Do you know what children least like and most like to hear from their parents?

In the "Youth Blue Book" released by the Institute of Journalism and Communication of the Academy of Social Sciences and other institutions, based on research, Here are the 5 things that children don’t like most from their parents. Come and see if you fall into the trap?

1 Urging study: go study quickly/do your homework quickly;

2 Comparison with peers: look at other people’s children/look at others;

3 Entertainment restrictions: No mobile phones allowed/No watching TV/No playing games;

4 Direct denial: Really useless/stupid;

5 Others: I know how to play all day long.

In fact, excellent children are created by parents’ “routines”. If the above words of denial and disrespect for children are replaced by the following “routines”, the children will become better day by day, and the better their parents will be. The more careful you are, the better your child will be. Moms, please like and save it for daily use~

1 Invincible Rainbow Fart

Baby, I admire you for starting your homework as soon as you get home from school. You! Or baby, your homework efficiency today is much better than yesterday. Keep up the good work. Mom believes you will do better and better.

2 Strengthen reverse thinking

Mom sees that you are working hard, and I believe you will do better next time.

3 Exaggerate self-discipline

Wow, you didn’t want to do your homework, but you still finished it so quickly. How did you do it? Tell me about it

4 Praise for trustworthiness

You turned off the TV after watching half an hour of cartoons. You are really a good kid who keeps your promise.

5 Encourage expression

Although you lost your temper, mom knows that you must have your own reasons. Can you tell me?

6 Open your heart

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That’s it. Thank you for sharing your little secret with me. Mom will help you keep it.

7 Frustration Education

It doesn’t matter, setbacks will make you stronger. You have done a good job, and mom believes you will do better next time.

8 Frustration Guidance

This thing is a bit difficult to do, but you have persisted and never given up, and you have done a good job, baby, that’s great!

9 Listen patiently

What you say makes sense, you express it clearly, and you have strong logical thinking skills.

10 Affirmative Behaviors

You have kept the toy area so tidy, don’t you feel a sense of accomplishment!