The first type: it is not a WeChat added by meeting, but a WeChat given by the introducer. Now blind date is not like before, you must meet first, and you don't know what the other person is like until you meet. Nowadays, when many people talk about blind date, they will say first: Is there WeChat? Add a WeChat and chat first. But what should we talk about? This is how many people, especially men, appear.
Because I haven't met before, I just heard something from the introducer, so the most direct way to get to know each other is from WeChat. Learn about the person you want to date from the other person's avatar, WeChat name, personalized signature and circle of friends.
The first thing you see when you add WeChat to each other is the avatar and WeChat name, which is the person who can see each other's personality at a glance. Some people say, how can this be seen at once? In fact, it is close to reading the avatar and WeChat name. Because a person's head image first reflects his subconscious cognition, and then reflects his inner refraction at that time.
For example, if you see an anime avatar, it proves that this person is still playful, has his own personality, is not bound, is cheerful and easy to communicate; If you see a portrait of a person (it may be a selfie, or it may not be your own), this person has a high demand for self, a high demand for quality of life, a strong self-confidence, and a soft exterior.
If you see specific things (basketball, football, guitar, mountains, mountaineering, cycling, traveling, etc.). ), indicating that this person has his own personal hobbies. If you have the same hobbies as your partner, you will have many topics. If the avatar you see is a very quiet and serene avatar, so is the other person. If you see the other person's head is crazy, then the other person is also such a person.
With a preliminary judgment, you can look at each other's circle of friends, and many topics can be found in the circle of friends. That's the best way for you to talk about the topic. You can talk about hobbies, travel notes, diet and study career, as long as it doesn't involve personal privacy.
For example, if you see a restaurant that you have been to before published in the other person's circle of friends, you can have a chat with the other person or create an invitation topic. If the other person's circle of friends sends some news about their hobbies, you can chat with the other person around this. Lots. Play by yourself.
The second type: look at the face first, then add WeChat, which is normal. For example, without telling you in advance, the introducer makes an appointment for dinner, and then directly says yes. In this way, we can get to know each other intuitively, from appearance, dress, manners, style and so on, which can be learned from chatting.
After meeting, if you feel ok, you can add a WeChat to keep in touch. If you don't think so, don't add it, just end it.
You can chat with her when you go back to WeChat that evening. What are you talking about? Just talk about your meeting, those twists and turns, have more sense of humor, just kidding, as long as it doesn't pass. Now that we have met, we can have a more in-depth talk. If you feel good, you can talk about invitations, such as where to play together, watching movies, eating, fitness, etc., and play freely.
With the subsequent development, you can send a message to show your concern, ask if you have breakfast in the morning, and go to eat on time at noon with a considerate voice. You can ask some questions in your spare time, what are your hobbies, how to spend time after work, what tastes you like to eat, and understand each other's living habits. Share some interesting things from time to time, what the other person likes and pays more attention to, which also shows that you are careful and take the other person to heart.
In fact, there are too many topics to talk about and need to be found. Find any * * * and we can talk all night. Haha, but don't say too much, just say hard and say something without nutrition. Also note that it's best to end with a question at a time, and don't send modal particles like uh-huh, so it's easy to talk to death. Well, that's all my suggestions. If it helps you, please like it and adopt it.