Article/Seven Months

If there is a person around you who always likes to nag, will you feel bored? The answer is yes. Who doesn’t want to have a refreshing breeze in his ears and close his eyes without hearing anything outside the window after a grueling day’s work? We all have jobs, and we are already very tired from dealing with clients, bosses, and colleagues every day.

But please cherish this person who nags you. Have you ever thought about why that nagging person does not nag to others, but only to you.

It’s not just because she hasn’t seen you all day long, in her eyes, you are everything to her, you are her safe haven, you are her guiding light, so she can’t wait I want to tell you everything that happens every day like a movie. I tell you one by one about the people and things I am dissatisfied with around me. I think about what you think and think about. I really want you to be able to enter her. She knows everything that happened when you were not with her. If you talk too much, it will turn into nagging and nonsense.

What he wants is for you to participate in her life. The best way to integrate into her world and understand her is to participate in her life, walk the path she has taken, and see the scenery she has seen.

Understanding is a kind of tolerance, understanding is a kind of cultivation, understanding is the sublimation of the chaotic and chaotic mind into peace and tranquility. When we all get along with each other with a kind of understanding and tolerance, the world will change. Very beautiful.

What she actually wants when she complains to you is that you listen to her complain. What you have to do is to take it indifferently and just laugh at the joke. Those who are considerate, obedient and gentle in front of you A considerate person must wear a mask. She understands that men are not everything to her, and marriage is difficult to maintain, so she is cautious in everything and shows magnanimity and tolerance, just like those around the emperor who have evil intentions and are everywhere. Just like a scheming concubine, in their eyes, you cannot treat you sincerely, so they are always considerate, think about what you think, think about what you want, eat the king's salary, and worry about the army

And those who gradually let themselves go in the daily necessities of life are often sincere. Because they are relaxed in front of you and return to their own state, they are unscrupulous and willful.

What he wants is not only that you can pamper her and get used to her, but that when he gets carried away, you can hold his little face and say, "I am the one" just like when you are passionately in love. I like your little willfulness." You see it in your eyes and take it into your heart every time he pouts or bulges his cheeks.

Women’s language development abilities are generally more developed than men’s. Also because of gender factors, women tend to express in words, while men prefer to express in actions. This is a good explanation. Two people's different approaches to the same thing.

Men and women are not creatures of the same world due to their physiological structure. Why do two female best friends have endless topics to talk about and stick together from morning to night? It’s endless, and the two men may spend a whole day together playing basketball or fishing together, sitting next to each other for a long time before chatting. They don’t talk much, but they can feel each other’s desire to interact with each other. the meaning expressed.

If you are convinced that others already know the same thing, there is no need to mention it again. Talking too much will only add unnecessary fuss.

At the same time, here is a knock on those little heads who talk too much. Not everyone is interested in the stories you tell, especially the same trivial matters in life. No one has extra time. Get involved in other people's lives, even if that person is your partner.

If he is your soul mate, he can know your thoughts without saying much. Don't use other people's love for you to test the bottom line of patience. Love is wonderful, but at the same time, love is also the most hurtful martial art in the world. Don't try to use your willfulness to satisfy your verbal desires and test your beloved. Some things can only be understood without words.

The beauty of life is like this. There is nothing more magical and valuable than the harmony and connection between two hearts. But we also need frank communication from both sides.

Some things, I asked and you said it, is called candor; I asked and you didn’t tell, it’s called concealment: I didn’t ask, but you said it, it’s called tacit understanding: I didn’t ask, you didn’t tell. , called alienation.

Maintaining an appropriate sense of mystery will make you more attractive. It will be boring to open everything up and let people see the whole thing. Only half-covering it can keep it fresh.

Two hedgehogs that get too close can actually hurt each other.

When you put your eyes on a book, you will never be able to see clearly what is written on the book because the distance is too close. But when the distance between you and your lover is small enough, you are still completely Can't see each other clearly.

Try to leave some space for each other and leave a quiet world for each of them to live in the same area. For rest and recuperation.

That way, any response from love will be more beautiful.