I am very glad to be able to listen to Professor Chu Xunying, an expert who cares about the next generation working committee, at school last night-"Be smart parents and let children grow up happily". I want to record my gains and feelings in words and share them with more people.

First of all, I would like to pay tribute to Professor Chu. She put down the manuscript and stood for an hour. It seems that Professor Chu is at least over sixty years old, and her mental outlook, refined speech and effective interaction have deeply infected me. What moved me even more was that after the lecture at 7: 30, parents went into the classroom to hold a class parent-teacher meeting. When I left at 9 o'clock, I saw Professor Chu and several staff members standing at the school gate selling books and signing their names in the cold wind. I bought a book immediately after the lecture, because I really knew the importance of family education and didn't want to miss any learning opportunity, but I didn't sign Professor Chu's name because there were too many people, and I thought the essence of the book was the most important, and the signature was just empty.

When he left the school, Professor Chu greeted him warmly: "You don't have time to sign, bring it here and I'll sign it." The professor solemnly wrote on the title page of the book: Son, you can do it!

I can eagerly feel the concern and care of a front-line educator and an expert who has been engaged in family education research and promotion for decades. Today, I also want to say to Professor Chu: Thank you, as a parent, I can do it!

Professor Chu's one-hour lecture mainly focused on the establishment of children's good habits, and gave a detailed explanation from the aspects of cultivating children's habit of concentration, establishing family incentive mechanism, and cultivating children's good living habits and reading habits. I have ideas and methods. I practiced from the schedule when I came home last night.

Among them, the professor said: "example is more important than words", which impressed me the most. Today, I want to focus on this point.

The homework left by Chinese teacher Lu Ben on Tuesday is to do an investigation activity of "running a red light". After school, my children and I started field investigation and recording at the school gate. After half an hour, the result was amazing.

This incident made me start to reflect on the timely effect and bad educational consequences of my parents' words and deeds. I believe there is no parent-teacher meeting to educate children to run red lights, but we obviously did it ourselves and took our children with us. Can parents establish their prestige in family education by their words and deeds? And children will certainly imitate their parents' behavior.

There are many such examples, including myself, which should be deeply reviewed. For example, we don't let children play with mobile phones, but we can't do without them. For example, we teach our children to be friendly with others, but it is inevitable that they will gossip after dinner; For example, we teach our children to be honest and trustworthy, but occasionally they are duplicitous and perfunctory. ......

Parents are originals and children are copies. Teaching by example is more important than words, which deserves our deep thought and reflection.

Socrates famously said, "Education is not instilling, but igniting"; IELTS Bells also famously said, "The essence of education is: a tree shakes another tree, a cloud pushes another cloud, and one soul awakens another soul."

Being an excellent or qualified parent is a rigorous and glorious duty, and it is also the most important duty of parents. This job is lifelong, and it doesn't mean the end of the responsibility just because the children grow up, because each stage has different challenges. Almost all occupations in the world have job descriptions, pre-job training and on-the-job training. It's just that parents lack such education, which is a lesson that every parent needs to make up. The sooner the better, the more positive the family will benefit.

Parents take a small step forward, children take a big step forward. Xiu Yuan has a long way to go. Let's work together to be excellent parents!

Wuji 90 days grow up training camp