Some time ago, in an interview, Hawick Lau's father voluntarily revealed that three generations of his family spent the Spring Festival together this year, which was very lively.

But when the host asked if Noemie would miss his mother, Liu Haozhi's father kept silent and chose to end the conversation as soon as possible.

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In the process of communication, Hawick Lau's father strongly praised his son's care for his granddaughter, but when asked about his ex-daughter-in-law's attitude towards his granddaughter, he said that he had nothing to say, which led to more and more discussions that Yang Mi was not a "good mother".

Moreover, this is not the first time that Yang Mi has been questioned as a mother.

Before Noemie's birthday, Hawick Lau's father said that his son bought a lot of clothes for his children and the children had a good time at the party.

Asked what Yang Mi said, he vaguely said that he didn't know if Yang Mi had given a gift.

In addition, the online exposure of parent-child music activities carried out by the school, accompanied by Liu Yaohui.

Therefore, for a long time, netizens praised Hawick Lau as a good father, while Yang Mi frequently missed the growth of his children.

As a result, fans on both sides are choking each other a little bit, especially on holidays and some special days, and the topic of "who are unqualified parents" has been brought up again.

Hawick Lau fans believe that Yang Mi was born without raising, and her career was busy, and she did not fulfill her responsibilities as a mother at all;

Yang Mi fans feel that Hawick Lau's popularity has dropped significantly after the "luminous script" was exposed, and it is necessary to constantly establish a good impression of "good father";

Even some time ago, some netizens broke the news that Hawick Lau and Yang Mi had fallen out.

She said that because Liu Kai was going to bring her daughter to the show, she was warned by Yang Mi, and she refused to expose her daughter prematurely. She also said that if Liu Haozhi went it alone, she would consider fighting for custody of the children.

When the news came out, it caused many netizens to discuss. After all, the two have been spreading bad news about their children.

Liu Yaohui side immediately clarified:

Outsiders don't know whether the relationship between the two has been frozen, but it is still decent to remember when the two officially announced their divorce.

I just didn't expect that this was less than three years apart, and the two sides had already "torn their faces" several times.

There is no standard answer to how to compare loving children to being a good mother and father.

However, once pregnant in October, every child is meat falling from his mother.

No matter how "domineering" and "sissy" the people in Yang Mi are, I don't think she can be so cruel as not to love her baby.

I still remember that shortly after Noemie was born, he was seldom "soft-hearted" and begged everyone not to expose the children's privacy, so that the baby could grow up well.

As parents, marriage may be incomplete, but I don't think anyone loves less than anyone else.

Therefore, there is no need for netizens and fans to "default" to either side of diss, and no child will want the relationship between parents to be stiff.

If you can't be husband and wife, you don't have to be enemies.

Parents get along "decently", and children will not feel insecure inside.

A survey once found that if parents are not in harmony in a family, the probability of children having psychological problems reaches 40%.

Many adults think that divorce has the greatest impact on children. In fact, what children are most afraid of is that they obviously live in a home, but their parents are like enemies.

Divorce is not terrible, what is terrible is to let a child bear the "war" between two adults.

Children are used as "powerful weapons" to attack each other. How naive.

Dingding is such a distressed child. He is sensitive and sensible, and he will "observe words and observe emotions" from an early age to take care of his mother's emotions.

Even if I don't like the birthday present prepared by my mother, I will say yes with a smile.

When asked about dad, in order not to make Angel angry, he would explain the lie that "Dad is too busy".

Angel said that Dingding always protected me like a little soldier, but she forgot that her little soldier was just a child.

After the divorce, every year on his son's birthday, although he can't meet, Pan Yueming will send his blessing in Weibo.

The symbol of "cow" means the top, and the symbol similar to "balloon" means that children are always happy.

For many years, I can only use a string of symbols to convey my thoughts.

Both adults love their children in their own ways, but the child caught in the middle is the most distressing.

If possible, I don't think any child wants to be "sensible".

Isn't it the best gift for children to play at the wayward age?

I don't know how long the conflict between Angel and Pan Yueming will last, but I always feel that children should not pay for the feud between adults.

Don't embarrass children, and don't force them to choose between their parents.

If you can't be a partner, at least try to be a qualified parent. I had a playmate in my hometown when I was a child. As the eldest daughter, she was "naturally" ignored because of the preference for boys at home.

Mom will complain to her that grandma is partial, and dad will let her drop out of school and go to work in the city. No one in the family said they loved her, and some even joked about throwing her away.

Since she was a child, she felt that she was "unlikable" and her personality was very inferior and introverted. The teacher asked her to answer questions in class, so quietly that even the deskmate could not hear clearly.

When naughty boys make fun of her, she just hides in the toilet and cries.

It was not until her fifth grade that her mother finally gave birth to a boy after giving birth to two girls in succession.

But the arrival of my younger brother did not make the family happy, but more quarrels broke out.

Older fathers don't like mothers who only take care of their children at home and can't make money. Mom will complain that dad is worthless and can't afford to support his family.

Adults often make noise at home, and several children sit on benches outside the house until there is no sound in the house.

Even once, her mother pointed to her and said that she was a bad karma. If only the first child were a boy. ...

When I was a child, I didn't understand why other friends were ready to go home for dinner. She was the only one who didn't want to go home and kept letting me play.

Later, I learned that home may not be warm for a person, but it is chilling.

Now I occasionally listen to others talk about her recent situation. It seems that she has been depressed for several years and hasn't returned to her hometown for the New Year.

On one occasion, I suddenly remembered her, clicked on her qq and saw her signature:

"Happy people use childhood to cure life, and unfortunate people use life to cure childhood. I am one of the unfortunate people. "

Bad relationship between parents tortures children and really affects their life.

I have always felt sorry for those children who grew up in families with bad parents. These people are far more sensitive and insecure than their peers.

Many parents like to vent their dissatisfaction in marriage on their children, trying to get rid of hatred by uglifying the impression of the other half in their children's hearts.

But is this really good for children's growth?

Parents' beloved son has a far-reaching influence.

Don't "force" children to mature prematurely, and don't do harm in the name of "love".

Parents are the dependence of children in the first half of their lives, and children are also the listeners of parents in the second half of their lives.

Let's not be absent, and let's not miss it.