As a wife, what I am afraid of is not Y-night stand, but extramarital affairs. Extramarital affairs are made up of two people's good times day after day. If you want to solve extramarital affairs, you must make an accurate judgment on its development stage and adopt different solutions at different stages.
I have always stressed that extramarital affairs are the "cold" of marriage, and early prevention, early detection, early treatment and early solution are needed. So, how did extramarital affairs come about? What are the development rules of extramarital affairs?
I have handled some lawsuits involving extramarital affairs and accumulated some experience. No matter what kind of extramarital affairs, there will be signs of stages. If the stage of extramarital affairs is compared to the four seasons in a year, that is, extramarital affairs also have spring, summer, autumn and winter, I think it is not bad. Theoretically, if extramarital affairs are to be divided into stages, they are generally divided into four stages:
Spring: it is a sweet period of extramarital affairs when the earth warms up and the grass grows and the warblers fly;
Summer: rising temperature and inner restlessness are the transition period of extramarital affairs;
Autumn: autumn wind rustling, each thinking, is the maintenance period of extramarital affairs;
Winter: it is freezing, it is calm, it is rational, and it is the end of extramarital affairs.
When extramarital affairs just sprout, it is often the warmest and sweetest time for two people. They may hit it off because of various coincidences, and often participate in activities together because of work and other reasons. At this time, both men and women did not expect to be together for a long time, and their attention was only focused on the joy and happiness here and now. Both sides should ensure the secrecy of the meeting and try to forget moral considerations and inner guilt as much as possible. The mentality of cheating in love has always been the same. Two people began to suffer from "SMS disease", hid their mobile phones, and their mental state fluctuated, and some "symptoms" began to appear. At this time, I think I'm in love again. I don't want to go home at the first opportunity, hiding in my lover's soft arms.
Peony is dead, and it's romantic to be a ghost. As time goes by, extramarital affairs gradually spread to summer. If you don't see Sanqiu for a day, your courage will gradually increase. At this time, it is often the most passionate and unscrupulous time for extramarital affairs. On this hot day, with mutual understanding, they need to deal with the same problems as time, activities and contact. At this time, their position in each other's life is the "second person" after their spouse. Friendship can be shared, but love must be exclusive. So many people want to be the "first person" of each other and marry each other. With "No.2", I will be happy. Some men start to stay at home for many reasons: business trip, overtime work and socializing. ...
"Yellow leaves of Qiu Lai fall". During this period, the two sides slowly walked out of the passionate stage in the early stage of extramarital affairs. The novelty has passed, and people are gradually getting down to earth. They should not only consider the opinions of relatives, friends and colleagues, but also deal with money, power and gifts. They also have to face the differences in age, religion, hobbies and social background, and there will be various psychological phenomena such as jealousy and hatred. Pregnancy is a huge stumbling block.