[2007-3-24 6:4 1:55 | Author: kale] Text/He Shuqing
People who work first and then live are patients. Another way of thinking is more effective than the popular decompression method.
Alive. Today's professional managers, white-collar workers, blue-collar workers and students will feel very happy if they watch this film made by 1993 Zhang Yimou again-no matter how stressful it is, it will be miserable.
But the pressure is still great: some people die suddenly, some commit suicide, some people suffer from insomnia, some people are out of balance, some people work overtime every night, some people have no time to have sex, some people harass their girlfriends crazily, work and life are inseparable, blogs are full of moans and venting, and shopping malls are crowded with retaliatory consumers. Too many people are saying: What I want to do most is to have a good sleep and wake up naturally. Stress is a disease that everyone has long longed for. If you give it to him, he will moan. If you don't give it to him, he will be empty.
The result is nothing more than this: either put the pressure under you, you are still full of vitality; Either you are overwhelmed by the pressure, exhausted and unpredictable, and you become a failure.
Stress is written in the box lunch.
Who hasn't eaten a box lunch or ordered takeout? ! Box lunch is a product of saving time. How developed the fast food industry is can indirectly prove how much work pressure a society has. The fast food industry in China accounts for more than 45% of the catering industry, and its turnover is increasing by 20% every year. Close to the fact that the fast food industry in the United States accounts for 60% of the catering industry, it means that China people are also close to the American-style pressure-the pressure of the rich in the United States is the highest in the world (American Express /RoperASW Global Rich Opinion Survey). The pressure of the rich in Japan is second only to that of the United States, but their sexual life times are the highest in the world (Durex Global Sexual Life Survey).
Rather than saying that McDonald's is junk food, it is better to say that the pursuit of speed is a junk concept. It makes the pressure overweight out of thin air, and people and things are fragile and rot quickly. One minute of myopia, three minutes of abortion, seven days of whitening, fourteen days of weight loss and two courses of breast enhancement. Become famous in one year, publish a book in two years, and become rich in three years. In the first year, it became the third in the industry, the second in the industry, and tied for the first place with peers in the third year. Open 100 in the first year, and open 10000 in ten years. The first five years to become a regional center, the second five years to become a first-tier city, the third five years to become an international city.
Therefore, people in China are under increasing pressure, and the fast food industry in China is becoming more and more developed.
Work first, life second.
This is an anxiety disorder of the times-I feel tired when I am under pressure, and I feel terrible when I am not under pressure. Everyone is influenced by the collective unconscious concept of "success". If your boss doesn't put pressure on you, you wonder if it's because you don't have core competitiveness. Husband doesn't give you pressure, you wonder if he is half-hearted; Prices do not give you pressure, you will take the initiative to find the housing market and the stock market angry; Everyone doesn't give you pressure, and you are worried that the world will leave you.
Too many people are not used to enjoying life, being in a daze, doing nothing and doing things they love but don't make money. Time and time again, your physical strength, intelligence and emotion have reached the limit, and you are "unhappy without incisiveness". You were crazy in the process of approaching Deadline, and the pressure finally passed. A normal life is like stealing happiness.
Exchange your life for money when you are young, and exchange your life for money when you are old. The pressure of the workplace makes talented people die young, and the pressure of study and employment makes people aged 15-25 think out of balance. Don't believe that "there is pressure to be motivated". Pressure distorts ideals (just like all singers are busy signing CDs, playing retarded games on TV, explaining gossip at the end, forgetting that they just want to sing when they enter the entertainment circle), making life an accessory to work (colleagues are far more than friends) and making life boring (losing all hobbies outside their majors). People who work first and live second are the majority of this era, social activists and patients in the upward stage.
How many people envy Wang Shi!
Wang Shi and Pan Shiyi are envied by many bosses. One can play gliding mountaineering while making real estate, and the other can make movies and write books while making real estate. But bosses should really listen to Wang Shi's leadership (in fact, they only care about major decisions). They can't do it, preferring to be trapped in daily chores and development pressure. Travel, sports, chatting and shopping spree, these popular ways to relieve stress, treat the symptoms rather than the root cause. Fashion travel, VIP sports, celebrity gossip and brand-name shopping are like an anesthetic, where pressure accumulates.
Another way of thinking is more effective than the popular decompression method now. If you don't be a master, you don't have to suffer; If you don't sacrifice the ego, you will become the ego, and your boss won't bear too much burden; I don't live in a high-end residential area, so I don't have to be a house slave. I'm not picky, so I don't have to be single ... but it's tantamount to saying nothing, persuading people to take money out of their pockets and throw it on the street and give Audi away to ride a bike. In the end, tired people still cling to the pressure. As long as there are no accidents, they call it self-realization.
Many people like to use Tagore's poem as an analogy: there are no traces of wings in the sky, but I have flown-the lucky ones may be angels, and the unlucky ones may be just birdmen.
This article encourages you.