Every wedding, wedding, or wedding comes first with etiquette. During festivals and holidays, when visiting relatives and friends, red envelopes are indispensable. So how to write red envelopes? For example, three dynasties wine, full moon wine, one year old, ten years old, sixty years old. Birthdays, marriages (including marriage, daughter-in-law), housewarming, etc. The following is an introduction to how to write traditional Chinese gift packages: Rites rank third in the Wuchang, which shows the importance of "rituals" in daily life. Of course, gift-giving is not necessarily just You can give money or gifts. Now there are special gift shops and etiquette companies. I will only talk about red envelopes here. Now we use ready-made red envelopes with exquisite auspicious patterns and blessing words printed on them. So now people Just buy a red envelope and stuff the money into it and that's it. Some are even so casual that they don't even use the red envelope.

In fact, in the past, giving red envelopes as gifts among the people was very particular, and there were strict requirements: first, make the payment. above, sign based on the fact that your parents and grandparents are still alive. For example, if the other party is a married woman, 1: both of your parents are alive, write: 奁奁义 Department: all servants, ***; 2: father is here: strict servants* **; 3: Mother is: Your loving servant***. Signature: Same surname, just sign, different surname: sign your name.

Writing method: Determine according to different happy events: if a child is born, a wedding ceremony will be held. It is divided into three dynasties. At this time, it is written: Tang Jing; for half-moon wine, it is written Wang Jing; for full moon, it is written (Rizu) Jing; for one-year-old: and ten-year-old. Girls are all married when they are twenty years old. We need to hold a grand birthday celebration. Because after this age, you will get married, and you will no longer be a member of your natal family. Just like the weak crown for boys in ancient times, it is an adult ceremony.

Birthday celebration Generally speaking, it is calculated according to the whole age. In various places, it is calculated according to the imaginary age and the actual age, and there are also distinctions between men and women. Those under sixty years old write: Zhu Jing, those over sixty years old. Write: Shou Jing.

In addition, when giving wedding gifts, it depends on the relative or friend of which party you are getting married. If you are from the man, you can write congratulations, and if you are giving it to the woman, you should write congratulations.

I heard that there is a book among the people specifically about various etiquette documents, called "Li Wen Hui". But I have never seen it, and it may not have been published.

The specific writing methods of various types of red envelopes:

Congratulatory ritual: universal for red weddings

絆义: send the bride away

Tang ritual: wine for three dynasties

Wangyi: half-moon wine

Miyi: full-moon wine

Rizuyi: one-year-old wine, note: (日死) is the same word

Wish Jing: General for those over five years old

Qin Yi: Drink for entering school

Rang Yi: Drink for blessing

Ying Yi: Drink for passing the house

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Xiangyi: used to remove spiritual wine

Yanyi: used for completion

Shouyi: common to seventy years old

Xuejing: ten years old Birthday

Guanjing: 20th birthday

Lijing: 30th birthday

Shijing: 40th birthday

Ai Jing: 50th birthday

Er Jing: 60th birthday

Congjing: 70th birthday

Cang Jing: 80th birthday

Chou Jing: ninetieth birthday

Qi Yi: one hundredth birthday

瞽义: for adoption

Jingyi: reward Feng

Pulse instrument: Dr. Xie

Renyi: meat substitute

Hanyi: brush pen

Rongyi: haircut

Buyi: Matchmaker, high relative

Enyi: Parental support

Chengyi: Opening the wine jar

Attachment: Listed above The format must be written in a column format when writing.

To be continued: Title terms for writing red envelopes as gifts

Heading up:

Happy ceremony - marrying a wife ( Drinking the man's wedding wine)

Fen Yi - Marrying the husband (Drinking the woman's wedding wine)

Shou Yi - Birthday

Pao Yi - Drink the boy’s full-moon wine

衩义——Drink the girl’s full-moon wine

Yanyi—Drink the new house wine

p>Wen Yi - congratulations on being admitted to university (middle school)

Cheng Yi - going on a long journey, please sponsor Panchuan

The memorial ceremony - oh oh! Someone passed away (wrapped in white paper)

Sign:

XXX Tool (or "Congratulations")

zt: Writing method: Do good deeds, Just write the words "Congratulations" on the upper right corner of the front of the red envelope, and "Congratulations on so-and-so" on the lower left corner; if you are doing something casual, you can write "Xiangyi", "Dianyi", "Fengyi", etc. vertically in the middle of the front of the white envelope. In the lower left corner, write "XXXX", and usually the last "vertical" character of "XXXX" in "XXXX" is put vertically at the bottom. It's feudal! hehe!

