However, things often backfire. No matter how good a school or excellent teachers are, they are not as important as their parents' family education. Because from the day the child is born, you are the child's first teacher, and your words and deeds are the child's life classroom. The famous child massage teacher Ren shares with you:
1. Where is the root of education? -Go home
When it comes to education, we naturally think of schools, primary schools, middle schools and universities.
In fact, children come to their school with joy from birth. It is their happy home, and our parents are their first teachers.
Therefore, in order to build a solid building for children's education, we must lay a good foundation for education and lay a good foundation for education. Then we ask-where is the root of education?
In fact, education is not in schools at all, nor in social counseling institutions. The roots of education are at home.
2. Where is the root of education? -Go home
When we think that "it is easy to have children, but difficult to raise them", we have realized another burden of raising children-family education.
The first distinction of children's growth begins with "home". Otherwise, why are all angels given by God? Why are some children excellent in all aspects, while others are mediocre?
In fact, parents should regard "home" as the driving force for their children's healthy growth, explore their children's talents from the details of family life, and guide them in time. This is the way to realize children's education.
3. What is the way to realize children's education? -Go home
Home is the soil for cultivating children's growth.
There are three words that a wise man cultivates children:
The first sentence: "Son, parents have no skills, you have to rely on yourself." Do not arrange, return the responsibility to the child, so that the child has a sense of responsibility.
The second sentence: "Son, be a man in advance and never do anything that hurts others." Speak virtue and tell children the standard of being a man.
The third sentence: "son, let's open our hands and rush in." Really can't. We still have food when we go home. " Selfless love, endless love!
And the same question, but someone said three very different words:
The first sentence: "Baby, just study hard, and mom and dad will help you with other things!" " "Deprived children of the right to be responsible and cultivated irresponsible children.
The second sentence: "Baby, you can't lose money when you go out. You must fight back when others hit you! " "If you don't teach the basic principles of life correctly, you may cultivate" immoral "children.
The third sentence: "I tell you, if you don't study hard and grow up without food, don't come to me!" " "Conditional love is not true love at all.
4. What is the way to realize children's education? -Go home
Parents are a profession.
The root of education extends from home, and the key to housekeeping lies in parents.
I have been thinking about what terms to use to describe the identity and responsibility of "parents" vividly and accurately. Inadvertently saw a netizen's signature-parents are professionals, their eyes lit up and they said what they were talking about.
If you can hold up the glorious and heavy title of "parents", why don't you need to be as awe-inspiring and responsible as a profession?
The words "warmth, harmony and intimacy" are the most precious "nutrients" in children's growth;
Parents love each other, share responsibilities and synchronize education, which is the best environment for children to grow up;
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If so, I don't think there will be any more "successful careers and failed families", at least less.
5. Where is the root of education? -Go home
Parents should be lifelong teachers of their children.
It is often said that parents are children's first teachers; I want to say that parents should be lifelong teachers of their children.
There is a philosophical story in the west, which is quite enlightening. This is a story of "father in the eyes of a son":
7 years old: "Dad is really amazing, he knows everything!" " "
14 years old: "It seems that sometimes it is wrong ..."
20 years old: "Dad is a little behind the times, and his theory can't keep up with the times."
25-year-old: "The' old man' knows nothing and is still so old-fashioned."
35 years old: "If my father was as sophisticated as me, he would be a millionaire today ..."
45 years old: "I don't know if I should discuss it with the' old man'. Maybe he can give me a hand ... "
55 years old: "It's a pity that my father passed away. To tell the truth, his point of view is quite brilliant! "
60 years old: "Poor dad! You are simply an omniscient scholar! It's a pity that I know you too late! "
Life is a durable book. When children reach middle age or old age, they will think more about their parents and feel their influence on their lives, thus consciously or unconsciously imitating their parents' educational methods to educate their children.