Every day 13: 08, give me 10 minutes.

Lu Lu badminton said.

Last year Lucidi began to enter the fourth grade, and I officially announced that I would no longer help her with her homework. The official reason is: "Mom is too busy to have time, let Dad come." It's actually my old mother. I am too poor and incompetent.

We are an international school. Sidi and Mizi have been studying English in our home for more than a year.

It seems yesterday that I was asking them to repeat, "What's your name?" Now when I open my mouth, they will curl their tongues and say, "Mom, if your hair is like this, your tongue will come out again, and you are wrong again ..."

One night, they opened an animated cartoon just sent by a teacher. The speech speed was so fast that I could only understand one word carelessly, but the two children laughed and danced with the play after watching it.

I said to Qiu, "My child actually has the characteristics of other children."

Qiu thought for 2 minutes before he realized that I was praising the child, and then said, "You didn't know? Last time you went to France, I took them to the movies. There are no subtitles in the original English, and they translate for me. "

In English, they still have the desire to correct me. In French, there are only two words left: hehe.

French is a very dramatic language, with feminine and masculine, verb changes, singular and plural, definite articles and indefinite articles ... The French themselves are full of mistakes.

Mizi's friend came to visit, and I misspelled the verb. That French kid tried to correct me. Mizi said, "She made a mistake, but she is from China. Can your mother speak Chinese? How do you say cake in Chinese? "

As I continued to cut the cake, I laughed wildly in my stomach. "It may be difficult to defend your mistakes. This girl can do it without loss! "

However, writing is even more deadly.

The biggest difference between French education and China education is the persistence of opponents.

Now in France, the marking of the college entrance examination is still entirely manual, and it must be handwritten. Math exam, the question is right, the grammar is wrong, and the points are deducted.

Every child in France has to learn French handwriting. It's so crooked that it's hard to draw letters in an unrecognizable state. I can only stare blankly, and there is nothing I can do.

Then, math, geography, nature, history, I was eliminated.

Learning mathematics, we are different from them in vertical writing, I can't understand it;

For those who study geography, I don't know about the earth nouns that come from Latin and are longer than each other.

Studying history, how do I know that before Louis XIII, it was not Louis XII of France of France, but Henry IV;

Learning common sense, under the guidance of Sidi, I learned that in Roman numerals, IV is 4 and VI is 6; In 943, it was the tenth century, not the ninth century ...

Accompanying the baby to do homework has always been a slot in the old mother group. At that time, I didn't understand martial arts novels, and my old mother, where her abdomen was located, stood firm with her left foot and right foot every night and got through the second pulse of Ren Du, naturally showing her anger:

"What are you doing? What about your brain? I have told you this question five times, why don't you understand? "

Although it is wrong to yell at children, lose your temper, clap your hands and stand in the corner, it is right to be angry, but it is also reasonable; Both sides are arguing, and everyone wants to stand up and make things clear so as not to be hated.

It's a pity that I have never seen such a spectacular scene in my three-year tutoring career.

The scene in my home is like this. Lu Sidi and Lu Zi are looking for each other. Although their voice is very small, but ling clearly said:

"Mom, you are wrong again; Mom, that's not what I said. Mom, I told you yesterday, it's not like this; Mom, the pronunciation of that word is like this. You can't pronounce it correctly ... "

A middle-aged man who has been questioned is already miserable. A middle-aged man who was questioned by his own children undoubtedly sprinkled coarse salt on the wound, which not only hurt, but also made him breathless, making him cry for the land.

Simply, I will automatically give up my rights. Since Mr. Lu accepted this revolutionary task, the situation has changed fundamentally immediately.

Basically, from the time he entered the child's room, he could hear the roar of the old father within ten minutes. After yelling at Sidi, the two people yelled in different places.

Lu Sidi is from Zootopia, a three-toed sloth who knows everything, but he is too slow. Lu is a fox, but he always wants to hide his lessons, and everything will be fine.