Vertical writing: write the name of the recipient of the red envelope on the upper right, write a congratulatory message in the middle, and sign the name of the person giving the red envelope at the lower left! OK!

Horizontal writing: write the recipient on the upper left The name of the person who gave the red envelope, write a congratulatory message in the middle, and sign the name of the person giving the red envelope on the lower right! OK!

1. The terms for sealing the red envelope:

1. The terms for sealing the red envelope to thank the matchmaker:

Ke Yi’s respect for Magpie Bridge coincides with Li Yi and Qin Jin; Qiao Yi’s respect for Yue Lao is cleverly connected with the respect of red thread and silk; Bing Yi holds Ke’s respect for the two surnames.

2. The words used to seal the wedding package:

Fen Yi is here to show her respect when she returns home; Zhi Yi is here to show her respect when she leaves her boudoir, and the room is suitable for IKEA

3 . Wording for the seal to congratulate the engagement:

Respect for the alliance, respect for the engagement, respect for Qin and Jin

4. Words for the seal to congratulate the wedding:

The joy of a happy marriage lasts for a hundred years, and the harmony of the luan and the phoenix sings; the joy of a newlywed fan makes a happy couple with the same heart and a harmonious union; the branches of the jie are harmonious, and the luan and phoenix appear auspicious

5. The words used to seal the sign to congratulate a daughter-in-law on her marriage:

The joy of a new marriage

6. The words used to seal the seal of congratulations on the continued marriage:

The respect for the renewal of marriage

7. The wording used on the envelope to congratulate the second marriage:

The tribute to reunion and the second plum blossom

8. The wording used to seal the envelope to congratulate the second marriage:

The tribute to Xiao Yi Yi Xian

9. The words used to seal the bow for the bride:

Guilin's tribute to a stick of incense carriage

10. The seal for the new husband's return home. Wording:

The first turn of the jade toe is a sign of auspiciousness

11. The wording of the seal signed by the accountant:

The word of the pen instrument and the polished pen

12. The words used to seal the sign to express gratitude to the best man:

The etiquette and praise

13. The words used to seal the sign to express gratitude to the bridegroom:

The words to express gratitude to the chosen day

14. Chef Xie’s words for sealing the skewers:

Fragrance ritual blending cauldron

2. Commonly used blessings for red envelopes:

May you two be loving and affectionate, have eternal love in this life, and may your love grow day by day!

Let this lingering verse ring the bell of happiness. May you two stay in love forever and grow old together!

Bless you and laugh for you, because today, my heart is as jubilant and happy as yours! I wish you a happy marriage and a long life together!

Spring is warm in the bridal chamber with Zhulianbi, the flowers are blooming and the moon is full, fish and water are deeply in love

Today is the day when you get married. On behalf of my family, I congratulate you and wish you both happiness and longevity together.

Thousands of years have formed a destiny, and a hundred years of sleep will accompany you. A gifted man is born with a beautiful man, and he only envy mandarin ducks but not immortals.

It takes a hundred years to be able to cross the same boat, and a thousand years to be able to sleep on the same pillow. Meeting each other in the vast sea of ??people was clearly a fate that happened thousands of years ago.

Those of you who are truly in love, take care of this fate with your heart!

The flowers are covered in bright and colorful clothes, dancing gracefully and happily, and the breeze is singing softly, singing a euphemistic and touching wedding march - I wish you a happy marriage for a hundred years and a happy marriage forever!

After working hard for half a lifetime and contributing for decades, on this spring day when flowers are blooming, I congratulate you on your remarriage. As the saying goes, 'the sunset is infinitely beautiful and the day lilies are fragrant in the evening'!

May love overflow in your sweet life, so that every day in the future will be as brilliant and joyful as today!

I would like to express my sincere apologies for not being able to express my blessings in person on your happy wedding day. I wish you and your wife family harmony and happiness!

Hey! Dude. Getting married so soon. I have something to do and can't come. But I still want to sincerely wish you a happy wedding! If you talk too much, be careful with your body!

In these spring days when the flowers are blooming and the flowers are blooming, you two will always be of the same mind. As the saying goes, a pair is born, and a pair is born from the earth! I wish you two love and grow old together!

Stretch out the hand of love, receive Yingying’s blessings, let happiness bloom into brilliant flowers, and welcome your future days... I wish you a happy wedding!

It takes a hundred years to be able to cross the same boat, and a thousand years to be able to sleep on the same pillow. Congratulations on your wonderful marriage!

How can I admire the gods? I just envy the mandarin ducks. I wish you both a happy wedding and a long life together!

Congratulations, congratulations, congratulations! Congratulations on your promotion! Although this is belated love, I am still extremely happy for you and waiting with full enthusiasm for your invitation to have a meal with us.

