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What is missing in the birthday and how to name it?
(Gregorian calendar) February 25th, 2009 12: 00.

At 10: 00 on the first day of November in the ugly year of the lunar calendar (Year of the Ox)

Eight characters: ugly, ugly, ugly, ugly, ugly, ugly.

Five elements: earth fire, water, wood, earth and gold fire.

Yin Na: Thunderstorm.

There are five elements of soil prosperity in this life; The sun is dry wood; There must be a fire gang, but avoid too much soil.

(1 wood, 2 fire, 3 soil, 1 gold, 1 water, 2:6)

(when naming, you can correct the deviation and fill the vacancy according to the above situation. )

The five elements of the Zhao character belong to fire, and 1 gold 1 water can be added to the name.

How to name it, please refer to:

The name is not standardized and the words are not fluent. When the baby is born, parents are most concerned about giving the child a good name. In order to give children a good name, many people have racked their brains, read Ci Hai, read Tang poetry, asked friends, and chose a name that is not ideal. Naming, seemingly easy, is actually very difficult. The simple combination of two or three words contains many skills and methods. To make the name fluent, simple, profound and unforgettable, we should pay attention to the three principles of form, sound and meaning when naming. It's easier said than done, because there are many taboos in naming, which requires new parents to be careful everywhere and try to prevent problems before they happen. Now these common taboos in naming are summarized as follows:

1, avoid the names of ancestors and sages.

The names of Han people generally avoid the names of their ancestors. One is that the Han people traditionally talk about seniority. Taking the names of ancestors not only disturbs the order of generations; And it will be considered disrespectful to our ancestors. Second, due to the particularity of the Han nationality. China people inherit their stepfather's surname first, and then give individuals a name, while some ethnic minorities or foreigners have their own names, father's names or mother's and father's names. For example, the French name is usually three paragraphs, namely, the real name, the mother's surname and the father's surname. If the Chinese name inherits the father's surname and the ancestor's name, there is no difference between the two, so you can't tell whether Li Si is a grandfather or a son.

Under the feudal system, people should not only respect their ancestors, but also regard them as supreme. Even calling the monarch by his first name is a big violation. During the Yongzheng and Qianlong periods of the Qing Dynasty, people could be sentenced to death, and this alone affected nine imperial families. So this taboo is called "national taboo". But as far as modern people are concerned, only the names are concerned, and generally the names of great men and celebrities are not used. However, because some people revere great men or celebrities, they deliberately take his name. For example, Li Dalin and Zhang Dayi were named after Li Dazhao and Stalin. Of course, people surnamed Zhao and Guan should not be named as "Zilong" or "Yunchang", otherwise they will be indistinguishable from today.

2, taboo coldness

Names are used for communication, otherwise, names lose their value of existence. Today is the era of computers, and the vast majority of Chinese characters stored by computers are limited to commonly used words. If some uncommon words are used in naming, which most people don't know, it will definitely affect the communication between people. Naming with uncommon words can only increase the difficulty and trouble of others' work in vain.

The motivation for people to choose uncommon words when naming names is actually very simple, that is, to be unconventional. But the commonly used words that people generally know are three or four thousand words, and the naming is mainly for others, not to show off their knowledge. Someone once said, for example, if you apply for a job in a certain department, if the supervisor doesn't recognize your name after reading your resume, then the impression on you must be very vague. If he mispronounced your name when calling you, and you corrected it, this scene may embarrass the leader. The leader will feel embarrassed or even angry because of losing face, and you may feel contempt because the leader doesn't even know your name. In the process of getting along with superiors and subordinates in the future, some disharmony or disharmony may occur. Naming should avoid sameness and sameness, but it should not rely on the use of uncommon words. The use of uncommon words affects the image and hinders communication, which is not worth the loss.

The number of Chinese characters in China is huge, with 42,000 words in Kangxi Dictionary alone, 174 words. In addition, there are often very subtle differences between traditional Chinese characters and simplified Chinese characters, ancient and modern Chinese characters, regular script characters and popular Chinese characters. In the old days, people named it, and they liked to look up the Kangxi dictionary, which was not worth taking. To use reference books, the most ideal one is Modern Chinese Dictionary. It also includes the words under each word, which is of great reference value for naming. Attention should also be paid to the use of this reference book, and uncommon words should be avoided when using it.

