Understand why two people quarrel.
Many people will think that quarreling between lovers is justified. As the saying goes, "beating is asking, scolding is love", and disputes can be used as seasoning between lovers. Sometimes the objective facts are not the case. Frequent quarrels are not easy to promote feelings, but will persecute them. So when quarreling, we must find out the reason, because treatment can save feelings.
There is no need to drag it into the past.
Many lovers will dig out the past when arguing in the middle, but a lady should be enterprising. What has already passed needs to be turned into the past. Be reasonable when quarreling and solve things more.
To apologize
If you really did something wrong, you should learn to apologize actively. In order to maintain a happy love relationship, one party always has to compromise at the right time. Take the initiative to apologize, say sorry, in most cases can be negotiated.
Don't say goodbye.
No matter how fierce the quarrel is, always remember that the other person is your favorite person, and never say the word "separation". The kinetic energy of the word separation is equivalent to nuclear weapons. Don't be hard to believe that once you say the word separation, your feelings will not be able to return to the happiness of the past.
Perfect love is mutual.
For most girls, in a relationship, if you want to think that her other half can spoil her and love him, you will give her an arm to shelter from the wind and rain in her sensitive situation. However, perfect love is mutual. He protects you from the wind and rain, and in turn, you need to wipe the rain for him.
There is no need to scold each other, especially with your family.
Don't swear in an argument, because it is equivalent to splashing water, which will leave scratches in the other person's heart, especially since you have never cursed the other person before. Girls' arguments, in the process of quarreling, are usually not objective long ago. At this time, they are likely to treat each other coldly, but boys will forgive them, so even if they lose their temper, they should grasp the degree. There is no need to talk about separation casually.
Give me a step.
In some cases, other boys have apologized and sincerely apologized. He quarreled with his boyfriend and changed his signature. Can you find out? It won't be good in coke after this time. The boy's self-esteem is a very strange thing. If you can't take care of his self-esteem, it may become an obstacle for the other party.