In public,
A basic rule is:
Respect each other and not interfere with others.
Obstruct others' behavior,
Ask for each other's consent.
Do not harm others, but benefit others as much as possible.
This is quality,
It's also upbringing.
As Yu said, education means that when you walk among a group of people, you behave appropriately and make people feel polite and happy.
The gap between people is actually the gap in academic qualifications. The behavior of those "lying dead" troops is doomed to be philistine, selfish and low-level ordinary citizens. For the phenomenon of "lying dead", IKEA's response is more atmospheric and educational.
Education is not a criterion for measuring others, but a criterion for self-discipline. Only truly educated people can live in a higher standard of living.
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Grimmelshausen once said, "A man's mind without education, knowledge and practice is like a field. Even if this land is naturally fertile, it will not bear fruit without farming and sowing. " No matter how much a person has, he lacks education and can only live a low life.
I believe many people know Bo Huang, an actor who looks like a passerby in the entertainment circle. In the entertainment circle where small fresh meat and handsome uncle are rampant, he has become the "dream lover" of more and more women with his good upbringing, from walk-on to supporting role to today's viewing guarantee.
I remember once, he was recognized as Wang by fans at the airport. The fans are very excited and keep pulling him and saying that they like his thief-free world very much. Although he looked confused, he immediately understood that his fans mistook him for king. But he wasn't angry or unhappy, and even cooperated with his fans and chatted with each other about world without thieves. Finally, fans asked for autographs one after another and signed their names to Wang seriously.
His enthusiasm and patience make fans feel that Wang is very grounded and doesn't play big cards at all.
Afterwards, someone asked him what it was like to be mistaken for king.
? Bo Huang said: I am very proud of Bao Qiang.
Because of his education, he responded to fans who mistook him for a high emotional intelligence; ? Because of his high academic qualifications, he was also treated well by the world and liked by fans, which gradually opened the door to success in the entertainment circle.
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Liang once summed up the word "culture" like this: self-cultivation is rooted in the heart; No consciousness of reminding; Freedom based on constraints; Be nice to others.
The same is probably true of truly educated people. Those who are deeply educated in their bones have light in their eyes, love in their hearts, and are extremely calm, bringing people the feeling of spring breeze at any time. Will eventually be treated gently by the world.
I believe many people live in the shadow of "other people's children". Recently, a "other people's mother" appeared in the hit drama "Little Joy". As soon as the fairy mother Liu Jinggang appeared in the play, she gave people a feeling of being gentle at home and keeping quiet for many years.
Because of work, Mr. and Mrs. Liu Jing and their son have been separated all the year round, and suddenly they parachuted in, leaving the family at a loss. The son is rebellious and the father is conservative. It's all because of this treasure that my mother mediated. In order to make up for the regret that son Ji missed the swearing-in meeting and released balloons, he bought balloons himself, but lied to his son that it was his father who ordered the high emotional intelligence to melt the hard ice between father and son. A family of three stood together for the first time, holding hands and wishing, but because of his father's victory in the season, "it is illegal to put balloons in the sky", and his son lost in an instant. Liu Jing pretended to appease her husband, saying that she would tie the balloon to the railing, then quietly let go and turned to blink at her son, naughty and warm.
In order to untie the child's heart, Liu Jing also took her husband to the racecourse to understand his son's interest and feel his inner world. From her studies to her hobbies, she always respects her children's choices as a teacher and friend. It also makes the alienated feelings in the whole family gradually warm up and become more intimate.
Under the gentle and delicate education, Ji, who is indifferent and rebellious and does whatever he wants, finally becomes a well-behaved and sensible little warm man. In order to fight cancer with his mother, he shaved his head and worked hard.
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Whether a person is educated or not determines his level. People without education will be looked down upon no matter how valuable they are. A well-educated person can get others' affection and appreciation when standing in the mud.
Yi Shu said: I choose to help or repay others, whether it's lifting a finger or borrowing money. Don't ask for anything in return, but ask for peace of mind.
Sometimes a small move may bring great warmth to others. There is a long queue in front of the ticket vending machine at the railway station. When a girl was about to be late, she hurried to the first row. The little brother in front said:
"Can I buy a ticket first? My train will be late. "
The little brother said, "well, run slowly later and be careful to fall."
then ...
Little brother went to the back of the line and lined up again.
True education is the cultivation rooted in the heart, and it is the strength and vitality of the soul. Truly educated people are modest and gentle as jade. They don't despise the weak, don't look up to the strong, respect others and know how to respect themselves, and always keep their lives noble.
People are expensive because they are trustworthy and polite; The reason why the country can be strong is because there is only honesty and righteousness. People with education can walk around, but they can't walk without education.