The lotus flowers bloom side by side, showing affection for each other; the branches planted together, communicating with each other! I wish you a happy marriage and a happy marriage!

The golden house is full of music and singing, and the colorful phoenixes are singing, and the bridal chamber is filled with candles and dragons.

I wish you a happy marriage forever! Happy wedding, sweet marriage!

Congratulations on finding a good home! Wish you enter the palace of love! I hope you will have a baby soon!

You two are loving and affectionate. Your love will last forever in this life, and your love will grow day by day!

You are a match made in heaven, and now that you are married together, you need to tolerate and take care of each other even more in the future. I wish you the best!

May the sun be good, the weather be good, and the wind be gentle. The sun is shining, the luan and the phoenix are singing in perfect harmony; the mandarin ducks are flying together for a hundred years, the bridal chamber is full of flowers and candles;

The guests are congratulating, the sheng and flute are playing, the couple is of the same mind and strives for self-improvement; everyone admires and creates the world of miracles.

The sound of the flute is boiling, and the fairy comes to Qin to receive it. The stork and magpie once welcomed the bright moon, and the dove now sings in the wind, and the music of the hole is in harmony.

The lotus flowers are bright and the red candles are burning high. The flowers and moon are reunited, except for the treasure fan, the fragrance is gone and the delicate silk is trailing, and the familiar face is more delicate.

He has no reason to express his thoughts, and he wants to talk but his temples are low. The emblem on the mouth of the sandalwood contains the scent of musk deer, and the cherry lips are lightly rubbed to reveal the rhinoceros, and the luan is placed in the care of the mind.

Listen to the sound, and the silver leaks move across the flowers. I give my maid a good lesson and put a phoenix pillow on my back. I secretly put my rouge on my back, and when I am ashamed, I pick off the lamp.

After going deeper, cover the window screen. If you wish, you can plant the trees together, and they can bloom acacia flowers together, which is a wonderful place in Wuling.

The fragrant quilt is warm, and it is almost planned to be a mandarin duck's nest. The beauty secretly communicates with the language of parrots, the gentle new creations are intertwined with phoenixes, and the flowers are imitated by orioles.

When you are deep in sleep, you can drink the fairy liquid Qinxia Dan. The fragrance of cardamom soothes the spring, and I sleep well at night. The embroidered curtain does not know the cold.

The morning light stirs, and the fragrant dream awakens the pine trees. Make an appointment with the groom to trim the eyebrows and the lady, and first teach the groom to trim the pine hair on the temples.

Fish and water have been together for thousands of years, and Zhi orchid will bloom forever

In auspicious times, civilized rituals are performed; elegant music is played on the harp and lute, and couples treat each other as guests;

Poetry Chanting the return, we will be happy in Changchun; working together to innovate, we will achieve great feats in the four modernizations.

The bridal chamber is warm in spring with mandarin duck quilts folded up, tenderness and sweetness intertwined.

The beauty has not changed from the old Jiao'e, with pretty dimples and rouge cheeks.

Crossing the Milky Way Again is truly considerate

The phoenix on the spring platform invites the phoenix to fly.

There is a decree before the Hexin Banquet, to welcome the new year with a chorus of Sheng and songs.

Nowadays, I repeatedly arrange the luan string, sandalwood mouth, and thin-waisted willow.

There is no denying that it is more beautiful than the old love.

Fish and water have been together for thousands of years, and the orchids and orchids are blooming for generations;

When the auspicious times are good, civilized ceremonies are performed;

The harp and lute play elegant music, and the husband and wife treat each other as guests;

The poems are sung at home, and we are happy to be in Changchun;

Working together to innovate the industry, the four modernizations have made great achievements.

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Congratulations to the married daughter - Congratulations to the married woman - Congratulations to the married woman - Congratulations to the married woman - Congratulations to the married woman - Congratulations to the married woman / Congratulations to the married woman / The joy of Haoshu

Congratulations to the girl - the joy of returning/the joy of coming out of the palace/the joy of adding makeup

Congratulations to the man and woman - the joy of the wedding/the joy of flying

Invite a drink after the wedding - happy honeymoon/congratulations

continuation of marriage - happy to express/happy to continue marriage

officiating the wedding

father officiating the wedding- The joy of the new bride/the joy of the new father/the joy of the old man (not the first marriage)

The mother-in-law’s wedding-the new girl’s joy

The brother-in-law’s marriage-the new uncle’s joy/the crown brother’s wedding The joy

The uncle presided over the wedding-the new uncle's joy

The uncle presided over the wedding-the new uncle's joy

The grandfather presided over the wedding-the new uncle's joy

The specifications are as follows:

(Left, from top to bottom) Congratulations to your eldest brother (for example, your brother)

(Center) (If you are moving) Happy housewarming

(On the right, a little lower) Younger brother/sister (your name, if you are a couple, write two names as husband and wife) Congratulations (date, optional)

It is best to use red paper with black characters. When giving money, use bonus seals (red envelopes), and when giving gifts, wrap them, write congratulations on hard red paper, and include a small red envelope.