3. Taboo names are monotonous and repetitive.

Some people like to make a fuss about the physical structure of Chinese characters and give them names. For example, the names Shi, Lei, Lin, Sen, Nie and Er are examples. The aesthetic effect of this naming is quite good, but it's a pity that our surnames can be used so little. And even if Shi, Lin and Nie have three surnames, it is impossible for everyone to use this method.

Some people, such as Li Ji and Zhang Chi, like to use the same radical in their names and promote it as a naming technique, which is actually not worth promoting. If the radicals of three names are exactly the same, it will make people feel monotonous. Especially when signing calligraphy, we will feel more strongly that no matter how the names of Jiang Langtao and the radicals are arranged, there will be a dull and monotonous feeling, which will not produce arbitrary, changeable, tortuous and coherent aesthetic effects. Since it is named after Chinese characters, we should not only consider the elegant and exquisite abstract beauty in the sense, but also pay attention to the changeable image beauty when writing.

The above example shows that there is a collocation problem between the first name and the last name. If the body structure has not changed, the name will appear stiff.

In the past, there were two techniques for naming with glyphs. One was to split the surname into fame, and the other was to add the surname to the name. The so-called dividing surnames into first names refers to intercepting a part of a name as a first name or dividing a surname into two parts as a first name. For example, Yi Yin, assistant minister of Shang Tang, took a part of the surname "Yin". In addition, modern famous musicians Nie Er, Lao She, Zhang Dagong, Ji, Dong and Yang also belong to this category. In addition, Lei Yutian and He also divided their surnames into two parts as their names. In ancient times, some people divided their names by words, such as Xie Ao, a patriotic poet in the Southern Song Dynasty. The words were true and separated from the names. The characters Sanyi in Zhang Yi's works in Ming Dynasty, Ark in Xu Fang's works, Wen Yu in Song Mei's works, Tong Ren in You Dong's works in Qing Dynasty and Ji Ren in Lin Ji's works all belong to this category. Also like Mao Qiling in the Qing Dynasty. Others divide their names into numbers, such as Gu Yue, an old man of Hu Jue, and Shuiyue Tianlu of Xu Wei in Qing Dynasty.

Adding a name means adding some strokes or radicals to a surname to form a new word, such as Linsen, Seo Woo, Jin Xin and Li Ji.

4, taboo polyphonic words

Most surnames in China belong to monosyllabic characters. There are also some surnames that belong to polyphonic characters, such as the word le. This kind of surname will obviously cause trouble in communication. If the disyllabic surname is a helpless fact, then the drafting of the name can completely avoid this trouble. There is a student named Lele in a certain place in Shandong, and the teacher doesn't know how to call him in class. The teacher was stumped by this name. The three words of this name are all polyphonic and have eight pronunciations. Readers can organize themselves if they are interested.

It seems that this student's parents are deliberately against the whole society. A name actually has eight pronunciations. How to use it in communication situations? In the end, others dare not call if they want to, for fear that they will be laughed at if they call it wrong, and they will suffer. If others can't call, you can avoid it without calling. If a person's name is not called or used, what is the value of the name?

Therefore, polyphonic words should be avoided as much as possible. If you want to use it, it is best to link pronunciation and pronunciation into meaning to mark it. For example: Cui Letian and Meng. The former explains that "Le" should be pronounced as lè to "Day", while the latter explains that "Le" should be pronounced as yè to "Chapter". The last one tells you what meaningful reading is.

There are quite a few polyphonic words in Chinese, usually using only one sound. When naming such polyphonic words, don't worry about misunderstanding when using them.

5, avoid reading the word "around the mouth"

Naming can sometimes be done by overlapping sounds. For example: Tintin, Fangfang, Xinxin, etc. If it is not the same name, the pronunciation method of the first name and the last name should be separated by a certain distance, otherwise it will not read smoothly and will not achieve the expected effect. Some names are difficult to read. If they are not good, they will be mispronounced and misheard. The reason is that the names are awkward and almost become tongue twisters, such as Shen Jiji, Xia Ya I, Zhou Xiaochao, Geng, Zhang Changshang, Hu Chufu, Chen Yunlin and Fu. Some of these names use two homonyms, such as Yayi and Jiangjia. Some even use two homophones, such as Gigi, Xia Ya, Xiao Chao, Khufu and Li Zhi. The former is disyllabic and the latter rhymes. Some three words have the same rhyme, such as Zhang Changshang, Hu Chufu, Chen Yunlin and Fu. The so-called "circuitous" words mainly refer to disyllabic words, overlapping words and homophones. Because the initials are the same, continuous pronunciation is laborious; Words with the same rhyme are also difficult to pronounce; Therefore, double phonology is the main reason for "around the mouth". From this point of view, avoiding the word "awkward" mainly means not naming it with disyllabic or rhyming words. It will be much easier to master this law.

