I'm afraid the most important and meaningful thing to go home on holiday is the reunion of classmates. Now I will make a simple survey report on the reunion organized by my classmates when I come home from college.
Many people who have experienced it often feel that the friendship between classmates and friends in middle school is the purest and most sincere. Indeed, the emotional imprint left by the era when everyone walked together in white will not fade because of the baptism of time. However, despite this emotional foundation, these parties have told me that if there is no good organization, the party will be very difficult, or it will break the ice and make everyone quite embarrassed. Once the party fails, it will not only lose contact with the feelings of the students, but also make everyone stay away from it and put out their enthusiasm, which will further affect the success of the party in the future. The party was originally intended to give old classmates and friends who have been separated for many years a chance to get in touch again and feel the beauty of the past together again. So for the organizers, there is actually some pressure. So I also think it is necessary to discuss it, which is both an encouragement and a reference.
First, reunion is based on certain feelings.
This is undoubtedly the most fundamental point. As far as my communication and investigation with some friends are concerned, it is very easy for ordinary classmates to get together. However, those special circumstances are not excluded here, because there are indeed classes that have not formed a sense of collective warmth and honor. For those classes, most of the students in the class have never loved the whole class, and at most they have only become friends in a small range. So in this case, we don't need to force a reunion. Regardless of whether there is an emotional foundation or not, the organizer must first grasp this point. After graduation, they should do some preparatory work consciously, especially in this information age, and should collect the information of the students in the class. For us, the best way is, of course, to start with the establishment of class QQ group. After the class group is established, you should inform the students you can contact as soon as possible and tell each other, and add them to this warm little world while everyone is not far away. With this group, you can usually hear the voice of everyone in the class. For a class group, there will be some activists who are more or less enthusiastic about it. They will take the initiative to ask if there is a party or suggest a party. Of course, when everyone (even a small part at first) has this idea, the organizer should start preparing.
Second, the reunion should be planned in detail in advance.
In fact, this is also related to the need for good organizers first. The reunion of classmates is different from the ordinary gathering of friends on March 5th. It has many people. Although everyone has that era and belongs to the emotional foundation of that class, not everyone has the same topic, nor are two people so enthusiastic when they come together at will. Therefore, it is most important to have a detailed plan for the whole party in advance, which directly determines the success or failure of the party. Of course, no matter how we organize and plan, we may not be able to make two or more people who don't talk much at the party, but we should pay attention to making the whole scene of the party move, avoiding the silence that appears above, making everyone feel the warmth of friendship between classmates and friends again, and making everyone feel that their feelings are as sincere and touching as before, then the greatest purpose of the party will be achieved.
Although I often notice this, I sometimes feel headache about organizing parties, because in our place, or more frankly, most students are not easy to get high and have fun, no matter where they are, which is also the focus of this report. To tell the truth, the reunion organized in the previous two holidays was basically unsuccessful. The reason is that the organization has not been arranged in advance. Of course, there were still some opportunities and other factors at that time, and not many students could be reached-but the most fundamental problem was organization. Because in the past, basically one or two organizers made an appointment in a hurry, and then agreed where to meet, and everyone sang a song or skated together. There was no such arrangement. For all the students, they have no hobbies in this field, and it is very likely that they will not attend at all, or leave in a hurry after meeting a few people. What's the point of such a party? It makes everyone uncomfortable, but it's better not to be together. For example, people who used to get together couldn't inform them, and many of them were people they could contact at the scene. They called each other when they informed each other, which didn't respect others and wasted the emotional time of the students who were already present. This was the fatal key to the party. The party we held this time is still cautious. Let's take the group meeting of junior middle school classes as an example to illustrate it. The fifth anniversary of junior high school graduation is also an excellent opportunity given by God. If the winter vacation party in Grade Two is unsuccessful, it will be even more difficult in the future: during the summer vacation, everyone's time is not uniform, and many people don't go home. Junior year, everyone is busy with internship and postgraduate entrance examination, not to mention senior year. So this party, we not only responded to everyone's call (everyone in the QQ group has a high voice for the party), on the other hand, we are also facing unprecedented pressure. As for the success of this party, I think it is mainly because of this planning combination. This time, the five of us took the lead in planning and then decided after consulting with many students in the group. In the past, the organization was just a few of our former monitor. This time, we also joined several powerful players. Although they used to be different in the eyes of teachers in the class, they were naughty and didn't study at that time, but for us, they were definitely bosom friends and loyal friends. More importantly, they are very prestigious among their brothers in the class, and one of them has been honed in society since he came out of junior high school. Now he is very successful and runs the most luxurious one here. For us, class reunion is nothing more than eating, farmhouse music, video games and skating, so these all give us extremely favorable preconditions. Although there is a "home" for KTV, we are still very cautious, because we know that this alone is not enough. So before that, the five of us first discussed it by SMS, then through the "online Q meeting" and finally got together to "meet" and discuss it. Everyone's enthusiasm is very high and unprecedented. After all, we used to be very close friends, so this is the first time to get together. In this way, we are grouped together with different personalities and "types", and when we take out graduation photo, we can easily "carve up" those students-we contact students with different tasks, and we also contact students who change classes in Grade One. Considering the Chinese New Year and other factors, we set the party time 23 years ago, and set the process as to visit the class teacher first, then go to karaoke, then have dinner together, and then go back to the karaoke camp opened by our classmates. For KTV, we know it may not be high. In order to avoid being "bullied" by only a few classmates, we also thought of many small ideas to mobilize the atmosphere. On the day of the party, we went to the class teacher for a while, and then called our old Jenny, who can sing and dance, to help. Sure enough, Jenny's enthusiasm really played a big role. Everyone is actually a child who loves music. Whether introverted or extroverted, as long as they are released, they will be high together. In order to make the scene more "hot", we girls who are usually "good" are also dancing in the specially prepared disco sound effect with the strong songs sung by the students under the dim and dynamic lighting. At that moment, we felt that everyone was crazy. Whether we could dance or not, we invited those "shy" boys to dance with our host and hostess.
In the hotel booked in advance, let's raise our glasses together to witness this profound friendship; In the KTV box and hall, we danced with the songs * * *,,,, which is a grand event to publicize youth! Finally, don't forget to leave your phone number and QQ contact information, write it on the pre-made form, and then make a copy. This is not only the most authentic signature, but also lays a good foundation for our future contact.
The most important thing for a good party is everyone's input and participation. The last thing I want to say about this report is that everything can be successful as long as you have the heart!