The canoe in the book describes itself in calm words. She said she was a patient with severe depression. She smokes, tattoos, drinks, plays truant, falls in love with others, commits suicide ... as she wrote, "She did a lot of deviant things in adolescence". In the eyes of her parents, she is a rebellious bad girl, but the biggest reason for her change is the failure of her parents' marriage. Her parents divorced when she was very young, and she lived with her mother. After her parents divorced, she only met her father once, so in this family that lacks fatherly love, she is extremely eager for love. Perhaps it was her twists and turns in life that led her to write these sought-after works.
She wrote about many people's youth, and was once a best-selling writer of the youth literature magazine Huahuo, which was popular among primary and middle school students and high school students. Her words are not flowery, but pure, and always hit the nail on the head.
I like what she said very much: "Every time I watch a talent show, I want those players to sing songs I know, but not songs I like.". When I sing my favorite songs to everyone and the lyrics are hung on the signature file by many people, I will feel slightly lost, like a deep secret has been accidentally destroyed. In fact, what you are usually willing to share with others is often not what you like best, but what you cherish most. You will only enjoy it like a cheapskate. " Isn't that what people do? When I was a child, I always wanted to have my own things, whether it was my favorite toys or my parents' love. When I grow up, I don't steal it for myself like I did when I was a child, but I still cherish it carefully. We are still the stingy people who share what we like, but in different ways. When we grow up, we will eventually become adults we hate. Haruki Murakami said, "You should be a quiet adult. Don't be emotional and live your own other life. "
After a long time, I went to see "I have fallen for a long time", and there was a passage that made me feel for a long time. "At the age of eighteen, you were a girl who reported to the university by car with her luggage on her back. On that sunny day, you walked cheerfully through the reception point, rushed into the dormitory after completing all the formalities, and saw the girl in your dormitory looking back at her father hanging mosquito nets for her ... "This passage was nothing special, but it suddenly reminded me.
/kloc-I am brave and confident at the age of 0/8. At that time, I was full of confidence in all unknown challenges. I want to make more friends and be optimistic and curious about everything around me. At that time, everything was pure, and I learned some truth about being a man. I have had many different experiences and added some colorful chapters to the original blank life experience.
I hope we can all pursue ourselves like canoes, regardless of other people's eyes, travel if you want, love if you want, do if you want, and realize if you want, but only if you are good enough to support your dreams and the freedom you want!