Every wedding , relatives and friends must present a gift. In addition, they must also attach a note with the gift. The note is vertical and written from right to left. If there are multiple names on one post, the elder will be in the middle, and the others will be arranged left and right. Instead of writing "worship together" at the end, write "bow down and bow". If father and son, ancestor and grandson share the same post, uncle and nephew share the post, then write so-and-so (respecting the elder) leads so-and-so to pray; if brothers share the post, write so-and-so and his brother so-and-so to bow; couples post the same post, it is also said "together"; However, father, son, grandparents and grandchildren can only say "shu", but not "ke". All happy events should be written in two lines, and the words and sentences should be used carefully. Even if the gift is one, it should be written as "full", "cheng", "double", "joint", etc., while bad things should be written in vain. The use of these words is forbidden. Whenever you accept gifts from others, you should thank them in return with a thank you note and a few gifts. Those who do not accept the gift must still write a note saying "Thank you for the gift" and send it back together with the gift. This is called "bi ceremony". If you are serving wine for your seniors, you should also write words such as "Inherited by so-and-so". When treating a married woman to a guest, write: "On a certain day of a certain month, my daughter will return home and have a cup of wine. I would like to ask so-and-so to pay her respects." To congratulate a married daughter, write "I would like to send you such and such (gift), please pay my respects, and bow to so and so (the person who congratulated you with the gift)". The above invitations must be written in black on red paper. Married girls do not post couplets, while the husband's family uses red paper and gold powder couplets when getting married. Most of the couplets at the entrances of welcoming lanes and villages are: "Sweep the lanes to welcome guests, play the flute to attract the phoenix". Most of the couplets in the wine hall and kitchen are: "The gentleman is staying in the small house for a while, and the wine is clear enough to make friends with old friends", "It is not a very precious delicacy to greet the guests, but it is better to drink more to show off" and other restless words. The couplet in the drum music hall reads: "The five notes are played to create a mandarin duck score, and the six rhythms are played to create a graceful song"; or: "The new Sheng song is composed of IKEA music, and the harp and harp are harmonized with the Yan'er sound." The couplets in the bridal chamber of the newlyweds are "In the past, I entered Taoyuan Cave privately, and tonight I visited the Moon Palace Gate tomorrow"; or "In the past, I lived in Yue Mansion, but tonight I can only meet Chang'e" and so on. Hengpi mostly contains good words such as "Luan, Phoenix and Chicken" and "Made in Heaven". If the groom's elders are still alive, there will be a couplet attached to his residence that goes like this: "In front of the steps, I present my new daughter-in-law, and in the hall I have a pregnant uncle." It depends on their seniority. If the groom is a younger brother, the address of his brother-in-law will be written with couplets such as: "Brothers can carry on their ambitions when they grow up, and the role model for brothers is to make the family together."

Selected Marriage Couples: Luan, Phoenix and Ming Yuanyang, Good Luck and Good Luck, a Hundred Years of Harmony Between the Qin and Se, Friends of the Qin and Se, a Hundred Years of Everlasting Marriage, Shared Love, Guan, Sui, and Joy, a Perfect Match for the Family, Unity and Fighting, Great Lun, Fulu, Mandarin Ducks, Three Stars, and Family Planning Couples at Home In the words of a century-old song, a happy marriage, together with the husband and wife in the fifth life, Bu Qichang, Jiali, Xie, civilized and united in dryness, the four modernizations, the delicious food comes out from the kitchen, and the parents are filial piety. In the room, the newlyweds come. Flowers bloom, and the emperor and the mandarin ducks warm the couple in front of the hall. The couple reunites in the drunken amber-rich seat. Qi Youyan's wedding

The traditional greeting card is as follows:

(from top to bottom on the right): Preparation for the wedding ceremony (or wedding ceremony) Congratulations to the eldest brother (who is older than you)

(Center): The joy of being on the top list (high school)

(Bottom left): Yudi (or sister) (your name. If you are a couple, write two names as husband and wife) ) Congratulations (date)

Red paper with black characters (or gold characters). Give money with a red envelope (red envelope). Give gifts after wrapping. Use hard red paper to write congratulations. Include a small red envelope.