In the past few months, when Teacher Lu yelled at the baby, I brushed tens of thousands of friends; I bought tens of thousands of things online; Talked for tens of thousands of days; After reading tens of thousands of chicken soup gossip, I was scared for tens of thousands of minutes through the door.

From autumn to winter, it is immediate. Roar less and less, laughter more and more, this is the homework, I heard their three children in the room, laughing and laughing.

I couldn't help bending down and watching the two children lying on the table, writing something seriously. Mr. Lu looked around and pointed out that what he had done was to poke his little head. Father and daughter giggled together, and the atmosphere was pleasant, as if he were flying in the sky.

Mizi saw me coming and quickly said, "We are doing our homework together." The implication is: "Mom, leave us alone."

I didn't do it, so I sat on the bed and said, "I'll just sit and watch."

Unexpectedly, Mr. Lu also said: "Don't stay here, children are easily distracted."

With what? Why can't you take me when you are happy?

Many people are afraid to take care of their children. They think that as long as they take care of them, they will hate you when they can't help being mean to them.

In fact, raising a child is like raising a puppy, and it is necessary to establish a "master." Leadership comes not only from blood and love, but also from the time and energy spent on children and the management of his life.

Raising children is the same as working. All the feedback you can get is not from charm, but from your efforts to roll up your sleeves and sweat like rain.

Once you become the "mastermind" in a child's mind, as the saying goes, this child will listen to you and respect you, and this is your child, otherwise you will have no feeling and power over his life.

Since Teacher Lu began to accompany me in my homework, my position at home has rapidly declined.

The two children always say, "mom, you won't wait for dad." ; Mom, you have to listen to your father. He's quite right.

The daughters were their father's little lovers in their previous lives, but now they are living as little lovers in this world. What can I do for my old lover? Can only stare.

Finally, the opportunity to usurp power came. During the winter vacation, the Chinese teacher asked to write a composition with 180 Chinese characters.

Sidi spends two hours learning Chinese every week. There are very few Chinese homework at ordinary times, and there is basically no need to write. In the evening, Teacher Lu specially invited me to write a composition: My Holiday.

Sidi wrote the words "during the holiday"; "Mom is not at home." Count it again, 10, and I turned to ask, "Mom, does punctuation count?" If I count, there are 12 words. "

I said, "Of course not."

She continued to write, "sisters take us out to play," nine words, "by the way, mom, is the topic a word? My topic has four words. "

I tapped her little head and said, "The title doesn't count, but it counts if you write your sister's name."

Sidi quickly picked up the eraser and wrote again: "Sister Qiu and Sister Bu, take us out to play." 17.

I continued, "How do you know them? Who are we? "

Sidi rewrote: "Mom's friends, Sister Qiu and Sister Bu, took my sister and me out to play." Wow, that's 24 words.

I said, "My mother's friends, Sister Qiu and Sister Bu, took my sister and me out to play. Are there any other words? "

Sidi had a strange light in her eyes and said, "Mom, I love you. You are really something. "

A middle-aged man who is affirmed will be filled with joy; A middle-aged man affirmed by his children is the happiness of flying fairy in the sky, scattering gold coins everywhere and floating inside and outside.

I touched her head affectionately: "Keep writing, girl." Heart says that writing four million words a year is not even a side dish. Now we can't fight for dad. Everyone is fighting for mom. When they graduate from college and put on their bachelor's hats, I will give my acceptance speech on stage. As a mother who can make children spell it, I ...

Before I could fly further, Lu said, "Mom, this is a dictation book. You have to sign it. " French floral pattern again. The teacher changed several places with a red arc, and I couldn't see the problem at all. Why?

Sidi leaned over and showed it to Mizi and me: "This should be written like this, leaving out a small vertical line".

Under the orange light, two little heads leaned together to discuss and study, which was the warmth that made the old mother cry.

It turns out that homework, a warm family activity, is the top happiness in life.

With the days, in the storm, with the days, laughing and crying, growth is not just watching time slip away, and growth is not limited to children.

This is the heartfelt words of the old mother who accompanied her homework during the winter vacation.

Sometimes happiness is all around us. If you want to see it, you just need to change the angle.