As an authentic Xi’an native, and also as a casual fan who grew up listening to his songs, I would like to talk about this event at the most powerful concert in Xi’an Province. Talk about personal thoughts.

First of all, as the incident intensifies, various opinions have sprung up like mushrooms after a rain. Even my circle of friends is developing in a two-level situation. In fact, regardless of everything else, the reason why this matter is amplified and manipulated by various keyboard warriors is because of the so-called celebrity effect.

Celebrity effect is a general term for the psychological phenomenon in which the appearance of celebrities attracts attention, strengthens things, and expands influence, or the psychological phenomenon in which people imitate celebrities. Celebrity effect has had a profound impact on all aspects of life.

At the same time, we are doing analysis. Some people love and hate a celebrity. This is all human nature. Here we do not make any comments about Jay Chou or whether he is a security guard or a police officer, because no matter what position or angle he is from, because we do not have a 100% understanding of his authenticity.

Let’s take a look at this incident. In order to maintain order at the scene, the security guard took away the fan’s light sign and threw it away. Before that, Jay Chou had said to the security guard in a gentle tone: “This security guard, Did you hear what I was talking to you? Don’t throw away my fan’s light sign. Give her her light sign.” At this time, the security guard ignored her, so Jay Chou yelled at the security guard: “Give it to me.” Get out." However, after the concert, Jay Chou apologized to the security guard through his official Weibo. In fact, the whole incident is like this.

Let’s take a look at the emotional expressions of some people or Jay fans about this concert incident:

In fact, if you have nothing to do, just listen to "Qili Xiang", "Sunny Day", "Black Sweater", etc., I really want to go to the most powerful solo concert on the planet, but I am really short of money. When I learned that my friend had gone to see this concert, I asked him a few words about his opinion on the matter. In fact, this was his second time to go to Jay Chou's concert, but we are all like that. Neutral casual fans just watch it for the songs and youthful feelings.

In fact, I also think that it was just Jay's desire to protect his fans for a moment. Maybe some people here will say that actors are heartless, etc., but I want to say that he might really just be eager to protect his fans and be emotional at that time. , his brain reacted directly, he didn't realize how big a storm this incident would cause.

Having said that, let’s return to rationality. Next, I want to talk about the emotions that fermented this matter.

As for emotions, people cannot always be in a good mood. Since there are setbacks and troubles in life, there will be negative emotions. A mentally mature person is not a person without negative emotions, but a person who is good at regulating and controlling his emotions. Psychological research shows that "suppression" does not change negative emotions, but causes them to accumulate deep in the heart. When they accumulate to a certain level, they often burst out in destructive ways, causing harm to themselves and others. For example, we often see some "good-tempered" people suddenly get angry and do something that surprises others or makes them regret themselves. This is often the result of daily depression.

Actually, when it comes to this, I want to say that Jay’s move may have something to do with his own emotions, but what the security guard did to the female fans at the scene may also be caused by emotions, so when people are in trouble Why can't we treat it calmly and rationally?

Having said that, I would like to give some emotional knowledge to parents who read this article, and several principles to help children manage their emotions: 1. Parents must first manage their own emotions.

2. When facing children’s emotions, let them learn to express them first.

3. Let your children know that it is natural to have negative emotions. There is nothing wrong and nothing to be ashamed of.

4. Children’s emotional control ability starts from paying attention to their parents.

5. The higher the acceptance of children’s emotions, the better the children’s ability to manage emotions in the future.

Regarding this incident, I just want to take a neutral stance and popularize some emotional events beyond the celebrity effect.

This incident has made us realize that we should pay more attention to the negative impact of celebrity effect, and we must face the behaviors of various celebrities with a positive and positive attitude.

May you be happier than before!