Looking back on the past eleven years, the person who has had the greatest influence on me is undoubtedly my mother.
My mother is no different from ordinary people, but what affects me the most is her tolerance, understanding, openness and silent love.
Since I was just sensible, she often said to me, "Mom wants you to be happy all your life. Learning how to survive is not the whole of life. I hope you can learn to enjoy life. " Although I didn't quite understand what mom meant at that time, now I find that she has been working hard for it. Since I was very young, my mother has been deliberately cultivating my reading habits. I have told her my reading experience since she first read me.
For my hobbies, my mother never interferes, and I am naturally very happy to study through the interest class I choose. She also chose sports for me that I am not good at to temper my will and give me the courage to face setbacks and failures. What surprised me most was that my mother let me learn Latin dance. At first, I felt very depressed. But now I understand what it means to enjoy life. When I stand on the stage like a star, I want to say to my mother:
Many parents think that their children are "black when they are near Zhu Zhechi", so they don't let their children associate with classmates with poor grades, but their mothers don't agree with this view. She thinks that since people close to "ink" will be black, why not let others get close to "Zhu" and become red? She is very much in favor of my association with the "problem" children in my class and expressed great gratitude for my help and encouragement. In the fourth grade, there was a particularly naughty classmate in our class. He regards me as his only bosom friend and tells me what he is thinking. With my sincere help and encouragement, he has made great progress, which makes me very pleased.
My mother often says that learning is our own business, and each of us is responsible for what we do. So she pays attention to my learning process, but doesn't care about my exam results. If I do well in the exam, my mother won't reward me easily. If I don't do well in the exam, she will encourage me and help me analyze the reasons. When I am depressed because of failure, she will gently touch my head and say, "Son, just because I failed once or twice doesn't mean."
Many students in my class like to visit my home, and their feelings can be summed up in one sentence-"Your mother is so enthusiastic!" As everyone said, any classmate, regardless of her grades and family background, is equally hospitable. Everything she does makes me feel that my friend enjoys the same treatment as her friend. My mother's words and deeds taught me, and I learned to be tolerant, understanding, broad-minded and considerate of others.
In my life, my mother has always been the closest and dearest person around me, being caring and attentive. She did so much for me, but she never asked for anything in return. What a generous and selfless love it is! It is this love that has given me so many things that I cannot forget.
My mother, like a loyal navigator, set the right course for my life boat. At the same time, she also let me experience the test of rainstorm and storm, tempered my will, and let me fly freely in the vast sea. My mother's love is like a mountain, like the sea. There are thousands of waters in Qian Shan, but it can't compare with her love for me.
If I learn a little care and gratitude, and learn a little confidence and persistence in getting along with others, I will thank the person who has the greatest influence on me in my life-my mother.
What has the greatest influence on me
In the fourteen years since I was born, the person who influenced me the most should be said to be my father. Until now, I still remember what he did for my growth.
When I was very young, my father began to teach me to recite ancient poems, perhaps to cultivate my literary accomplishment. There is still a scene in my mind: when I was very young, I lived in my grandmother's house. In the evening, my family of three got into bed, and my father pointed at me with a book of 300 Tang poems: "There are no birds in the mountains ..." So I followed: "There are no birds in the mountains.
My father likes fishing, so I often go with him. As a child, I am extremely impatient. Like the kitten in Cat Fishing, I fished for a while and then went to play everywhere. I had a wonderful time alone in that suburb. Later, when I was busy with my studies, I seldom went fishing with my father. It was not until the end of the winter vacation last year that I finally had the opportunity to go fishing with my father. After all, I have grown up and have good patience.
When I was in primary school, my test scores were very unstable and careless, so sometimes my scores fluctuated greatly. Whenever I fail in the exam, my mother will severely criticize me, but my father is amiable: "It doesn't matter if I make mistakes occasionally." The exam can only represent the past. Work hard next time! " Therefore, when I was in primary school, I had the idea that I would get my mom's signature if I did well in the exam, and my dad's signature if I didn't. Under my father's repeated inculcation, I found my self-confidence and could face the exam with a relaxed attitude every time. Finally, I got my father's autograph less and less ... under his guidance, I became one of the best in the whole grade. So, my good grades.
Until now, my father is still silently caring for me. Every morning, he seldom eats poached eggs, just let me eat more to have a good energy to start the day.
To my father, I have only two words: gratitude!