It is inevitable to meet all kinds of people at work.
Everyone has his own shortcomings,
All we have to do is smile back.
The working relationship continues,
But your heart must know who he is,
One day he will understand his ignorance,
I will also understand your generosity.
Hope to adopt
Does the relationship with colleagues need to be maintained? Colleague relationship is more difficult to deal with, not like friends, but like-minded. Colleagues, you have no choice unless you resign, so you must keep it up and get along well with everyone. This is the master. To say the least, talk more when you get along with each other, and don't offend those who don't speculate.
Do you need to continue? Of course I'm giving up! But don't give up after only a few days! Work for a whole month ~
There are only two kinds of people who often jump ship:
One is a cow, who basically changes once a year or so, and his salary rises a lot every time. . .
The other is a fool, who thinks this job is not good every day, but the next job is good, the salary does not rise and there are few friends. . .
You should give up.
But don't quit your job after just a few days (not being cheated into pyramid schemes, of course). You should work for at least one month.
So you can write your work experience on your future resume. Maybe you are too young to feel it now, and you will gradually understand that your resume is basically the essence of your life. It is ok to read a person's resume directly. )
And giving up in a few days will make your current boss and colleagues feel that you can't bear hardships (you knew it would be hard from the beginning, and you came to our company at the beginning! What did you think long ago? -bosses and colleagues will look at you like this), and even think that you have a bad personality.
For a whole month, it is best to resign at the time specified by the company (some companies are seven days ago, some are three days, and the longest I have ever seen in a big company is three months. For small companies with no regulations, let's treat it as two or three days. If you want to quit, you won't be exhausted. And explain the reasons for not doing it, I believe everyone will understand. Besides, you will make some friends (no matter who you are, you should always make friends. Who knows who you will get one day, right? ), will not leave a bad impression on the boss.
Finally, plan your life. Nowadays, it is very troublesome for college students and undergraduates to find jobs. . .
Personally, if there is no good job or prospect, it is better to continue to go to school. Because if you want to mix in China, a master's degree is basically the most basic education in the future. Undergraduates gradually become masters. It will be even harder for junior college students to mix. Of course, if you want to eat only all your life, or want to get married with a rich husband, that doesn't count.
bless
Will this relationship continue? Don't throw moths into the fire! I have heard and seen too many examples, and how many can succeed in the end? After all, it is women who are injured, and women can't afford to play emotional games. Married, life is happy no matter how dull it is! You enjoy this now, but you will regret it one day! And obviously, he is not a good person, he just wants to have some fun in life, and then you satisfy him and starve him, only once. Maybe you won't believe me, but if you don't give up and look at these words when you are injured, you will feel how correct they are. I hope you wake up soon!
Feelings are weak, should we continue? The relationship has faded. What made it fade? If there are contradictions between two people, their feelings will fade away, so we should communicate more, understand each other's tolerance and think from each other's point of view. If it's an affair, we suggest breaking up. I hope it works for you.
Do I need to continue? Lock yourself up. If you go on like this, you will be depressed. You can meet many good friends online. Why not change the environment?
Special love relationship, should we continue? First of all, my situation is the same as yours, except that we haven't shared a row yet. We all reject this and are eager to hide it all the time. He is four years older than me, but now my family is urging him to get married, and I am also suffering. If I say it, I will definitely be rejected. The whole family is also very old-fashioned. If our situation is known, everything will become empty talk. We are second generation and half blood relatives, so should the landlord. I also imagined the situation of negotiators, to see if it was ok. Your family should say so, because your parents love you very much, which is relatively easy for the woman. The man's parents are from his grandmother's hometown and pay attention to ethics, but they should also be anxious to have grandchildren, provided that their son is born. I think this is difficult to solve, but seeing that you are preparing to adopt, it should be nothing. It's not that his mother doesn't like you, but that she watched you grow up. Even if you don't kiss, you won't have a bad impression. I think, damn it, it's no use trying again. It depends on him. He can talk to his mother easily. They are mother and son. He can talk to his mother all night. Try it first. If he can't speak, let him cry. It's petty, but it's really useful Parents don't care about their children. Even if you don't agree, his mother will certainly not be as exclusive as before. Even if you are related by blood and have no children, it's nothing. There are many such things in the countryside. After the talk, his mother still disagreed. You can find other elders who love you and speak with weight at home. After this communication, his mother will have a lot to say. You don't have to agree completely. Just don't fucking object. After all, getting married is between you two. It is important to live well. His mother wants his son to be happy, and your mother wants you to be happy. As long as they are happy, they will not lose the heart of their hometown. If what I say is useful, then try it, because this road is what I want to take, and I hope you will be successful and happy.
