About the beautiful essay 1: Not knowing how to refuse is a disease.
Many people like Guan Yuer in Ode to Joy because she is sweet and kind. But she is often criticized: because she is too kind, she doesn't know how to refuse others.
Guan Juer often works late because he helps others. Last time, my colleague was ill again and asked her to finish the rest of the work. Finally, she signed it.
What my colleagues did was full of mistakes, but when the manager knew it, he only scolded Guan Juer. Because she signed it in the end, she has to bear all the responsibilities. And that colleague didn't say a word for her after the accident, and there was no comfort.
Guan Juer's silly and sweet behavior is actually a portrayal of many people today:
Because I want to create a good image for myself, I always ask my friends. Finally, we warmed others, but tired ourselves.
About a very beautiful essay 2: refuse! Sometimes gentle, sometimes hard to refuse!
? Do something, do something. , is the words of Confucius. ? Do something? Is to refuse. What kind of person will do something? Gentleman.
A gentleman is an identity. Like a gentleman, people with different identities should do things and refuse to do them.
San Mao said:? Don't be afraid to refuse others, if your reasons are justified. When a person opens his mouth to make a request, he has two answers in mind. Therefore, it is expected to give him any answer. ?
Therefore, to refuse others, we must first give a legitimate reason. ? I'm getting off work? 、? I don't like doing this, okay? Everything is for the right reasons. Even if you simply don't want to help, I don't want to? It is also the best reason.
If you don't want to hurt someone's face, round it.
After Qian Zhongshu's death, Fei Xiaotong, who had a crush on Jiang Yang in his early years, came to you again. When he left, Jiang Yang sent him a message: The stairs are hard to walk, so you don't want them in the future? Go ahead despite difficulties? Yes ?
Fei Xiaotong is also a wise man, and he can only die of that heart in the future.
Rejection is not an insult to the couple. On the contrary, not wasting everyone's time is the greatest respect for both sides.
And every time you refuse, you answer an important question and make the other person think about it:
Who the hell am I?
Essay 3 on Beauty: It's important to see yourself clearly.
Author: Xiao Ai
Last Thursday, the leader went to the community to see the scene. The leader asked the little girl who used to watch in the next office to go to the scene first. The little girl suddenly became hard-pressed, telling this at the scene, guiding this, pretending that she was something, and no one saw it there, as if she was something. People greeted her, but she pretended not to see and looked at others. After that, the next day.
I can't help but want to share a short story with you: there is a donkey in a temple on the mountain. It grinds hard in the mill every day. Over time, the donkey grew tired of this dull life. It thinks every day that it would be great if it could go out and see the outside world without grinding!
Soon, the opportunity finally came. A monk took a donkey down the mountain to move things. He was very excited.
At the foot of the mountain, the monk put something on the donkey's back and took it back to the temple. Unexpectedly, whenever passers-by saw the donkey, they knelt on both sides to worship. At first, the donkey was confused. I don't know why someone kowtowed to himself and hurried away. But all the way, the donkey couldn't help but get carried away. So people worship me so much.
When it sees someone passing by again, it will stand in the middle of the road with its head held high, and its waist will be straight instantly when walking! Back in the temple, the donkey thought he was noble, refused to pull the mill anyway, and was only willing to accept people's bow down.
The monk had no choice but to let it go down the mountain.
As soon as the donkey came down the mountain, he saw a group of people beating gongs and drums coming head-on, thinking that they must have come to welcome me, and they swaggered in the middle of the road. This is a wedding procession, but it was blocked by a donkey. People are furious and hit it with sticks?
The donkey fled back to the temple, dying, and angrily told the monk: It turns out that people are sinister. When I went down the mountain for the first time, people worshipped me and killed me today.
The monk sighed:? What a donkey! On that day, people bowed down to the Buddha on your back, not you! ?
The greatest misfortune in life is not knowing yourself. Leave your seat, you are nothing!
If you have wealth, others only worship your wealth and don't worship you, but you will misunderstand that others worship you;
If you have power, others worship only your power, not you, and you misunderstand that others worship you;
If you have beauty, others worship only your temporary beauty, not you, and you mistakenly think that others worship you.
When wealth, power and beauty pass the expiration date, you will be abandoned? Others worship only their needs, not you.
People, the most important thing is to see their role clearly. People often have illusions about reality and ideals. Without ideals, there will be no progress, and if you are divorced from reality, you will laugh generously. You should learn to be a good employee first, and then learn to be the chairman. Those who aim too high often have a higher heart than the sky and a thinner life than paper; Those who indulge themselves can only sigh and live in fear all day long. Knowing what you have is more important than knowing what you want.
Life is a play. We are all passers-by in the play, playing our own roles on this short stage, and sometimes we can't help it. But as long as we can become the most authentic characters, we will find that life is absolutely the best, even though we are wearing Facebook!
The road to life is not the end, but a process. Although bitter, although I don't want to do it anymore, it is a sweet journey of self-confidence in my memory, just like life. If you can't be a golden pine on the top of the mountain, be a small tree in the valley-but be the best one by the stream. If you can't be a big tree, be a shrub; If you can't be a small shrub, be a meadow. If you can't make camphor, then make small bass? But to be the liveliest little bass in the lake. If you can't be a road, make a path; If you can't be the sun, be a star. We can't all be captains; Someone must be a sailor.
Life is stormy and everything will not go smoothly; Disturbing the world will not make people happy anywhere; There are always some things that make us unhappy. There are always some people who make us dissatisfied; There are always some roads that make us unable to walk; There are always some reasons that we cannot understand; We are always unhappy. Learn to change with your heart, and your heart will follow your path.
If you see yourself clearly, you can be more clear about the direction of progress; If you see yourself clearly, you won't go astray; Only by seeing yourself clearly can we understand what we need; See ourselves clearly, and our road will be smoother and smoother.
In the face of temptation, be firm; In the face of suffering, we must be strong; In the face of difficulties, we need to be calm; Face life and see yourself clearly?
The road of life is long and full of thorns. But there are also many attractive scenery along the roadside, so you can stay and have a look and adjust your nervous nerves. But you should know that you are just a passer-by for those attractive scenery. Please don't let worldly evil blind your heart. Your goal is in the distance, and the distance shines brilliantly.