1. Life is complicated and simple. Getting is as simple as losing. Just like giving up, it is very complicated and simple: giving up what should not be given up is incompetence, and giving up what should be given up is wise. Ignorance should be given up if you don't give up, and persistence should not be given up. Giving up is a big problem in life, however, at this time, giving up is also a compulsory course for us to study. A lot of things, always after the experience to understand what is giving up.
Say you love me, please let me feel that you love me.
There is a difference between liking and loving. Like is a kind of mood, and love is an emotion. Like is an intuition, love is a feeling. Love is shallow love, but love is deep love. I like you, but I don't necessarily love you. If I love you, I must like you very much. Like a person, shallow like is the most beautiful, such as drinking tea, indifferent and lonely, picking chrysanthemums under the hedge, full of Zen, pure snow in a silver bowl, but listening to Xiao Yun across the water, especially touching.
4, put down your heart, and naturally you can break your troubles. Why can the person have trouble? Because they are narrow-minded and can't accommodate people who don't like or are better than themselves.
Many of our pains and tribulations are caused by regrets, worries and fears, which are all negative things in our life. Every minute that we worry about the future and regret the past is a minute that we lose and start our life again. Therefore, living happily in the present is the "mindfulness" in our life.
6. Cause and effect are your final history. If you lose something, you must always return it to others. This is the law of nature, and no one can deny it. You have done both good and bad things, not to mention the next generation. This life will be counterproductive to your children and grandchildren and the rest of your life. You don't have to wait for the next life.
7. Quietly listening to the complexity and noise of the world, telling a faint feeling with a cold song, closing my eyes and listening attentively to "I have repeatedly asked questions in the dark before I know that dullness and leisure are true", as if the song has its own shadow. I like the faint, elegant and soft feeling in this mood, past, present and future.
8. Everyone has weaknesses. If anyone wants to find a friend without faults, he will never find what he is looking for. Although we are wrong, we still love ourselves, so we should love our friends as well.
Forgiveness is different. Forgiveness is an ability, an ability to prevent the damage from expanding. The best way to avoid pain is to forgive those who have hurt us. If you can't release each other, you may become a prisoner whose mind is captured. Forgiveness is not only pity, but also cultivation. Only forgiveness can release oneself and let one's repressed mind breathe a sigh of relief. This is called taking a step back and broadening the horizon. In fact, when our mind can be all-encompassing, the so-called harm is not what harm is, but what people can't bear and pedestrians can't do.
10, how many vows of eternal life will eventually become lies in the world of mortals; In the world, how many lingering feelings are always forgotten in the rivers and lakes. No one will appear in other people's lives for no reason. Everyone appears for a reason and deserves gratitude. The so-called cherish fate, not love and hate, but be kind to each other when they meet; Don't get hurt when saying goodbye.
1 1. Happiness is not as far away as we thought. Happiness is in the sunset, holding hands with my beloved wife and running to that place called home in the sunset; Happiness is that you can still enjoy yourself at the knees of your white-haired parents like a child; Happiness is that after the busy autumn harvest, the old farmer squatted at the door with his cigarette in his mouth and smiled at the joy of hoarding Man Cang; Happiness is that the young mother looks back at the sleeping child in the back seat and gently shouts the child's birth name; Happiness is to curl up on the sofa in a warm and comfortable home and read a new book just found in the book bar.
12, people need to wipe the mirror of the soul in time, and should not ignore the original appeal of the soul because of being busy. The mirror of the mind may be hard to be clear! In life, we often have unnecessary troubles because of the deviation of self-cognition. If you care too much about other people's ideas, you will only get tired of yourself.
13, there is not a young man who does not yearn for distant places and hopes that he can leave his narrow homeland and wander to the ends of the earth. Therefore, you should not regard vagrancy as a poor word. It is a portrayal of all our lives, and it can also be said that it is a kind of life that we sincerely pursue.
14, the power of free and easy, we all have different responsibilities and obligations in life. Maybe our body is limited, maybe it is because our environment and our own abilities are constrained, and we can't be as satisfactory as we wish, but no one can limit our heart, it is free. If the heart is free, the heart is a free world, and the real freedom lies in the heart.
15, the world is big and the hands are small. Our world is made up of one pair of hands. The world is big and the heart is bigger, because the heart can hold sumeru and the heart can hold the whole world. We can be a strong person, face all kinds of situations calmly and experience all kinds of ups and downs bravely; Be an open-minded person, forget the lost people and things, forget the past love and hate. If you can't get it, you know how to give up; Learn to cherish what you can't touch.
16, people have good thoughts, and God will bless them.
