I don’t believe that there is such a thing as a person’s heart. Whatever he does is what he is.

We not only hope to please ourselves, but also hope to be recognized by others. .

BoJack Horseman, the outdated star that no one cares about, has hurt many people because of his selfishness and self-righteousness, after hurting his friends countless times. This middle-aged actor who is experiencing inner torture very much hopes that his best friend Diane will think that he is still a good person.

And this outdated middle-aged actor who really wanted to be recognized by Diane received a sad reply a few nights later.

——I don’t believe in having an inner heart. What kind of things he does is what kind of person he is.

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About BoJack, essentially everyone wants to be recognized

If we look back at the past, there are too many behaviors in real life and in the show BoJack seems familiar, maybe even more so. The most typical example is Avril Lavigne’s famous saying:

“I have tattoos, smoke, drink, and talk dirty, but I know that I am a good girl. A real bitch likes to pretend to be innocent, pure, and shy. , like to wear pink clothes. Men are superficial and only look at the surface, so they can only miss good girls and be deceived by bitches. Only women can tell who the real bitch is. ”

Right, I get tattoos, smoke, drink, and talk dirty. I know it’s wrong, but I can’t accept that I’m not a good girl.

Although everyone hopes to express their individuality and be anti-social, anti-commercial, and anti-material, in the end it is difficult to accept that they are on the fringes of society, with no one paying attention and no one understanding them.

When non-mainstream culture was prevalent, I joined the opposition camp and changed my QQ signature to "This generation pretends to be cool, innocent, and sad. Only pigs don't pretend." Every day Soak in Maopu and Tieba, pour water and spray on each other. While I kept writing some pretentious words on some forums, at the same time, I kept squirting with the cat in the post bar, looking up at the sky at 45 degrees, which was so sweet that it was sad.

I was still young at that time, and now I can look at this matter more calmly. There were many contradictions in his behavior at that time. The young man really expressed his sorrow for writing new words. Those performances criticizing the current ills were obviously carefully prepared, because I even copied the QQ signature.

I am not sure whether this objection is because I really think so, or whether it is because I am unwilling to accept that I am outside the group.

I can’t help but wonder if the pain caused by damaged vanity was also mixed with the pain caused by damaged vanity when Yima Current went to the forum to criticize non-mainstream people - this kind of motivation seemed very strange to me when I was young. Shameful. At that time, I didn’t understand how contradictory human nature is. I didn’t know that there might be pretentiousness hidden under sincerity, and I didn’t know that there might be despicability hidden behind high integrity.

Yes, I also hope that when others evaluate me, they say, I am really a gay with four hobbies and five hobbies!

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About Diane, the world will only look at what you do, accept yourself or choose to change

We have watched TV since we were young, believing that one day we will become Rich man, star or rock star. But we won’t, and that’s the reality we’re gradually facing, so we’re angry.

In the process of world unity, some people do not accept it. Some people have been killed in the process, and some have been smoothed out. They are so cynical that they don’t want to say anything anymore.

If If you choose your heart, accept your true self, value differences, and accept disagreements. So I especially envy those people whose hearts are consistent with mainstream values, so they don’t have to face this process.

In Qi Pa Talk, when Zang Hongfei talked about rock and roll, he said this: "If there is a social incident and entrepreneurs, lawyers, and literati speak out, but the rock circle is silent, it will feel particularly sad. We always say that we are awesome, but now we don’t even dare to say anything, except that we are poorer, where is our awesomeness? 』

Perhaps those silent people know

People cannot do what they want to do, but can only do what they have to do.

The choice of ourselves depends on how we view the meaning of life and what requirements we have for ourselves.