Fang Duoduo is a girl with average grades and loves writing. Her father is an ophthalmologist, with a humorous personality. She advocates treating her children slack management and her mother is a strong woman. She is strict and earnest, and refuses to relax in her studies.
Zhang Xiaoyu is a generous and honest rich second generation, spoiled by grandparents since childhood. His mother died young and his father married a young stepmother. Xiaoyu is kind in nature and has poor academic performance. Because she doesn't get along well with her stepmother, she gradually rebelled.
Qinqin was born in a very ordinary working family. Her father is a taxi driver and her mother is a doctor in a community hospital. Qinqin's mother is very strong and determined to send Qinqin abroad, but Qinqin's father advocates that his daughter stay at home to study, and the two have great differences.
In a word, these three families can represent most of the family situations, and also represent each family's worries about the education of the next generation. The drama "Little Separation" not only reflects the tendency of modern education, but also truly reflects the state characteristics of adolescent children.
Because "Little Separation" intuitively reflects the current education and family situation, the popularity has soared since its launch, so that I chased 30 episodes in three days.
When I was a student, only scores were the lifeblood.
As a student, there has always been a popular saying, "examination is a magic weapon for teachers;" Points are the lifeblood of students. "
Good grades, teachers praise the whole class, and parents smile, which can satisfy all the wishes of children. But once the test is not good, the child will be labeled as a "poor student", which also means that the future is worrying.
Although quality education was implemented later, it did not completely change the influence of cramming education on children for many years. On the occasion of the senior high school entrance examination, Duoduo suffered from "test anxiety" because she couldn't bear the sudden huge pressure, so many parents had to decide to send her abroad to study in high school in order to have a relaxed way of growing up.
Let's not say whether it is good to study abroad for the time being, but the desire of some domestic schools for grades and enrollment rate is likely to deprive children of the right to grow up healthily and happily, leave a shadow on their childhood, and even have an irreparable impact on their later life. Only in this way can their lives be really ruined.
Faced with the pressure of children, many families in China will fall into thinking about how to balance the relationship between the pressure of entering a higher school and free development. Therefore, many children and parents are struggling with the pressure of the education system and the constant demands of emotions.
Second, middle-class families still live in anxiety.
We were all born in an ordinary family, and we didn't have anything over 100 million, so we didn't eat our last meal for nothing, but we have been full of anxiety in such an ordinary family.
With moderate academic performance, blossoming may be admitted to key high schools if they work hard, but once they don't play well, they can only go to ordinary high schools or vocational high schools;
Qinqin's academic performance is excellent, but there are too many good prospects in key high schools. Qinqin's mother is worried that even if she goes to a key high school, she may not be able to compete with those children who come back from studying abroad.
Xiaoyu's family is well-off, and it's only a matter of minutes to tell her country, but whether she wants to go abroad is also a problem.
The fierce competition now is beyond our imagination, and middle-class families are the most worthy of sympathy.
Sometimes we are not afraid of lack of money, and we can make money desperately without money, but we are afraid that those rich people can override the rules at will in this society. People who have no money can't compare with rich people, and rich people can't compare with people who have spare money. The worst are those middle-class families between having no money and having money.
After all, people who are short of money can accept their fate, and those who are rich can have sex. Those families who wander in the middle are really embarrassed.
Three parents always impose unfinished dreams on the next generation.
In life, we often hear a sentence: "Son, your parents have been like this all their lives. Our greatest hope in this life lies in you. You cannot let us down. "
It really took Qin Qin's mother a long time to send Qin Qin abroad. First, I started to sell the house to raise money, then I thought about sending Qinqin abroad to accompany Xiaoyu, and finally I planned to adopt Qinqin to my own sister, just to get American citizenship and attend American public schools.
It is said that parents are not easy, in fact, children nowadays have a hard time. They have their own dreams in their hearts, but they also have the mission of fulfilling their parents' dreams. They seem to be one person, but they have the dreams of two or even three generations on their heads. This is really too much pressure for them. When people pay too much attention to their children's bright future, they ignore their real thoughts.