17, truth is the highest realm of life. Be light and be true to your feelings. Life never deliberately owes anyone, life is a kind of tolerance. When someone gossips about you behind your back, make your tongue like a lotus. The world is full of ups and downs.
18, to be a man, you should bow your head, how much your mind can sink, how much you can endure, and decide what kind of person you can become; What you can do depends on how much attention you can bear and how much pressure you can resist. Bowing your head, it contains humility and low-key, belonging to the atmosphere; Look up, hide and forge ahead, and be strong is the backbone. Bow your head when you like, and you will go further; Looking up in adversity, self-confidence is the most precious. Bow your head and hit the threshold; Look up at the sky.
19, friendship often brings you a sincere heart, which will fight with you in the ocean of life and will always be the sail of your ship.
20. Cultivate a broad heart and tolerate those who are sorry for you.
2 1. When the spring breeze blows open the budding bud, when the baby is born and reports to the world, it quietly walks, and laughter cannot be stopped; When the autumn wind blows down dead leaves, when the old man silently says goodbye to others, it walks silently, and sighs can't make it turn back. It is time.
22. Fate is not a heavy burden, let alone a besieged city. All the processes in fate are a kind of perfection and scenery, to participate, to take the initiative and to think. Learn to let go of wisdom and face the world easily, with clouds behind you.
23. Make fewer promises and ensure your credibility.
24. There are many regrets, which we later called beautiful mistakes, but maybe you insisted on doing it at the beginning, and now there are only mistakes.
25. It is better to do what you like, even if you fail, than to succeed in what you hate. So, please seize the opportunity, pursue your dreams, and lose and fight again and again until you succeed. Dare to sacrifice, dare to walk out of a comfortable haven, and fight against life again and again. Full of courage and passion, look directly at your fears. Stick to your dream and try to make it come true.
What a happy ending it is to finally wait for you. What I am most afraid of is that waiting is far away and the outcome is unpredictable.
27. Many times it is our own heart that imprisons us. If we don't learn how to break the inner imprisonment, even if we get the whole world, we still can't feel the satisfaction of happiness.
28. Recreation is another kind of pain to show others, and carnival is another kind of loneliness to leave your own pain.
29, excellent heart, we don't have to be gorgeous, but we must be strong.
Don't forget those who have helped you, don't hate those who have cheated you.
3 1, I like you, I used to be, I am now, and I won't be anymore.
After success, don't ask for credit, because you won't lose honor without asking for credit.
33. If you have confidence, you are half successful.
34. The charm of life lies in silence. The peace of appearance gives beauty, while the peace of mind gives wisdom. Peace is not pure peace, but the wisdom of life deposited in the depths of the soul, which is the most beautiful state of life.
35. When criticizing others, think about whether you are perfect or not.
36. Sometimes you get stuck, which means you have a problem. Sometimes no matter how hard you try, you can't screw the bolt into the screw hole. Sometimes no matter how hard you knock, the nail won't go in. At this time, you just need a bigger and more suitable hammer.
37. Time is the best medicine, which can stop the pain, let go of the things that can't be put down, and let the things that can't be understood clearly.
38, obsessed with the light, there is nowhere to hide in the dark; Hold fast to the warmth and the ice will melt; Insist on sincerity, hypocrisy is self-defeating; Keep listening, and trouble becomes happiness. On the listening day, I wish you a feeling of life and success in listening.
39. There is actually only one purpose of making money, that is, spending money. What is spent is property, and what is not spent is inheritance. People who always say that they have no time and it is useless to spend money are the poorest people. The stupidest people know that money is in the bank. Banks take money from people who don't like spending money and give it to people who like spending money. Remember, you can only make money if you spend money. Don't put all your money in the bank to generate interest. Interest can't keep up with the rising price. I don't believe you.
40, life will always get better, pure feelings are always beautiful, life, love is not so much if.
4 1, there are still so many scenic spots that I haven't seen, so many delicious foods that I haven't tasted, and that person has never loved and doesn't want to get old.
42. Look up and face yourself. You are the most beautiful if you work hard, more beautiful than ever, so please love yourself and you will fall in love.
43. Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifelong happiness; Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a heartbreak; It is absurd to meet the right person at the wrong time; Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is a sigh. At the bottom of life, I often cherish it the most.
44. When you are unhappy, take a deep breath. This is just a bad day, not a bad life. You should learn to be kind to yourself and take care of yourself. May you be true to yourself and live like yourself. We can't live like everyone is satisfied. Many things are like eating. Six or seven points is enough. Don't insist.
