Many media have photographed it these two days. During the college entrance examination, some parents parked their RV outside the examination room to wait for their children, and there was a humanoid signboard of Yibo beside the car.
What's even more surprising is that the humanoid signboard still says warm words? Relax, come on for the college entrance examination! ? Presumably this is also a way for parents to cheer for their children's college entrance examination.
This shows how touching the love of these children's parents is. I believe that the children in the examination room can also have double strength and successfully complete their own life answers, sighing: This should be the most? Hard core? Support!
Presumably, the children of these parents are always idolized at home, but it is also a very positive thing for parents to take the initiative to apply their idolized enthusiasm to the examination room.
Although it is normal for children to idolize, not many parents who idolize their children can guide their children correctly, even for their own use.
Just like many years ago, a girl worshiped idols crazily and reached the level of obsession. Although her parents supported her idolization, their parents did not guide her correctly, which led the girl to give up her studies, sell her house at home, let her family accompany her all the way to idolization, and finally lost her father.
At that time, it caused a sensation in the whole society. Who's that? Chase? The star was also questioned and harassed by the media.
This irrational idolization has brought irreparable harm to his family, and also brought negative effects to the obsessed stars. While regretting, it also caused more parents to think. Star girl? , what should I do?
0 1 Parents should know the pros and cons no matter whether their children are idolized or not.
Many people think idolatry is a kind of. Doing nothing? Behavior, especially the idolatry of students, is the most serious.
In fact, students' idolization is very common and normal. This is an act of loving and pursuing beautiful things. They may be attracted by the face value of star idols, and some are attracted by their personalities.
However, we can't veto the shining point of star idols by one vote. Parents should look at this matter rationally and objectively. First, let's analyze the advantages and disadvantages of children's idolization.
Idolated? Benefits?
Idolization is to appreciate a series of behaviors made by stars, and children may start idolizing because of these highlights.
Idolization can inspire children to learn the excellent qualities of stars and their spirit of hard work and never giving up.
Therefore, when encountering setbacks and failures in study and life, everyone can have the courage and strength to persevere, and at the same time, they can learn from the talents of stars, increase their artistic charm and improve their self-confidence.
At school, because children like the same star idol, they can have more languages with their classmates and make more friends.
The horizon and knowledge that parents can give their children are limited. While idolizing, children can not only help them broaden their horizons, but also learn more beautiful things and find the life they yearn for. These are the possible benefits of idolization.
Therefore, parents of children in idolization should not think that children are? Doing nothing? Behavior, as long as it is correctly idolized, will bring unexpected benefits to children.
Idolated? Disadvantages?
There is no denying that some people will blindly worship. Some children even regard star fantasy as their favorite person, pay attention to the dynamic of stars every day, spend a lot of time collecting news about idols, new plays or songs made by idols, and even indulge in them.
This will take up most of your study time and affect your academic performance.
Some children will also buy photos, posters, postcards and other things of their idols, buy concert tickets and spend a lot of money to get an autographed photo.
Children who are addicted to idolization will spend more, like the one mentioned above? Star girl? This greatly increases the financial burden of parents.
However, most parents can't understand this kind of child? Wasting time and money? Behavior, so that children will have less and less time to communicate with their families, and even affect the parent-child relationship, or more serious consequences.
Idolization itself is a normal behavior, but everyone has different ways and means. Some people idolize and improve themselves, while others idolize? Delay? Time is up.
Therefore, parents should fully understand the advantages and disadvantages of children's idolization, and fully understand the idolization behavior, so as to better guide their children to idolize correctly.
In the face of idolization, so do excellent parents.
Before children's consciousness matures, many things need the guidance of parents. In the case of idolization, parents' positive response can also avoid bringing bad influence to children and give full play to the benefits of idolization.
So what should parents do?
1) fully understand and respect.
When children have idolatry, parents should fully understand, fully respect and treat this behavior correctly. If you can't understand things, you can directly reprimand your child, which will easily make your child rebellious.
Parents can communicate with their children, ask them why they are idolizing, and find out why they are idolizing. Only in this way can they have the same language as their children, and they can also draw closer to each other and let their children feel the respect of their parents.
At the same time, parents can also find some information about this idol, understand the child's psychological condition during this period, and also promote the communication between parents and children.
Only when parents know their children can they better understand them, and finally they can reach a * * * understanding and turn seemingly bad things into things that promote their positive growth? Sharp weapon? .
2) Seize the opportunity to motivate children.
Children may delay their studies because of idolization, so parents can use the shining point of idols to motivate their children.
For example, talking to children about why idols are so talented is because of long-term practice. Although the road was difficult, they all persisted.
In this way, guiding children also needs progress and trying to shine like idols, so as to motivate children to make themselves better.
3) Discuss the definition of idols with children and give correct guidance.
Most of the children in idolize are blind, and some children even start to follow suit when they see another classmate idolize.
But they don't understand the definition of idol, just think that idolization is a very interesting or cool thing.
So parents can talk to their children about the meaning of idols and what kind of people can be regarded as idols. Let children know more about people with positive energy.
For example, many medical staff in this year's epidemic are people admired by the people. Parents can guide their children to broaden the definition of idols and not blindly idolize them.
When children are idolized, parents should not worry, because the advantages and disadvantages of idolization have been analyzed before. As we all know, idolization is not an absolute bad thing. As long as parents can teach them correctly, idolization can become a driving force to motivate children to work hard.