Parents expect their children to have a wonderful life, and it is inevitable to demand the next generation with their own hard conditions. There are many definitions of Excellence. You don't have to be rich, and success is not a waste of life. Who says ordinary happiness is not great?
In the play, Grandpa Duo Duo read a poem and poked me in minutes.
When a person grafts his dream to others, the meaning of this person's existence in this world is only to help others continue their own value. Even if this value is really realized in the end, it has nothing to do with himself. What a sad thing it is.
You can't always have both interests and studies.
Fang Duoduo in the play is a girl who likes writing. Her novel "My Maddest Youth" has a high popularity on the Internet and has 80,000 fans. But Duoduo's mother asked her to give up updating novels for the senior high school entrance examination for a while, which made Duoduo very depressed.
In the era of reading, we had many dreams every day, such as "the world is so big, I want to see it"; For example, become a writer, or become an eye-catching star. Regarding our future, we have secretly made various plans, but in the end, under the pressure of teachers and parents, we will go out of our own blueprint and return to the mountain of books and the sea of questions.
I have been interested in writing since junior high school. Every time I write, I always feel that I have something to say.
But because my schoolwork was too tight at that time, I could only secretly write a little on white paper every day after school, and then upload it to my blog when I was allowed to play computer.
At that time, it was like, even if I couldn't be myself completely in life, I could be myself when writing. Therefore, I cherish every opportunity to express my feelings.
I have always felt that in the limited time of life, it is the luckiest thing in the world to have the right to express freely and share my views with people who are willing to listen to you.
Five adolescent rebellion, it is not just yourself who is sad.
When I think about it, when we have many differences and contradictions with our parents, we will yell that our parents don't understand us, cry about our grievances, and feel that the whole world doesn't understand our difficulties.
But we often ignore that behind the quarrel, parents may be more helpless.
The shouts that broke out at that moment were all real venting, but in retrospect, those words that did not pass through the brain were the most unacceptable pain for parents.
But many times, parents can only comfort and support each other by saying that their children are still young and will grow up.
When I was in high school, I had a rebellious period. If you don't study hard in class, send text messages to your classmates with your mobile phone. I was dumbfounded when my parents threw me a long list of phone bills. Later, my parents severely criticized me, then threw me a "think for yourself" and closed the door.
Fifteen minutes later, my father invited me to dinner because I was too angry to speak.
Suddenly, I regret it very much. I am angry at my lack of effort and blame myself for being outspoken. The reason I gave myself in a hurry turned into an excuse in an instant.
Just like this scene in the play, even if parents and children have a fierce quarrel, the most sad thing is actually not the children, but the crying helpless parents, and all this can only be realized when all children grow up.
Sixth, for the sake of reunion, which also constitutes the integrity of life.
There is an argument about death in Chipa's story. The sentence that Gao said was swiped in the circle of friends:
In our education, we seldom talk about parting. Even in do or die, we have to stamp our feet three times and touch the wood before we feel unlucky.
Therefore, we are never ready to leave, or we are afraid of leaving, afraid that friends and family who have been together day and night will leave us.
In this play, the blossoming mother and Qinqin father couldn't accept the fact that their children went abroad at first. They want their children to stay with them forever, even if they go to college or even find a job in the future.
Actually, so am i. For a person who wants everything to be perfect, I always hope that there will always be encounters in life, and there will be less drama of separation.
For example, every time I go home on holiday, I am in high spirits, but I am always unhappy when school starts. Because I still can't accept living alone, I'm used to being sheltered and eating whatever I want. As long as I say a word, my parents will go to the kitchen to be busy, so I am always not used to a person facing the intrigue in the world.
But think about it, life always seems to leave something else. We don't hear the saying that "parents won't accompany you all your life", but it seems that it is only a matter of time.
So "Little Separation" made China's parents and children experience the separation in advance. It is precisely because this drama truly restores the disappointment and entanglement of parting that it reminds us to cherish the time together so as not to regret it in the future.
I really hope this drama can become a window of expression and display, so that more and more parents and children can respect and understand each other and let more people understand the importance of cherishing when they have it.
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