In June of the same year 165438+ 10, I went to Wuhan alone. Hu Jieqing took the children to Beijing to take care of Lao She's mother.
During the War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression period, Lao She was a staunch anti-Japanese. She served as an anti-enemy association in the literary and art circles, and later moved to Chongqing with the literary and art association.
During this time, the two couples have been separated.
1942, Lao She's mother died, so Lao She couldn't go back to attend the funeral. Hu Jieqing wanted to reunite with Lao She with her children, but at that time, most of China was occupied by the Japanese army, and many places were full of war and danger. 1943 In the autumn, Lao She's best friend always rushed from Chongqing to Beiping to pick up the mother and son, but Lao She didn't know it.
With the help of Lao Xiang, Hu Jieqing took three children and started the feat of finding a husband thousands of miles away. They walked from Beijing to Chongqing for more than a month. They don't know how many trials, threats, dangers, air strikes, and finally arrived safely.
After the family arrived in Chongqing, Lao She did not show great joy. She just said to her friends, "Since you are here, let them come."
Lao She's reaction is actually very intriguing.
For many years, the descendants of Lao She did not want the world to see Lao She's moral defects, so they have been trying to create an image of Lao She who was wronged and loved his wife deeply.
Actually, it's not like this.
At that time, Lao She had a lover named Zhao Qingge in Chongqing, and even openly lived with Lao She in Chongqing. Both of them are very creative and sign their names together. Later, Hu Jieqing got the news and came to Chongqing for three months to break up the wild mandarin ducks.
Zhao Qingge
Knowing this fact, do you still find Hu Jieqing's husband-seeking in different places touching? More, is it a kind of sadness and dog blood?
In the era of bullets, he gave his biological mother to his wife for filial piety, leaving her three young children to take care of and raise. However, he openly lives with San Xiao in Chongqing, a relatively safe rear area.
After arriving in Chongqing, Hu Jieqing and Zhao Qingge "fled" Chongqing and went to Shanghai. Lao She was so attached that she "chased" to Shanghai. A month later, Hu Jieqing also "chased" to Shanghai. The stories of Lao She and San Xiao are as old-fashioned as the stories of all cheating men. After the Anti-Japanese War, Lao She went to the United States to give lectures for one year at the invitation of the State Council, and published four generations under one roof and other books.
After Lao She went to America, Xiao San Zhao Qingge wrote a short story, almost her own.
In the novel, a professor with a wife and children falls in love with an unmarried girl. After the victory of the Anti-Japanese War, the girl quietly left, leaving a rejection letter. After reading this letter, the professor left home to look for a young girl in Shanghai. Girls still care that professors have families. When the professor asked to leave Shanghai with the girl, the girl decided to leave quietly. Lao She did invite Zhao Qingge. He wrote to her, "I bought a house in Manila (Philippines). Let's live there for reunion. "
Zhao Qingge didn't promise. She replied to him in eight words: "One city, one side, never meet again."
Can Hu Jieqing not know about Lao She's affair?
She must know that we can even see how many nights she spent in insomnia, heartbreak and crying. In those days, she was also an ambitious person She studied under Qi Baishi and painted well, but Lao She didn't love her very much.
Hu Jieqing's paintings
Lao She went to the United States, and the person who saw me off at the dock was Zhao Qingge; During his lectures in the United States, his heart was full of Zhao Qingge. In the face of all this, Hu Jieqing's feelings can be imagined. I guess her heart is getting cold little by little until it is completely cold.
About Lao She's death, Yi Shu almost pushed everything to the "Cultural Revolution".
Indeed, without the "Cultural Revolution", Lao She might still be an official and still writing. However, when I think about the relationship between Lao She and his wife Hu Jieqing, I feel that Lao She's death is almost doomed.
There is a popular saying that Lao She's family was completely separated from him at that time. Lao She was criticized and returned to China critically ill. His family won't let him in, or even let him drink.
An old writer still remembers reading a poster in which Hu Jieqing exposed Lao She's infidelity. When Lao She was criticized by the bucket, he was in the most difficult and sinister situation, and needed the understanding and support of his relatives to get through it. His wife and children abandoned him and drew a clear line with him. This may be why he finally threw himself into the lake.
However, we can't bear to blame his family too much.
Think from the perspective of Lao She's wife and children. Husbands and fathers spend more time with their wives and children. During the period of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, regardless of the life and death of a young family in the war zone, they were all in a relatively safe city with San Xiao. After breaking up with San Xiao, they are still separated ... How can they not be heartbroken? Lao She spends more time with his family, and his feelings with his wife and children are average. Besides, his past extramarital affairs made him hated by his wife and children. So when he is in trouble, the indifference of his wife and children is understandable.
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