Be careful with your words and kind-hearted.

Speak slowly, which tells us that we should think carefully before speaking. This can make us more cautious, steady and calm, and cultivate our mature and generous personality; secondly, the tone of speaking should be soothing , so that the listeners will feel respected, cordial, and more comfortable.

A kind heart can generate a person's yang energy. There is a famous saying in our Chinese culture: "Doing good is the most joyful." Everyone knows these four words. Usually, when people read these four words, they don’t pay much attention to them because they regard them as a traditional dogma and words of encouragement. In fact, human psychology is very strange. If we do anything bad, we will feel uneasy, unhappy, and feel wrong inside. This uneasiness and wrongness are not towards others, but towards ourselves. Gradually, our faces and demeanor will deteriorate, and our spirits will deteriorate. It's out of shape. If you truly and unconditionally do good deeds, help others, benefit others, and do a good deed, you will naturally feel very happy. That happiness cannot be explained theoretically.