Do you really need to continue? In fact, this is a condition that can be ruled out. As long as you want to love her, you can go to her. Nothing can trap you.
When you say you did it to him, it's definitely not your fault. Wrong is wrong. You shouldn't say it when she doesn't need it.
Because she made it clear that she didn't want to fall in love this year. Sometimes the attack and defense of love need to be changed. Generally, it takes a long time to defend after being eager to attack and fail.
In fact, you can express yourself in another way. For example, in your signature, I love you as much as you love me, and I am waiting for you. If you really love her.
Please give me some advice. Do I need to continue? Is there any hope to continue? It depends. You still have a chance.
Although it is plagiarized, it should be useful to you ~
! ~ girl's point of view. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, unless they really like them too much or are the kind of girls who are very brave and brave. So, if you like a girl very much and think she is a little interested in you, take the initiative and don't engage in a tug-of-war with her, you will feel uncomfortable. Maybe the person you like will also suffer.
When girls are being chased, their psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but she is a little scared. She has ambivalence towards the boy who intruded into her quiet life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she is testing you, but she is actually fighting herself. She is afraid of getting hurt.
Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will fade slowly. It's normal if your initial confession is rejected by her. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking?
Maybe if you confess twice, she will be moved by you. A good girl with a kind heart is easily moved.
If you encounter setbacks, leave immediately, never reply to this girl again, protect yourself tightly and lick the wound silently. While you are suffering, I don't know that the child may be regretting, regretting! Maybe she will secretly cry and regret rejecting you, and then she will be sad to see your indifferent eyes, but she won't tell you, and she will never let you come back to chase her. Your excessive self-esteem may hurt a girl's sensitive heart.
She will think that you don't really like him, otherwise how could you just give her up?
Some people say that it is really difficult for boys and it is not easy to chase girls. But my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role orientation of men and women. From a physiological and social point of view, women are always passive. If, on the other hand, men are ashamed and women are brave, the world will be in a mess! Women's shyness is always beautiful ~ I always hear that a brave man overcame many difficulties and finally won the heart of a beautiful woman. There are few examples to the contrary.
Some boys are afraid that others will say that they are dead and pester them to fight, leaving a bad reputation. But I think boys pursue the girl they like and continue to be nice to this girl after encountering some setbacks, which shows that people really like it and are sincere. If it doesn't work, there's nothing to regret. It's nothing. Who makes people like it? I hate people blindly following me, and I hate boys who have no opinions and care too much about what others think of them. They deserve not to find a girlfriend.
If you are a man, be brave. Girls are emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you work hard, once your heart touches her, you will get more and more love. Such examples abound around us. Girls are gentle and considerate to their boyfriends. What was the sweetness of the original hard work? And most good girls are devoted and single-minded.
Therefore, it is suggested that some boys be brave and pursue the girls they like, instead of being so timid. One is that people think you are unmanly, and the other is that you feel uncomfortable. But, most importantly, you get nothing in the end. Happiness is always earned by yourself, don't expect others to give it to you!
By the way, I think it's good to take the initiative, because your goal is what you really like. Girls are often passive and can only choose to accept and refuse, so I would rather take the initiative and love what I love without regrets!
Life is beautiful, enjoy it and learn to find it!
First, what kind of first impression should I leave on MM (time: I just started to contact MM)
? I think the most important thing is to let MM see your ambition.
The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people can't be "successful" if they don't work long hours. At this time, you should make MM feel that you are a self-motivated person.
Others can talk nonsense, but this question cannot be vague. You must tell MM that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you have a long-term plan. In a word, your future is not a dream.
? Confident and responsible.
Don't be a child. Girls are lazy and want to find someone to rely on. You should show your confidence and sense of responsibility.
It's better to have a wrong choice than no choice at all.
? Not too formal, but not too casual.
Where it is serious, it is serious. It's funny when it's funny.
Girls like men who are a little cynical, so it seems that they don't care about anything, which is too dull.
? Looks mature.
A leisurely man has fatal attraction to mm.
Second, how to further contact MM (time: the stage of starting to chase)
? The most important thing at this stage is not to worry, not to make things too clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.
