But unfortunately, my mind is one-track, only to recognize my husband, and I can't listen to anything else. My parents have no choice but to agree to our marriage. I didn't ask them to give me much dowry, because I also know that my husband can't give me much money as a bride price, so in order to avoid embarrassment between the two sides, I chose to take a step back, just a little.
After marriage, our life is still good, because we both have jobs. Although we can't afford a house, the days of renting a house are quite interesting. So after more than two years, I got pregnant. I wanted my mother to come and take care of me, but my mother-in-law wouldn't let me, saying that she would take care of me, so we didn't say anything more. After my mother-in-law came over, she was very kind to me. She does all the housework and has a nutritious diet.
In this way, after I gave birth, my mother came to see me once. Then pull me into the room and say, now that you have children, and your mother-in-law is there, I know that you are very independent and want to work hard by yourself, and don't want to rely on me and your father. But, Qin Xiao, think about this child. Do you still want to squeeze out the rental house with your child when he grows up? Last time, don't think I didn't know, I was kicked out by the landlord in the middle of the night, saying that I found a new and better tenant. At that time, you were better off without children. Now that you have a child, do you still want him to live this life with you?
At this moment, I fell silent. In fact, I also asked my husband this question and thought about buying a house, but now we are just on the rise, and I am pregnant and can't go out to work. My husband is the only one with income. I asked my in-laws. Not long ago, they gave all their money to their brother-in-law to buy a house, so buying a house can only be postponed. Now the children are getting bigger every day, but the money is still rolling around. So I promised my mother's advice and accepted my parents to buy me a house. After that, my parents also paid the money very readily, and then my parents asked me to sign and get the real estate license.
Just about to go out, my mother-in-law stopped me and said, I know your parents bought you a house, and now I want to write my name. You should know that a man is the head of the family, so your husband's name must be written on the property certificate, okay? I thought about it. It's ridiculous. I said to my mother-in-law: When we wanted to buy our own house, you gave it all to my brother-in-law. Now my parents bought me a house, but you want me to write your son's name on the property ownership certificate. Is this fair?
Mother-in-law went on to say: Your family has money and can buy you a house. You don't want to think about your brother-in-law's husband's family. Where can they afford to buy a house? What will he get married with if we don't help him? I'll put my words here today. If you don't write my son's name, you can't enter this house again. I sneered that if you threatened me, I wouldn't. If you can't accept it, get a divorce.
Afterwards, I told my husband about it. My husband said, I'm sorry. You don't have to write my name. This is your house. Later, we didn't get divorced, and my mother-in-law went back to her hometown, and her husband asked her to go back. Now that I have a child, I wouldn't say the word divorce if it weren't for a moment of anger. Divorce is not a wise thing.