Finally, the couple went to the program "Mother-in-law", and Du Chun finally took the time to accompany his wife to the prenatal examination (even for the effect of the program).
The doctor found a small problem during the examination, saying that it might lead to premature delivery. RoyceWong was so worried that he burst into tears, while Du Chun looked blank.
The doctor asked Du Chun, is there anything you want to know? Du Chun said I didn't seem to have anything to ask.
In fact, this is also the status quo of many prospective fathers: actively encourage their wives to get pregnant and have children, and only contribute one brave sperm during the whole pregnancy process.
After the wife is pregnant, the prospective father will go to work, and he can go home after midnight when he goes out to play.
After the baby was born, I felt that the baby was too noisy and affected my sleep. I didn't feel energetic at work the next day, so I went to the guest room to sleep by myself.
Until the child is almost one year old, he can talk. Occasionally, Doby children will call him Dad.
Even confidently said: I want to work to earn money to raise children. In fact, if mom is not pregnant and doesn't need to raise children, she may not earn less money than dad.
Duan Tao talks about pregnancy is a book about pregnant women written by Duan Tao, a famous obstetrician and gynecologist.
Dr. Duan Tao suggested that mother should have three prenatal examinations after pregnancy, and the prospective father should accompany her no matter how busy she is.
No. 1: pregnant for 20~24 weeks, B-ultrasound is a big exception.
The whole pregnancy lasts for 40 weeks, and by 20 weeks, it can be said that the whole pregnancy is over half.
At this time, the child's body length is about 25 cm, that is, the body length has reached half of the body length at birth.
Weighing about 320 grams, it seems light, but before 20 weeks, the baby mainly developed nervous system and important organs. After 20 weeks, his weight began to increase linearly, fetal skin surface began to have fetal fat, and the hair of the whole body began to grow slowly.
By the 20 th week, although the fetus is small, it is all-sided, basically the development of various organs has taken shape, and the child's facial features are relatively clear. At this time, by observing the appearance of the child in the mother's womb through B-ultrasound, we can know whether there will be abnormalities in the development of organs and facial features before the fetus.
Therefore, this kind of prenatal ultrasound is also called large organ malformation screening.
According to statistics, the abnormal rate of fetal structure is about 65438 0%. Of course, some fetal abnormalities are late, which can be self-repaired slowly, and some minor problems can also be dealt with after the child is born.
The reason why I suggested that my father accompany me to do this prenatal examination is precisely because this examination is related to the health of the fetus. In case the fetal health is not very good, the doctor can also explain the specific situation directly to the prospective father.
Most women are emotional. If they hear the doctor say that there is something wrong with their children, they usually cry out in anxiety. When they call their husbands again, they are incoherent, and it may be difficult to express the exact meaning. Therefore, it is better for the prospective father to accompany his mother to check. If there is any problem, the doctor will personally explain it to his parents.
Because screening for macrosomia needs to look at the child's heart, liver, kidney, brain, facial features, limbs and other parts, so let the child move. If the child keeps a posture, it is difficult to see the whole picture, so some mothers may need to do it twice, three times or even four times at a time, and some have to do it once every two days.
My child always turns his back on the B-ultrasound machine when he is doing B-ultrasound for 22 weeks, and never wants to turn his whole face around. He went to the hospital at eight o'clock in the morning and waited in line for half an hour to nine o'clock, but the doctor asked me to go out for a walk.
I went in and checked it, but it still didn't work.
I checked it three times that day, and I could barely see it at the last time, but I couldn't catch the child's face. The child just doesn't want to turn around.
My mother will be very anxious during the exam, and I don't know why others are so fast and I have been alone for so long. At this time, she also needs the company and comfort of her prospective father.
Some mothers thought that this B-ultrasound was the same as before, so they didn't prepare anything to eat. Results It didn't end until 12 o'clock in the morning, and the blood sugar in muscles and intestines was very uncomfortable.
If the prospective father is accompanied, he can go out and buy some food for the expectant mother.
Second check-up: Make a delivery plan about 37 weeks pregnant.
Generally, before preparing to give birth to a baby, expectant mothers need to do a B-ultrasound, mainly to see whether the fetal position is the head position, and to estimate the size of the child's head circumference and the child's weight through the fetal biparietal diameter.
It depends on whether there is an umbilical cord around the neck. If there is an umbilical cord around the neck, how many times
Look at the maturity of the mother's placenta and see if the amniotic fluid in the placenta is too much or even turbid.
Then, according to the maternal's own situation, evaluate whether it can be delivered naturally.
If elective cesarean section is needed, most will choose 39 weeks. At this time, the development of Baobao is very mature, and it will not be too big. After caesarean section, the child's weight is generally normal, and it is more convenient to care.
The date of 39 weeks should also be determined according to the use of the operating room in the hospital and the time of the surgeon.
At this time, you need to discuss with your parents and decide when to choose caesarean section. Therefore, the birth check-up should be as accurate as possible, and dad should accompany him.
The third examination: regular contractions, go to the hospital for labor.
Ma Ying felt a pain in her stomach when she was 39 weeks and 3 days pregnant, so she went to the hospital. She didn't start that night. The doctor examined the uterine orifice the next day and only opened three and a half fingers. The doctor said that the fetal head was too big to come down and suggested cesarean section. The doctor took the consent form and asked the father of the child to sign it.
That night, the child's father signed three surgical consent forms that disagreed with the operation, and he still had to go to the operating room for cesarean section the next morning.
It's completely different to have a husband with you when you have a baby.
This is irreplaceable by mother-in-law and mother.
After all, this baby is jointly owned by mom and dad. Generally, the process of giving birth will last 12 to 16 hours, with day and night in between, so it is difficult for the elderly to have a whole night.
At this time, the young and strong prospective father will take up the responsibility of nursing the expectant mother.
If necessary, sign the consent form for the operation. After the child is born, many materials need to be signed by the father himself.
First filing inspection
Generally speaking, the pregnancy is about 12 weeks 16 weeks, and my mother will go to the maternity hospital for filing. There will be many items to check when filing for the first time, such as blood drawing for ECG, urine test, ultrasonic examination and so on.
Doctors will also ask some questions, such as whether the two families have a genetic history, which also needs parents to answer.
The second time is to drink sugar water at 24~28 weeks of pregnancy.
The doctor will tell my mother that this prenatal examination needs an empty stomach, so don't eat after 10 o'clock the night before the examination.
Early in the morning, my mother went to the hospital on an empty stomach and had to draw blood three times, during which she had to drink about 700 ml of sugar water. You have to draw blood three times before you can eat anything else.
Generally, when we can eat it, it will exceed 1 1, or even 12. My mother is starving, and some mothers are so hungry that they can't even stand up straight.
Therefore, it is best for the prospective father to accompany his mother.
Mother's pregnancy is a very special period, and her heart will be very fragile. The prospective father will be kind to his mother at this time, which will make her feel that no matter how hard the pregnancy is, she will be happy! If you can accompany every birth check-up, of course, it is the most bonus.