Girls chat with you on WeChat and don't respond in time. Nine times out of ten, it was because she was busy with other things. Generally speaking, if it is not necessary, a girl will not stare at the dialog box chatting with you all the time, look at you and send a sentence, and then she will reply. A girl chats with you on WeChat without a word. Maybe she is busy at work, chasing a play, brushing a video or playing a game. In these cases, girls will not be so absorbed in chatting with you. When she sees the message you sent her, she may only "steal time" to reply to you. As long as girls don't mean to reply to you, boys should also understand it properly. However, sometimes girls are not active in returning to WeChat, which may be because you are not important enough for her. If you are someone she secretly loves, or someone she likes, then she will never give you a cold shoulder on WeChat. She will reply to you positively, and she will look forward to hearing from you. If a girl replies to your WeChat after a long time, it's probably because she didn't take your chat to heart. At this time, boys are asked not to care too much about chatting with her on WeChat, and don't stare at the chat dialog box with her all the time, wondering why she hasn't returned you. If you have this time, you might as well be busy with other things to distract yourself. Don't dwell on one thing, just let nature take its course. If she comes back to you, you can talk to her again If she doesn't answer you, then don't bother her all the time. As the saying goes, save one hand for everything so that we can meet again later. What do you mean, chatting without words? 2. Chatting skills with girls 1. Speaking of the advantages of boyfriends, it can be summarized in five words: I can pick a girlfriend. If you are not afraid of trouble, please stay with me. I lost sleep last night, which means thinking about you all night. I looked in the mirror this morning, and then thought of looking for you. You know, every time I see something good, I want to give it to you. I think you must be very busy, just look at the first three words. 6. "Do you like cats or dogs?" "dog?" Selected confessions of Wang ~ 1. "What are you most afraid of alone in the world?" "I am most afraid of being alone." 2. "I want to be Britain in the 17th century." "Colonize your heart." 3. "The world is a giant doll machine, and I stand at the window." "I just want you." 4. "Do you know why you like kissing your left chest?" "Because that's the place closest to your heart." If you are uglier, I will take you to a coffee shop and sit down for a cup of coffee. I will take you to Sichuan, a famous tourist city in Shandong, and take you to eat the best western food. At night, I will walk down the street and start watching the stars and talking about life. But you are so beautiful, I just want to sleep with you. How to chat with a girl you like First of all, when chatting with a girl you like, you must talk about the topic she is interested in, which will trigger a buzz between you, so that girls will keep chatting with you and think you are not bad. Second, when chatting with the girl you like, you should pay more attention to her in the content of the chat, let her know that you have been caring for her, and let that girl see that you are a very careful and considerate person. Third, when chatting with a girl you like, you can ask her what she likes to do and what her hobbies are. If you think you can do what she likes, then you can learn from her in this respect, and sometimes you can give some learning skills. Generally, girls will have a good impression on boys with the same interests. Fourth, chat with the girl you like. If you find that she really doesn't like you, she just wants to keep friends with you, then please cherish this precious friendship and don't lose it because you can't get love. Then you are the one who is most hurt. What does it mean to have a chat without a word? How to find a topic when chatting with girls? Chatting Mode: Keyword Chatting Difficulty Index: A star finds topics of interest to the other party through individual keywords that appear during chatting, such as food, movies, books, travel, etc. , and then start a new theme. For example: girl: "I think the hangzhou dishes I ate tonight is very light and suitable for girls." Reply: "Girls generally like light things, so they won't gain weight. Ha ha. In fact, there are many cuisines that tend to be light, such as Cantonese cuisine and Shanghai cuisine. I know a good Cantonese restaurant. I'll take you next time. " Boy: "I usually watch movies at home or something." Reply: "People who like watching movies are usually very emotional. So do you. What movies do you usually watch? " The key words said by the other party must be of interest to him. If you continue to extend them, you will find interesting topics. Moreover, this method can also make the other party feel that the topic is naturally connected and can easily receive what you say. Chat mode: storytelling difficulty index: 80% of the conversation between two people in Two Stars is completed by storytelling. For example, I went out to have a buffet with friends today, and what happened in the middle ... To tell a good story, there must be details, ups and downs and feelings. Of course, it is best to show my values, and the narrative style must be humorous and interesting. This requires long-term exercise, so you must pay more attention and study more at ordinary times. For example: boy: "Daoxiao Noodles for lunch." Or: boy: "I ate a small noodle downstairs at noon today, and a very