What will you do when you invite your classmates to your home? When you invite your classmates to your home, what kind of etiquette will you achieve?
1, sincere and cordial attitude towards classmates; The sound size is appropriate and the tone is calm and calm; Respect your classmates, face each other squarely, listen to each other, smile, sit up straight and keep your back straight.
Excuse me, what should I pay attention to when inviting Japanese people to my home? I found some etiquette for visiting Japanese families. You can refer to how they entertain guests and know what to pay attention to:
First of all, visitors must make an appointment before going to the host's house, explain their purpose, time and number of people, and never make a surprise visit. If there are no special circumstances, be sure to arrive on time after the appointed time. Ring the doorbell before entering the door, state the name of the visitor, and then back off slightly, waiting for the host to open the door. Because the doors in Japan are all open to the outside world, you will be hit if you are too close to the door. Take off your coat, hat, gloves and shoes at the entrance before entering the house, and put the toes of shoes neatly at the door. Without the owner's permission, you can't wear the owner's slippers into the room, but you must wear socks when visiting. For the Japanese, it is very disrespectful for the host to go to someone else's house with socks, which will attract the host's disgust. Bow before entering the room, say "excuse me" to the host, and then hand over the gifts with both hands. Generally, gifts are mostly flowers or beautifully packaged snacks. Don't even give gifts, because "4" is homophonic with "death", which is a taboo number in Japan. Even "2", "6" and "8" should be avoided as much as possible. When giving odd-numbered gifts, we should also pay attention to avoid giving gifts related to "9", because "9" is also an unlucky number in Japanese customs.
After entering the host family, don't look around, especially in the kitchen and bedroom of the host family. You shouldn't ask to go to the toilet as soon as you come in, otherwise it's rude. After entering the guest room, you can't sit casually. Japanese seats are very well-behaved. The innermost position of the room is generally the seat of the elders and guests at home. You can't sit down until the host gives up your seat. If it is a harmony room, there are also rules for sitting posture: men should sit on their knees, women should sit on their side legs or knees, and never sit cross-legged. One of the reasons why foreign friends are afraid to visit Japanese families is that they are not used to kneeling, and they will feel uncomfortable after a long time, but they are afraid that they will not respect their hosts and change their posture. In addition to sitting posture, the topic of chat is also particular. If it's your first visit, you should praise the host family and talk about some relaxing topics. You shouldn't talk about disasters on festive days or festivals, and you shouldn't talk about business or work in your host's house. Japanese people think that home is a place to rest. Bringing the topic of work home will not make them feel relaxed, and at the same time, they will think that visitors are just here to talk about work, but they will feel unhappy.
Next is the etiquette of eating, which is also one of the most important etiquette in Japan: say "you're welcome" before eating; Handle with care when eating, and don't let bowls and plates make a loud noise; When you eat, you should eat with your rice bowl, don't talk and don't use chopsticks, which is completely different from the habit of China people who like to help each other with food when they eat. Don't chew loudly when eating, unless you are eating noodles or soup, you must make a sound to show that it tastes good; Generally, you should add another bowl after eating a bowl of rice. Even if you are full, you should add another bowl of rice symbolically to show that the dishes cooked by the host are delicious and try not to leave any leftovers, otherwise the host will think that the dishes are not to the taste of the guests. Say "thank you for your hospitality" to the host after dinner, and put away your bowls and chopsticks so that the host can tidy up.
Japanese contacts are mostly due to polite casual acquaintances, and there is no habit of visiting each other. Most people think that home is a very private place. They generally don't want outsiders to visit without prior explanation. As visitors, they are afraid to disturb others and bring trouble to each other. Therefore, they are very careful about their words and deeds in their host's house. It is important to pay attention to etiquette, but too much emphasis will lose the true meaning of visiting relatives and friends. Compared with the hospitality of China people, these ceremonial things show the indifference of interpersonal relationships, and at the same time, they can't feel the lively atmosphere of friends and relatives gathering together.
Prepare clean slippers and heat the green tea. It's ok to freeze in summer, just ask the guests. There are some sweet things to drink with tea. Change the air. Try not to smell anything in the house. Nothing else. By the way, the toilet should be as clean as possible. So is the place to wash your hands.
What will you do when you invite your classmates to your home? When I was a child, I ate, drank, talked and had ideals.
When you get older, talk about work and encourage and support each other.
Invite colleagues to be guests at home. Excuse me, Mr. xxx, how to write the invitation letter:
Tomorrow afternoon, go home and be a guest.
I hope my answer can help you.
How many students can I invite to my home? 9 bowls, 16. Eight people.