Naming that meets the standard of sound and beauty should be different groups of initials and different types of finals. For example: Peng Tao, Feng Qi, Lou Yun, Qi Fei, Yu Sheng, Wan Hong, etc. These names, because of the different phonological groups of first names and surnames, have changed their sounds and are easier to read.

If the first name and surname belong to the same group, or even exactly the same, as long as the relationship between vowels is handled well, the effect is also very good; On the other hand, if the first name and surname are the same, or even exactly the same, we must work hard on the initials. For example: Peng Bin, Fan Feng, Loulin, Zhang Chen, Yu Kuan, Fang Chuan, etc.

6, avoid reading indecent homophones

Some people's names look elegant on the surface, but because they sound the same or similar to other indecent words, they can easily cause people's ridicule and banter, become people's banter, and produce some funny comedy effects. These words can be divided into two categories: one is some idioms in life, and the other is derogatory. For example: Gong (Public Security Bureau), Cai Dao (kitchen knife), Lu Hui (ashes), monk (monk), Peach Blossom (peach blossom), Li Zongtong (Dean Li), (sugar ball), Bao (popcorn) and so on.

The above homophony makes the name appear not serious enough and solemn enough, and it is easy to give people a laughing stock in public. In addition, some names are easily misunderstood as derogatory terms, such as Bai Yanliang (Bai Yanlang), Hu Lijing (Fox) and Shen Jingbing (Neuropathy).

This homonym often becomes another name. If parents are not careful when naming names, it is easy to cause a heavy psychological burden to their children. It will be too late to regret it.

7. Avoid using too fashionable words.

At any historical stage, there will always be some extremely fashionable words. If you chase such a word when naming,

It is bound to make people feel that their parents are poor in cultural quality, simple and vulgar, and such names are easy to repeat. The Great Founding of the People's Republic of China in the 1950s and Weidong in the 1970s can be said to be all over the country. Li Jianguo, Ma Jianguo, Chen Jianguo, Wang Weidong, Liu Weidong and Zhao Weidong are thousands of people. Due to the spread of political fanaticism, it used to be the most fashionable thing to incorporate political colors into names. It is true that names do need to be decorated with colors, but the colors of names need to be rich and colorful. It's too monotonous for people to chase fashionable words. This can not help but make people think deeply. Although China has a feudal history of several thousand years, it pays attention to words such as loyalty and filial piety, but if the standardized words are removed, the usage frequency of words such as loyalty and filial piety is not high. This shows that the ancients did not like to follow the fashion when naming. Confucian masters of past dynasties, those great Confucians who tried their best to instill "loyalty, filial piety and benevolence" into people, which name has the word "loyalty and filial piety"? Confucius talked about benevolence all his life, but named his son after a fish? Carp. Pursuing fashion in politics is only a sign of political naivety and superficiality. This is an extreme pursuit of fashion.

Second, China people should not have foreign names. The descendants of the Chinese nation are descendants of an ancient civilization. Our nation has its own ethics, aesthetic consciousness and cultural value, and we should not despise ourselves. Especially in naming, it should reflect the need to maintain national characteristics. Folk believe that it is sometimes fashionable to choose names close to westernization, such as John, Mary, Lisa and Anna. However, in the future social changes and personal contacts, it may give the other party a psychological impression of contempt and unhappiness. Of course, this is a misunderstanding of different cultures, but this misunderstanding may also affect people's opportunities. It's not worth paying such a price for a name.

8, taboo too praise.