unpleasant thing happened in the middle." There was a long queue, and a woman with heavy makeup came halfway. Without saying anything, she ran directly to the window, took a girl's meal, said it was urgent, and gave her double money. As a result, girls don't like ... I don't like people who can't see others because they have money at home However, this meal is really delicious. I will definitely take you to try it if I have the opportunity. " Through the second narrative method, people who listen to the story not only find your story interesting, but also can see what kind of person you are, such as people who don't like this bully. Of course, don't make a long speech when you are unfamiliar. At this time, the story should be short and interesting to make the other person happy or agree. When you get to know each other, you can start telling some long and profound stories. Chat mode: emotional chat difficulty index: three stars. Many people especially like to be reasonable and talk about life values and so on. You know, chatting with people you like is not for competition, nor for teaching and educating people. The value of life is constantly displayed through chatting, not coming up. What are your values in life? We chat to get to know someone, not to talk about feelings. For example: girl: "I was scolded by my boss today, which is very uncomfortable." Boy: "Why?" At this time, the girl needs to explain to you what happened and make her feel bad again. The best way to reply is to talk about her feelings of being scolded by her boss, so that she can forget these unpleasantness for a while, feel relaxed and interesting in chatting with you, and let her enjoy the process of chatting with you. Especially when chatting with girls, don't give her reasons. Tell her what to do next time. She did not ask you why. You need to talk to her in an emotional way, describe your feelings more and what happened less. 04 Chat Mode: Cold Reading Method Difficulty Index: Four-star girls hate auditing questions: How old are you? Where are you from? What's your name? Unfortunately, most people still only know this superficial chat mode. If you can study cold, you won't have this problem. Cold reading refers to reading others' minds when they are unprepared, even when they meet for the first time, so as to communicate with others better. It is often used by psychologists for psychotherapy. For example: boy: "You have such a good temperament, have you studied abroad?" Reply: "Wow, how do you know? /Actually, it's gone. I just like reading some magazines to see how people are taught to wear them. " Girl: "You must be very popular." Boy: "How do you know? /No, why do you say that? " Next, whether from the national culture, temperament, popularity and other aspects. You can extend the topic and then talk about it. Cold reading doesn't let you completely guess each other's information, but let them open their hearts and give you more information on their own initiative. Of course, you can't guess casually. You should make your guess more accurate through the other person's clothes, dialogue and topic content. If it really doesn't work, I'd rather not guess than guess. 05 Chat Mode: Difficulty Index of Personal Charm Display: Five-star topics will always be finished. If the question is finished, the other person will think you are boring and boring. No matter how high you say at first, if you don't have charm, you will die sooner or later! Externally, in the age of looking at faces, no one has the obligation to discover your beautiful heart through your sloppy appearance. It's important to learn to tidy up yourself. Sometimes it's not your slightly average face value that makes your image greatly discounted. It's your greasy hair, wrinkled clothes, protruding nose hair and haggard dark circles. Internally, read more books and reserve enough knowledge, stories and topics. Only when you have a huge knowledge base in your heart, whether you are asking or being asked, will you have real confidence and deep internal strength. These are all actions. 06 Chatting Method: Enrich your difficulty index: One hundred stars are chatting happily, and if they don't think of a word, they will embarrass each other. The whole warm chatting atmosphere suddenly drops to freezing point because they don't know how to answer the words at once. It's easy to say the wrong thing, be silent and end the topic. It is easy to be exhausted in communication, but I want to express it but I can't, because there are too few materials in my mind. Usually read more books and learn some new knowledge. "Books are used, but few people hate them" refers to these friends, who usually don't accumulate. When you come across a topic, you know very little about the background, knowledge, anecdotes and other relevant information around the topic, just like there is no corresponding data stored in the computer database, you naturally can't retrieve it, and of course you don't know what to talk about. Paying attention to current hot topics and popular things is the most communicative topic. Such as movies, music, TV series, celebrities, books, games, popular online videos, popular online events and so on. Because most people care about it, it is the easiest to start communicating with strangers and the opposite sex. From these topics, we can learn some viewpoints and even three views of each other. From poetry and songs to philosophy of life, from soybean milk fritters to western-style steaks, from shameless to impetuous to Chun Xue. If you really don't know what to talk about and talk about food, you can always find a topic.