Dear Doudou:

Hello!

After reading your letter, I know that you have really grown up and have your own ideas. We are really happy and sad at the same time. We feel that we do not care enough for you. But you know what? Mom and dad have no choice but to do it!

Nowadays, almost all children are only children. “Hoping for their sons to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes” is the expectation of every parent. Therefore, parents put their children's learning, education and training first. Once we relax, others will take advantage of it. Of course, we cannot relax. Family education only has this and that requirement for your life and study. You also need to consider how you feel as a parent!

Daughter, I want to tell you that only hard work now can lead to "happiness" in the future. If you don't endure hardship and study hard now, how can you have the possibility of realizing your dreams? The future is your lifelong "happiness". There is a saying that goes like this: If a young person doesn’t work hard, an old person will be miserable. This means: if you don’t work hard when you are young and strong, then studying when you have gray hair will be in vain. This reminds us that we should cherish time

and should not waste time and great years in our youth! The road to success is not smooth sailing. Only by persisting, persisting, and persisting can you have hope of success and learn to smile in the face of setbacks. As a parent

I will cheer you on and encourage you from behind!

Daughter, I want to tell you, it’s not that I don’t want you to be like other children and get whatever you want, but I can’t encourage your comparison. I remember one time you told me that your classmate bought a beautiful skirt. You thought it looked very good and wanted to buy it, but I didn’t buy it for you. Instead, I said to you in a serious voice: " Your skirt is enough to wear. Although some of it was given by others, it is completely wearable and very good. It is a pity to waste it. As long as what we wear is clean, decent and can be worn out, it is fine. ”. After listening to your mother's words, you seemed to understand a lot immediately. In many things in the future, although there are still some requirements, I am still willing to listen to my mother's teachings. Is it so difficult that I really don’t have the money to buy it for you? no. In fact, on the one hand, this is to avoid increasing your comparison mentality and vanity; on the other hand, it is to let you learn to save, and to put an end to the mentality that you can get whatever you want

. Now you are at a time when you understand right and wrong, so we parents must lead you on the right track in life, and let you know that it is not easy to get, and that diligence and thrift are a virtue, and luxury is a kind.

Waste.

Daughter, I want to tell you that when it comes to the phenomenon of comparison, it does not mean that comparison cannot be done. We must have a correct view of comparison, which will be of great help to you throughout your life. To compare with others, don't compare with others in terms of material things. You must compare with others in terms of academic performance and personal ability. Only by establishing a correct view of comparison can you work harder, develop more correctly, and pursue your correct life goals. In fact, there is a true story around you

I remember that in the first semester of fourth grade, I participated in the school resident activities as a parent committee member and listened to a vivid Chinese class. Teacher Zhou first selected two A classmate wrote two ancient poems, but she did not express any opinions but asked the students to compare and find out the good points and the areas that need improvement. She also compared the recitations of boys and girls, the first group and The second group of competitions makes children read more interestingly and vividly. Teacher Zhou used the correct concept of comparison to guide students, so that students did not have the energy to desert during the whole class, but listened with gusto. Therefore, if you fail the college entrance examination, this is why I always remind you not to skip classes! Starting from the first semester of fourth grade, one of your daily Chinese homework assignments is writing. Don’t look down on writing, but don’t underestimate it. My understanding is that it can improve writing skills.

You can write well every time, I really admire you, do you remember? Once the teacher asked you to write three or five lines of words, and you wrote three full pages. The teacher wrote in your comment: I admire you!

I admire it! It’s very late, let’s talk next time!

I wish you good luck in your studies! In good health!

Your mother

July 5, 2012