people, been loved by some people, and disappointed some people. I understand more and more that in my feelings, people without talent are doomed to be losers.

So when I watched this TV series again, I didn't like Leng Qingqiu very much, but fell in love with Bai Xiuzhu, which made me move. Compared with Leng Qingqiu's silly white sweet, her rose with thorns is more charming.

Bai Xiuzhu loved Jin Yanxi deeply at first, and even committed suicide for him. Although this is a bit silly, I am optimistic about her later big reversal.

After going abroad for further study, Bai Xiuzhu was a different person. She is still beautiful, but she is no longer the silly woman who always wants to please Jin Yanxi. She became proud, and she was good at all kinds of social occasions, which surprised Jin Yanxi and saw Bai Xiuzhu that he had never paid attention to.

Zhang Ailing once said: "Maybe every man has had two such women, at least two. Married a red rose, over time, the red one turned into a touch of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still "the bright line at the foot of my bed"; When you marry a white rose, the white rose is the rice grain on your clothes, and the red rose is the Zhu Shazhi in your heart. "

In fact, men are all the same, white roses and red roses, both want, but the one that can never be obtained is better. That's probably it, so Jin Yanxi likes being with Bai Xiuzhu more and more. He found that Leng Qingqiu, who was married home, was no longer a lily without a trace of dust that day. She became worldly and boring. And Bai Xiuzhu's half distance, but always provoke his heart, let him stop.

But at this time, Bai Xiuzhu was no longer Bai Xiuzhu at that time. She kept her distance from Jin Yanxi, and it was not until Jin Fu began to decline that she seized the opportunity and won it in one fell swoop.

I think it's ridiculous to watch Jin Yanxi kneeling in a hotel and proposing to Bai Xiuzhu to take herself abroad. This is a man, especially a man who can assess the situation. When he has plenty of food and clothing, he says that love is supreme, but when he is in trouble, he easily slaps himself.

Of course, this is not the climax. The climax was that Jin Yanxi returned to the government and announced that she would marry Bai Xiuzhu. Only then did she know that Bai Xiuzhu had gone far away. Looking at his amazement, my feeling is just one word: cool!

Am I a little dark? I can't help it It's too dark. I think Bai Xiuzhu is a model of women in the new era. If you hate someone, you should take revenge, but you should not rush to improve yourself until the other person can't reach it and then give a fatal blow.

Really, many times, if you are hurt, you don't have to worry about making the other person regret it. What you should do is to try to make yourself better. As the saying goes, when you hate someone, try to fly higher until you can't see him at all.

I still clearly remember Bai Xiuzhu's eyes when he looked back before leaving the railway station. She is firm in the cold, and sure enough, not loving is a woman's most powerful weapon.

— 02 —

I often receive private letters from some girls saying that they have been hurt by love rat, and they especially hate me. When they ask me how to get back at that man, I often tell the story of Bai Xiuzhu. Let me tell you first, many people say that women are realistic, but I think men are often more realistic than women. Women will die of love, but men rarely indulge in a relationship. Men are always willing to find a woman with higher cost performance all their lives.

Therefore, for such an influential ex-boyfriend, I think the best way of revenge is to try to live better than him.

If he drinks too much, you should study hard and improve yourself. He sings every night, and you learn a musical instrument to enrich yourself; He is fickle. You should do a good job and make yourself financially independent.

Maybe in this process, he seems to come out faster and live more easily than you, and you may be very painful and tormented. But after this period of time, you will find that the person who was once full of joy in every way is now full of shortcomings.

Do you know why? That's because you have become excellent, you are no longer in the same class as him, what you see is different, and the feelings and people you want are no longer him.

Besides, your lack of love is the most cruel weapon of this man.

Have you ever heard a saying, who is a man's favorite woman Ex-girlfriends "love more if they can't get it" is the truth.

For men, they like the new and hate the old, but they also like to compare. Maybe when they are separated from you, they think you are not good here or there, but after a long time, he will suddenly miss you, because he has forgotten the reason why he once hated you, and now his eyes are full of this excellent you. And the girl who made him want to stop before began to become an old man, suffering the pain you suffered at that time.

