1, keep a certain sense of distance no matter how close.

Don't just say "thank you" when thanking. Express gratitude in the form of words, WeChat red envelopes, small gifts and dinners. Others will be more willing to help you in the future.

3. Be good at reading other people's real thoughts from details. Talking endlessly, others always look at their watches, drink water and cross their hands. It's probably your complacency.

4. Don't tangle with people at different levels. For example, a person quarrels with a pig. If he wins, it can only prove that he is worse than a pig. If he is tied, he will be like a pig. If he loses, he will be worse than a pig.

5. "What are you doing?" Are you free this weekend? I miss you very much.

6. The more polite you are to others, the more impolite and supercilious they will be to you, and you will gain others' respect by making your own demands.

7. learn to make a fortune by sulking. If you don't mix well, you just want to let everyone know. In the circle of friends, you attracted a group of envious eyes. At the same time, there are a group of people who hate their teeth and even think about how to suppress you and crowd you out.

8. You can be polite to others, but don't look like "bullying". Your help, servile attitude and bottomless begging will make your life a feather.

9. The quickest way to get a good impression is praise.

10, don't mend the knife afterwards, don't say "I told you so" or "I told you so". Although it is cool, it is undoubtedly to sprinkle salt on the wounds of the parties, either to comfort or to help.

1 1, don't always think about reaching out to rich people and spend your time improving yourself.

12. Don't answer the gossip discussed by colleagues. Some of them are used for fishing. If you answer them, you will become a fish.

13, people who lend money to you when you are in trouble, it is best to take it out when you pay back the money, either as interest subsidies or invite the other party to dinner. You know, he can't borrow it.

14, the tone is not sure, just refuse, and the dinner table says, "Why don't I pay the bill?" Some people must be waiting for someone else to pay the bill, and those who really want to treat have already checked out halfway. I'll take you home or stay for two days before you go.

15, after coming out of society, rely on yourself. Don't think about the past and the family you came from. No one can do anything to you, and no one has the ability to influence your life. Fools spend half their lives blaming others, while brave people are responsible for themselves every day.

16, don't try to change a person, no matter what your purpose is.

17, don't judge others in public, what you think is irrelevant may become the fuse between you.

18. No matter what is reasonable, it must be "packaged" before it can be exported. Truth is cold, and people have feelings.

19, others helped you. Try to give you substantial thanks. It's easy to bring him breakfast, give him red envelopes and order takeout, but the effect is greater than a "thank you" 100 times.

20. When a man says he loves you, it may be that he really likes you, or it may be the routine of a prodigal son in love. How do you know which one it is? You can see who he is with, what people around him think of him, and his past experiences.

2 1, a confident person will not talk about his powerful relatives, because he knows that he will not live up to his expectations, even if others help him.

22. A sincere and kind person doesn't need to study how to be a man, because his values are consistent with those advocated by society.

23. People who can maintain emotional stability are usually strong inside.

24. Listen to other people's reasons and wear shoes that suit you. If you see them, you won't wear them and you won't run far. People who really benefit from the truth will combine the truth with their own actual situation, not only to understand internalization, but also to constantly adjust in practice, record reflection, and finally refine and form their own "work and life behavior guide", thus obtaining rich returns.