The social pressure of contemporary people is getting heavier and heavier. Busy work always makes us physically and mentally tired, so the Internet has become a way for us to relax.

Watching TV series, variety shows or Douyin in your spare time has become the normal life of people in contemporary society, and it has also become a way for people to relieve stress and relax. At the same time, we are more or less attracted to a certain actor in a TV series or a certain host in a variety show, and then start to pay attention to these people.

In this way we will become fans of a certain actor, a certain host or a certain star. As fans, we will start to pay attention to these people's past experiences and itineraries.

In fact, these are understandable and normal phenomena. Celebrities will be happy because they have more fans, and fans will also be happy because they like a certain star. This should be a very happy thing.

However, with the development of the times, some bad habits have gradually begun to form. Especially in recent years, illegitimate incidents have occurred frequently, which has made some celebrities and actors unbearable and even started to publish blog posts in an attempt to stop this. kind of behavior. I will send you some pictures for everyone to see:

These are only the illegitimate behaviors that we can see, and more actors and stars may also be experiencing harassment from illegitimate individuals, but They didn't publish it. Just knowing this is already unbearable for us as bystanders. The actors have to deal with these illegitimate children under huge work pressure and filming pressure every day, so the pressure on them can be imagined.

In fact, there is not much difference between celebrity actors and ordinary workers like us. What is the difference between them and us? They are good-looking and handsome, often appear on the screen, and have high incomes. That's all.

Then why does the phenomenon of illegitimacy occur simply because of this? I have summarized the following points myself.

First, it comes from curiosity. As ordinary people, some of us may be curious about how the lives of celebrities are different from ours. What is our daily life like? What products do we use? This question would automatically pop up in their minds, and I became eager to understand, so they began to explore the lives of star actors in every possible way.

Second, vanity is at work. Some people may have seen a celebrity's autographed photo or a photo with a certain celebrity on the Internet, and have developed a great comparison mentality. They want to get something closer to the celebrity and post it online to prove themselves. He has a good relationship with his idols and is proud of it.

Thirdly, it is not ruled out that a star or an actor's opponent deliberately caused trouble.

Of course, the first two reasons are more common. Maybe my analysis is not very accurate, but they are generally the same.

The consequences of these reasons will bring great trouble to celebrities. As far as I know, Wang Yibo has moved three times because of his illegitimate child, and Xiao Zhan was once secretly transferred to a plane by his illegitimate child. tickets and missed the flight.

It’s right to chase your favorite celebrities, but it’s wrong to go too far. We all know that we should give each other appropriate space when talking about our partners. Why can’t we give the stars space when we are chasing stars? We all know that the relationship between celebrities and the partners is closer to us, right?

The correct way to chase stars is to take care of your daily life and work, watch your idol’s new dramas and variety shows, pay attention to your idol’s trends, and support your idol as much as you can. Products endorsed by Dou or public fan activities are acceptable.

But regarding idols’ undisclosed itineraries, we don’t deliberately create chance encounters. If you happen to meet someone and say hello, you can take a photo or video, but don’t send it immediately. You can send it after a few hours. This can avoid fans rushing nearby and affecting the idol’s schedule.

But the best relationship between celebrities and fans should be when idols happen to have an event recently, and I happen to have time to watch it. Under the premise of chasing stars, it will not affect the daily life and work of idols, nor will it affect my own daily life and work. Star chasing should be our leisure entertainment as office workers, rather than being like detectives who monitor celebrities everywhere. Every move.

Chasing stars should make us as fans and our idols feel physically and mentally happy, rather than troubled and stressed.

Actors’ film and television works need audiences, but their lives do not need audiences, but respect.

Secondly, I want to talk about the comparison between fans. Everyone has their favorite idols more or less. Their idols have made the same type of TV series as other people’s idols. It is inevitable to compare them. As a fan of idols, it is inevitable that they will support their own works, which is understandable.

But I hope that as a fan of idols, you will not put down other idols because you don’t like their works, or even write some instructive articles to start a fight. This is a kind of Very poor performance.

Good works will naturally be supported by people, and good actors will naturally have fans to follow them. As a fan, you only need to silently support your own company. How do other people make troubles and how do they compare to others? If our idols are not involved, we should not comment. You don’t know whether your small comment will be harmful or not. This is the beginning of the quarrel.

In today’s Internet age, as fans, we also represent the image of our idols to a certain extent. Discrediting and recruiting discredit for our idols is what we, as fans, should avoid most.

It is their business for other people’s fans to leave indecent comments on some platforms to bring disgrace on their idols. This behavior is like a person walking on the road and meeting a daddy. Normal people They just avoid it and walk by, while unqualified people touch it to make sure it is a daddy, or spit on the daddy to prove that they have seen it. If someone replies to these indecent comments, they are stepping on someone else’s fault. It makes the commenter disgusted and disgusts themself.

In fact, it is not uncommon for two fans to quarrel with each other in the comment area of ??a certain platform. If there weren't so many people who stepped on the cake, this fight wouldn't be able to be torn apart at all, so it's crucial to restrain yourself when chasing stars.

We need to be a quality star chaser, so that our idols can worry less and our family can rest assured of you.

"The whole picture is unknown, no comment." is a line from a TV series. I like it very much, and I give it to you at the same time. I hope you can do the same.

Of course, the above is just my personal opinion. If anyone wants to add something, you can leave a message under my article. I may not change it after seeing it, but I will read it.