At this time, it is particularly easy for men to turn back, but you have a new life. ok, revenge is over and the ending is perfect.

Maybe you have to ask, why did it end like this? Shouldn't he come to me, I pretend to make up, and then dump him? Is that revenge?

Hey, dear girl, I don't know if you see the temptation to go home. In fact, revenge is a double-edged sword, hurting people and hurting themselves. Many times, it is enough to know that the other person is not as good as himself. There is no need to pester him and waste his good time in love rat.

— 03 —

My best friend J was harassed by her ex-boyfriend the other day. It is said that when this love rat dumped her a year ago, it was called a malicious one, and there was really no room for it. Bad words stuck in the girl's heart like handfuls of knives, and finally he blacked out all the contact information of the girl.

During that time, the girl was really miserable, but instead of pestering the man, she learned from the bitter experience and decided to let go.

I watched her sign up for many classes, arrange time to travel, and then work hard for the rest of the time. In a year, she became more and more beautiful, and many amateur careers flourished.

In the process of becoming more and more excellent, she met many good boys, rich, handsome and kind to her, but now she has become more mature and sensible, and will not be fooled by a few sweet words as before. She said, this time, keep your eyes open and make a good choice.

While she was still choosing, that love rat suddenly appeared. He had something in front of the girl, and instead of contacting her, he was a ghost. As we all know, he just wants that girl to take the initiative to find him, because the former girl was unconditionally obedient to him.

However, he never imagined that this girl would completely change and become so charming in this year. So he began to be anxious. The more girls ignore him, the more anxious he becomes. He sent flowers, dragged others to send messages and jumped up and down like a clown.

My best friend finally couldn't help it. One day, after receiving the flowers, she sent him a message: "Please stop this ridiculous behavior. I really really really don't like you. Please leave me alone and let's go our separate ways. "

Since then, this man has disappeared, and he is a little self-aware.

I asked my best friend why she didn't accept it, and then dumped him to make him feel the pain at that time. My best friend smiled and said, "What, dogs bite, and people still bite dogs?" Isn't it silly of me to waste my time on him? With this time, I can do a lot of things well! "

At that moment, I felt that my best friend was shining brightly, which was a mature and confident charm. I think this is what a woman should have. It's good to have you, and I can be better without you. — 04 —

Always compete with peers, not fools.

When you are hurt by a person's disappointment, the last thing you should do is to immerse yourself in sadness, because the sadder you are, the more proud the other person will be. The most important thing you should do is to try to make yourself better, even if the reason why you become better is to make this man come back.

But I'm telling you, when you get better, you really don't want him to turn back. You want to thank him for not getting married.

Many babies know that I am making a weight loss plan. Every baby comes to me to lose weight, I will ask, what is the reason why you want to lose weight? I remember a baby fan saying that her ex-boyfriend cheated on her because she thought she was fat, so she wanted to slim down and get back in shape.

I didn't say anything at that time, so I started to help her customize her weight loss plan, because although I don't think you should lose weight for a man, I think it is absolutely right for you to lose weight and become beautiful.

Later, after more than a month, the girl lost 15 Jin, and suddenly changed from a chubby girl to a beautiful girl. On graduation day, I said, you can go to him and surprise him.

But do you know what that girl said? She said: "I suddenly don't want to go to him. At first, because he lost weight, but later he didn't. I wanted to make myself better. I am confident and happy now, which he can't give me. I don't think he is good enough for me. I deserve better. "

You know, I was very happy at that moment, really happy for her, because she finally lived herself. In fact, there should be such a mentality in love. I don't love you, but I am better because I love you.

Of course, the final outcome is inevitable. The big pig's hoof suddenly saw the thin girl one day and turned around to provoke it, but the girl severely refused.

Is this ending really cool? But I think the coolest thing is not that men are beaten, but that girls are getting more and more wonderful.

So, how to retaliate against the ex-boyfriend of power? The answer is simple, trying to be better, too good for him to bear.