Think about it. Most people don't like you at first sight, but they don't hate you at first sight. They are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun Fat, Andy Lau or kevin costner). Good feelings need to be realized through constant understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity for further development you want.
Think about it from the girl's point of view: girls must be under psychological pressure if you rush directly to get something. If I find that I don't like you after a while, it won't be a lie, will it? So if you come out resolutely from the beginning, you will basically be bored back immediately.
? Start with a low profile
First of all, we should position the relationship as a "friend", which is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". Those with taste can also ask the other party to be a "confidante" or something. In short, don't say "chasing you".
Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "refuse" you-how can you refuse if you don't chase her? !
This can relieve the psychological pressure of girls and let you have a smooth relationship. Don't fantasize about agreeing to marry you after three days. You should communicate fully and understand that feelings don't come out of thin air.
? Don't be too impatient in the communication process.
Relax and don't pester others all day. Anyone who does this to you will get tired of it. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words-"hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the crystallization of my classmates' efforts for many years).
Staying with people all day, naturally you won't think you are good. If you are indifferent for a day or two, girls will remember the benefits of your existence.
Also, don't take out the ambition of "you must marry". It is not good for the price to drop too low. Sometimes you can play a little trick.
? We should create opportunities appropriately.
I said before, don't turn things into "you are chasing others" right away, you need to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity.
You can collect information and try to turn the waiting rabbit into a chance encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite someone to do something with you.
In short, this is the most technical place. If it is really not feasible, you can consult your predecessors.
? Do nothing: it is impolite to give gifts to others casually.
Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for others often, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.
As the saying goes, "something for nothing". You are putting pressure on others by giving them something like this. People will feel indebted to you, so they will find ways to repay you. If they can't, they will find a way not to associate with you, so they won't always owe you a favor.
If you want to show your sincerity, please invite girls to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat or an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but after all, the money was spent by two people, not taken home.
Third, what is a "girlfriend"?
? Girlfriend is a fact, not a promise.
You start dating girls, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends" to "very, very good friends who talk about everything". On a sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" held her hand; In "Willow Shoot on the Moon", you suddenly attack and kiss her. At this time, she is already your girlfriend. Whether she admits it or not, she already thinks you are her boyfriend.
I know the best. I didn't ask "Would you like to be my girlfriend" until I went to bed. Finally, the girl was anxious: "Why don't you ask me to be your girlfriend!" "
So, don't rush to pierce enough paper, the more hazy the situation, the better for you.
? What is "confession"?
As I said before, confession is actually just a form, and the correct order should be: in fact, you have become your girlfriend, and you can confess to others. Many people don't understand this problem. They always feel that people promise to be their girlfriends first, and then what? I can only say that they are very, very "simple" and very, very "stupid".
? Have you ever had to confess?
Yes, for example, there is a third party, or your relationship with a girl is immature, but two people may be separated for a while.
At this time, confession is an immature confession, which is very risky. It is similar to the grim situation when playing Go. The backward side was forced to release the "winning hand". If you win, you win. If you lose, you can only say that you are born with bad luck.
? Don't say the word "love" easily.
I often see a "bold confession" in the forum. To be honest, I really think this is a very immature performance. "Love" is a sacred word, which means pursuit, commitment and even a responsibility.
A man who casually says "love" is irresponsible.
Fourth, civilized love cannot be forced.
? Not every MM can catch up.
There will always be many people chasing good girls, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone's wishes. There will always be losers. For example, even if you study hard and master the principle of chasing MM, you can't catch up with either twin.
Look at the problem from another angle. Even if a rural nanny who has never graduated from primary school is kind to you, earning 600 yuan a month and buying you 700 yuan as a gift (overdraft), and willing to be a cow and a horse for you, you will not fall in love with her. If she cries and pesters you every day, you must feel bored.
So love needs a material foundation, at least a balance.
? Chasing MM is a serious social activity.
Don't bother others, leave yourself a way out. Why don't men have wives? Some MMS are snobs (few). If you are not convinced, you can prove with facts that "she was blind at that time". Never mistake others for yourself.
Finally, don't be cynical in front of MM, cynicism sometimes means "you are a loser".
You can only take the initiative to mention the relationship between colleagues in the company. If you decide, take the opportunity to mention it, but remember it later. Don't mention personal things in the company, even good friends will inevitably not say it out of the blue. And it's easy for others to misunderstand you.