45. There is something rarer, better and stranger than talent, and that is self-knowledge.
46. A person's indifference is deceived by life. People who hurt people must have hidden wounds. It's hard to say, it will become a toxin over time! Life has always taught us to despise the weak, but if a person does not form real spiritual strength, it may be a disaster. But no matter what is used to cover up your weakness, it will always hurt you more.
47. I hope to be in the same city as you. Once upon a time, now and in the future, I have been so extravagant. Even if there is no news, there is always a chance to pass by in the same city. One day, across the bustling crowd, across the distant time and space, finally face to face, froze, speechless. When I brush my body, my heart will be warm, knowing that you are always here.
48. On the road to success, enthusiasm is needed, ambition is precious, but what is more important is the usual perseverance and courage with almost no feelings.
49. Without right and wrong, happiness and sadness, life may be calm, and even attending meetings will benefit, but it will be less fun.
Please don't treat others in the same way when betrayal strikes.
5 1, put down what should be put down and forget what is not worth worrying about. Gorgeous turn, it is a new beginning.
52. Love is an elaborate lie.
53. Only by winning yourself can you succeed.
54, [rebellious psychology] psychologist Fini. Baker did an experiment: put a sign prohibiting graffiti in the men's bathroom. One of the warnings: "No graffiti"; The other declared in a relatively soft tone: "Please don't scribble". Then investigate the number of toilet graffiti on the sign. As a result, the situation of graffiti in the bathroom with the "No Graffiti" sign is more serious.
55. Love is a bubble, which will burst at the touch. It's just that we pay too much, so it's as beautiful as fireworks. It is right to love other people's rainy days, but I know that the rain falls for others, so my love is just a beautiful fireworks, which will soon go out. I didn't know it was good to have a rainy day until I really met the rain that fell for me.
56. When you are sleeping, the crisis may be around you.
57. To be a man, always put filial piety first, and teach children the way of harmony and happiness for thousands of years. But these things can't be done with your mouth open, and you need to pay a lot of money and time. Smart people all know this truth.
When people reflect on the past, the general new trend is to do less, earn less and spend less. They deeply feel that no wealth is more important than health.
59, the world is so big, I whimsically move the universe, because I just want to cheer with the stars, in the endless. What I expect is to make myself better, to be regarded as a friend by more people and to share wonderful encounters.
60. In the eyes of many people, they are actually themselves who have been infinitely self-beautified.
6 1. Isn't life like this? There is a piece missing here, a patch, a patch, and finally it is perfect. The so-called perfection has always been given to yourself.
Sometimes, we change the signature of the space so frequently just to let others know your mood. But we forget that maybe others don't care about you at all.
63. So, analyze your current living conditions. If your life is under the control of others, from now on, jump out of others' control and choose your own path with your own rights. As long as you respect the rights of others, you have the right to safeguard your own rights. Don't listen to other people's arrangements, and don't blindly follow other people's suggestions. Except yourself, the advice of those so-called smart people will only lead you astray. ?
64. Many people have this experience. You can't take the initiative, you can't do anything, you can only wait for him to say a few greetings on a whim, and you shouldn't be a force for persecution. You are a desert plant waiting for seasonal rain.
65. What makes you happy is not what happened, but what happened when you were happy; In other words, don't wait until something happens to allow yourself to be happy!
66. It is good to live by yourself and let other animals live. It is evil to consider only one's own survival and not the survival of others.
67. Being together is fate, and being together is happiness.
68. Regret what you shouldn't do, and the pain will only last for a while; But regretting what you should have done but didn't do, the pain is lifelong.
69. Happiness is always around. No matter what happens at this moment, we must be happy and life will always go on.
70. The best doctor is himself, the best medicine is time, the best mood is tranquility, the best health care is smiling face, and the best exercise is walking!
7 1, where there is air, there will be love, and air will never die, because it is in our body and constitutes our life.
No one will accompany you for life, so you should adapt to loneliness. No one will help you all your life, so you have to struggle all your life.
Whatever happens, it doesn't matter, because everything will be fine.
74. Time is like a funeral, polishing all the characters beyond recognition and finally burying them. And each of us should learn to pay homage to ourselves, to the burning scenery and to the endless road of life.
75. People who have no goals will always work for those who have goals, and those who have no goals will always work for those who have goals.
Facing the ups and downs in life, we can't be afraid. We should challenge it with a broad mind, and at the same time accept the results it brings. Because no pains, no gains.
77. Bathrooms don't have to be rivers and seas, they have to be large; You don't have to ride a horse, you have to walk well; Eat food without delicacies, but nourish it; You don't have to live in a mansion, you must feel at ease; You don't have to keep your word, you must solve it.