A person with high emotional intelligence knows how to move forward. He set many small goals in the middle and worked hard for the latest goals, because these can be achieved in a relatively short time.
When he reached this goal, he felt that he had made progress and he was full of confidence. After a short rest, he cheered up again, set up a second goal and moved on. The final goal is like a compass, so you won't get lost.
Winners are not empty dreamers. They dare to dream first and then work hard. Fill the gap between small goals and dreams, thus reaching the other side of the ideal.
Dreams are connected by beads of goals. With dreams with goals, they are not satisfied. Because they are not satisfied, they are encouraged to redouble their efforts and finally realize their big goal-dreams.
Not all wise men are successful.
Smart people with high IQ may not be successful, which shows that high IQ does not determine the size of achievement.
American psychologists have done an interesting experiment.
198 1 year, they selected 8 1 graduation speakers from a middle school in Illinois. The average IQ of these people is the highest in the school.
The study found that these students entered the university after graduation and achieved good results during their study. But in his thirties, his performance was mediocre.
10 years later, only14 people in this industry have reached the highest level of their peers. Many people even lag far behind their peers.
198 1 year, they selected 8 1 graduation speakers from a middle school in Illinois. The average IQ of these people is the highest in the school.
The study found that these students entered the university after graduation and achieved good results during their study. But in his thirties, his performance was mediocre.
10 years later, only14 people in this industry have reached the highest level of their peers. Many people even lag far behind their peers.
The magic of thought
You should go out with your friends on Sunday, but when you get up in the morning, it is raining. What are you thinking at this time?
You might think: shit! I can't go anywhere on rainy days. Staying at home is really boring.
If you think: it's raining, follow the fashion at home today, study hard and listen to music;
These two different psychological cues will bring you two different emotions and behaviors.
The subconscious mind is like a fertile land. If you don't sow the seeds of success on it, it will be barren or overgrown with weeds. Self-suggestion is the control medium of sowing. One can automatically instill the seeds of success and creative ideas into the fertile soil of the subconscious mind through positive psychological suggestion. On the contrary, you can also instill negative seeds or destructive thoughts, leaving the fertile soil of the subconscious mind devastated.