In fact, what others say behind your back is like an arrow without poison and any power, which can't reach your heart. But the stupidest thing is that many people pick up the arrow that fell to the ground, pierce their own hearts and suffer unnecessary injuries. Later, they said that this kind of arrow is very poisonous and cruel!
3, people will always encounter setbacks, there will be low tides, there will be times when they are not understood, and there will be times when they have to feel inferior. These are the most critical times in life. At such a moment, we need to wait patiently and confidently, believing that life will not abandon you and fate will not abandon you. I can't stand loneliness and can't see prosperity.
Only when you are down and out can you understand how few people are willing to help you. Only when you are poorest can you understand that no matter how good your feelings are, they can't compare with reality. People are not greedy for money but afraid of suffering. Only in the long life did I understand that romance is easy and patience is difficult. Everyone can love you, but few people are willing to put up with you. Therefore, what we should cherish most in this world are these three kinds of people: friends who need timely help, women who are willing to accompany you through poverty, and men who put up with you in everything.
There are too many uncertainties in the road we have to take. A word of advice from others, a flash of my own thoughts, and occasional gains and losses are all changing the direction of our destiny all the time. You never know, when things happen, you don't have to be too persistent, and no one can take anything away. Why bother about someone, a time or something? Only by being open-minded, can we conform to fate, nature and heart, without anxiety, sadness or joy, salty or light, and be happy with everything.
6. I admit that I have always been weak, and time has passed countless times, claiming that I have changed a lot. But often in the middle of the night, I still see my heart. What I want hasn't changed, but I haven't mentioned it for a long time, thinking that everything has faded away, maturing day by day in front of others, showing calmness and calmness, and my heart is slowly cooling at an unconscious speed. But I think this is growth.
7. I don't want anything I used to want. If you had asked me what kind of person I wanted to be three years ago, I would have said without hesitation that I wanted to be a person who could get along with everyone. If you ask me the same question today, I will definitely say, I'd better keep my present lofty and aloof status quo. This way, no one will bother me and save a lot of trouble.
8. The common fault of some people is that it is easy to see others, but it is not easy to see yourself. We can carefully consider other people's problems, but we can take a cursory look at our own problems. A selfish heart will naturally cultivate a pair of selfish eyes, a caring lifestyle, and an attitude of being keen on telling people right and wrong behind their backs. I despise others all my life. On the other hand, I have never seen myself clearly.
9. There are old monks and young monks on the mountain who like to complain. One day, the old monk cooked a meal, while the young monk ate and complained that the mountain road was not easy to walk and the incense in the temple was not prosperous. The old monk asked: How did the food taste? The young monk answered, but didn't pay attention to what he said. The old monk asked him to try it again, and the young monk said it was delicious. The old monk said with a smile, when you keep complaining, you will forget to enjoy the happiness in life now.
10, a truly powerful person, will have inner light, attract people to discover, and will definitely not show off. Showing off will only cover up the real light, showing off will attract a moment and get superficial affirmation, and showing off will only make people lose the perseverance to continue to pursue real skills.
1 1, sometimes, we live very tired, not because life is too mean, but because we are too easily infected by the external atmosphere and influenced by other people's emotions. Walking in the crowd, we always feel that there are countless pairs of eyes sweeping our hearts and lungs, and there are many rumors, which eventually confuse our minds and gradually bind us in a mess we weave. In fact, you live for yourself, and not many people can take you to heart.
12, the common fault of some people is that it is easy to see others, but it is not easy to see themselves. We can carefully consider other people's problems, but we can take a cursory look at our own problems. A selfish heart will naturally cultivate a pair of selfish eyes, a caring lifestyle, and an attitude of being keen on telling people right and wrong behind their backs. I despise others all my life. On the other hand, I have never seen myself clearly.
13, I feel more and more that besides good appearance and rich knowledge, one of the great charms of people is that they can live and take care of themselves and others. When I was a child, I didn't know how to take care of myself, which would make people feel distressed. But adults don't know how to take care of themselves, don't care about their health, and don't care about the people around them. It's cool to live a rough life, but they have no taste.
14. If you are injured, please remember that it is not because you are not good enough. Everyone who is hurt is actually a good person. He is hurt only because of kindness and trust. The most unfair thing in this world is that good people are more vulnerable. So next time, find someone better than you. Although people can't help loving bad people, good people feel safe. It is human nature to love bad people. Marrying a good man is life.
15, if you don't know the true face of life, you should look in the mirror more often. If you can't see yourself clearly in the mirror, it means that you are very close to the neon of the city. After the incest with reality, you find yourself a concubine of money and a slave of freedom from the day you grow up! The most basic attraction between people is for physiological needs; Next, for the benefit of * * * *; And the most like a duck to water, the most exciting, is the thought of * * *.
16, everyone is very busy. Busy growing up, lost innocence. Busy making money, ignoring thoughts. Busy with success, missed the scenery. The nutrition in the years has turned into fast food in a hurry. Those stories that should have been unforgettable in time, so quickly followed up, failed to catch our shadow. No one can walk the road of life twice. Walk slowly and look carefully. Don't worry. Actually, you are in no hurry.
17,. There are two bamboos, one made into a flute and the other made into a clotheshorse. The clothesline asked the flute unconvinced: We are all bamboos on a mountain. Why should I be exposed to the sun and rain every day and be worthless? How many thousands of dollars are you worth? The flute replied: because you only got a knife, I went through a lot of work, carefully crafted, and there was silence at this time. So is life. Life will be valuable only if it can withstand polishing, loneliness, responsibility and mission. Don't be jealous when you see the brilliance of others, because others pay more than you.
18, the fox found a nest of chickens, because he was too fat to get in. He was hungry for three days and finally got in, but he was full and couldn't get out, so he had to be hungry for three days before coming out. Finally, he lamented that he had been very busy in this process except for his mouth addiction. Life is not like this! It is difficult to buy back youth with the money earned by youth; It is difficult to buy back life with the money earned by life; It is difficult to earn back time by making money in time; Therefore, it is very important to learn to rest and be happy.