Whether a name is good or not lies not in how beautiful the words are, but in how good the words are. However, some people may make mistakes: naming boys is always inseparable from some overly aggressive words, such as Hao, Qiang, Yan, Meng, Chuang and Gang. Although they are strong and masculine in reading, they are easily associated with confusion and unrestrained, which makes them willful and informal and mistakenly think that they are some attractive people. Because the culture of China thinks that my fortitude and strength are not those who are brave in words and emotions, but those who are brave in drawing their swords when something happens, but some men who are calm and angry when something happens, laughing and laughing. Some people always beat around the bush in naming girls, such as Chunlan, Qiuju, Pearl Krabs, Yanyan and so on, but if they are placed in a certain cultural atmosphere, they will make people feel erratic. Such as flower, ping, Yan, peach, willow and other favorite words in female names. Although the flowers are beautiful for a while, they are unique and eye-catching, but after the storm, they will fall into the mud and be crushed into dust. Willow is also a soft and fragile thing. The willow flower, the residual flower and the defeated willow in the idiom show the emotional evaluation of the symbolic meaning of this thing. Peach blossom is associated with the decline of beauty. Ping He and Liu are symbols of loneliness and parting. Therefore, folklore believes that these seemingly bright words should be avoided when naming.

9. Most surnames avoid simple names.

At present, there is a craze for single names in China, and the biggest drawback of single names is that they cause a large number of duplicate names. Based on 4,000 Chinese characters, if everyone uses a single name, only 4,000 people can use a single name as their surnames, and the 400th1person will start to have the same name. In this way, the probability of duplicate names will inevitably increase greatly. On the contrary, although there are many people and few surnames in our country, the probability of duplicate names is very low if we adopt duplicate names and avoid using fashionable words and stereotypes.

Judging from the aesthetic effect, double names have incomparable advantages. Whether it is the collocation of glyphs, the harmony of pronunciation or the tempering of meaning, at least they have much more choice space than single names.

For a big country with a population of more than one billion, it is impossible to completely avoid duplicate names. Moreover, it doesn't matter much even if many little surnames have the same name. For example, there is rarely a Chu surname in a unit, and it is a miracle to have another person with the same name. That's not the last name. "Everywhere, Li Zhao, Liu", if such a surname takes a single name again, it will cause a lot of duplicate names.

People will notice that almost all people with the same name are the most common names. A unit has two "Liu Wei". If it is the opposite sex, people will be commensurate with "male Liu Wei" and "female Liu Wei"; If they are of the same sex, they are distinguished by "big Liu Wei", "small Liu Wei" or "fat Liu Wei" and "thin Liu Wei". Instead of letting others add words at will, why not add another word and change it to a double name? In the current single name craze, the most popular name should not be popular, so it is better to take a two-word name calmly. As long as we give full play to the advantages of dual names, it is not difficult to choose an elegant and loud name.

Generally speaking, it is relatively easy to take a small surname, and the choice is much larger than the big surname. Some words that have been abused by the big surname, coupled with the small surname, have a very different effect. For example: Feng Ke, Chu Jian, Kubin, Sahua, etc.

Of course, this does not mean that surnames can be sloppy. Except for the greater choice, the little surname and the big surname have almost the same problems.

10, taboo is not as good as the rest.

Some of the "forbidden areas" of names are social conventions, some are restricted by the meaning of words, and some are subordinate to their own social concepts and aesthetic consciousness. Some words have become "forbidden areas" for names.

Some words that mean filth and impurity are generally notorious. However, some people or regions have the custom of giving children "base names", "ugly names" and "dirty names" in order to prevent children from being patronized by demons and let them avoid disasters and live longer. In fact, this is a superstition. Some words that mean disease and ominous generally don't give names or numbers.

The names of parts and organs of the human body are inappropriate. But some of them are also famous, even often. There are the Spring and Autumn Period, the Qin and Han Dynasties, the Warring States Period, and the famous contemporary writer Liu. But these words of human organs are collocated with other words and have new meanings. Words such as heart have different meanings from human organs.

The names of some disgusting animals are not suitable for naming. But some animals are often named, such as leopard, Hu Wen, flat pigeon, Xiaoyan and so on.

Most elements have no names, but there are five common names, such as: gold, silver, copper, iron and tin; Named Jin Yu and Tie Sheng.

Generally speaking, appellations that represent generations are not given names, and there are also many "zi" names.

The names of typical characters in literary and artistic works are mostly ignored by later generations. The names of some typical characters and their specific meanings have become a part of China culture, and they have fixed meanings.

In addition to the above categories, of course, there are many words, words and names that are inconvenient or inappropriate to name. In fact, name taboos are all-encompassing and profound, including politics, culture, customs, psychology and many other contents.