Dude, I think you should make these points clear: 1. Do you love her or not? 2. Does she love you or not? 3. What are the inappropriate aspects between you? If you love each other, it is only in the running-in period of deep communication, there is no need to break up, just solve the so-called "inappropriateness" between you; If you don't love each other, it is easy to break up; If she loves you but doesn't love you, it's hard to do it, and I'm afraid she can't escape the guilt of "throwing it away" No matter what you say, it will kill her unless you marry her and make yourself fall in love with her.