First, convey information.
Students, especially primary school students, are people who do not have full capacity for behavior. They need guardians to fully understand the children's situation, and teachers have the obligation to convey all kinds of information about students to parents. In order to ensure that students' information is conveyed in place, teachers will ask parents to sign.
Second, the joint efforts of education.
Parents are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers, and school teachers are people who impart knowledge. These two "mentors" play an important role in children's growth. If the two are combined, it will help children with half the effort. Teachers will get their parents' support by signing.
Third, extend the prescription.
Teachers' education of children at school is all-round, including moral education and knowledge teaching. The teacher's duty is to let every student learn knowledge and learn to be a man. The improvement of students' ability is the result of teachers' efforts, and teachers hope that this kind of education can continue at home. Teachers and parents are like two relay runners. One of them is over, and the baton must be passed to the next. Therefore, teachers will pass on their educational work to parents in the form of signatures. Parents need to receive education to help their children finish the task of the day seriously.
No matter what the purpose is, in order to help students better, teachers adopt the way of "parents' signature". Parents use a simple "autograph" action, just like the emperor reading the throne, losing many opportunities to understand and help their children.
What should parents do when signing? How do parents cooperate with teachers to promote their children's homework? There are four practical methods that can be used.
1, check the children's homework records. Prepare a homework notebook for your child and let him record his homework every day. Recording homework can avoid the situation that children can't remember what homework is, and write less homework. Parents can check the homework records one by one when checking the homework signature.
2. There should be clear job requirements. Everything has its meaning, and there are ways to measure it. For children to write homework, they should be clearly required from the first day when they enter the school. Parents and children should know what the homework of each subject is and what the homework standard required by the teacher is. Whether the teacher will be informed in the group is the standard. If you have requirements, you must implement them. You shouldn't try to move forward. If you find a problem, you should correct it quickly. In school, students obey because they know that teachers have requirements and cannot challenge them.
3, there must be feedback if there is demand. If parents and children agree on the requirements, they can't let the requirements become empty talk, so there must be corresponding inspections. Parents should not be afraid of trouble, and the agreed inspection methods should be pursued to the end and cannot be changed overnight. The child said that he had finished it. You said to take out his homework, let me have a look at Chinese, and let me have a look at math. You must have a feedback. When you do this job well, his self-discipline can really be improved.
As long as parents carefully check their homework and leave their children with no room to drill, the children will not let the requirements become waste paper. The biggest difference between parents and teachers is that the teacher will finish what he started. Whoever didn't hand in his homework and who made a mistake will be recorded by the teacher, so the children dare not finish the homework left by the teacher, but will be careless about the homework left by their parents. The reason is not that children are disobedient, but that parents turn words into empty words and lose their strength.
4. Do your own thing. When you study with your child at home, let him do his own thing, even if it is to find a piece of paper and prepare a pen. As long as it is his own business, let him do it independently. This is the key to cultivate children's sense of responsibility and independence in homework. On the first day of school, children have to carry their schoolbags by themselves. How can a child who can't carry a schoolbag carry the future? Learn to pack your schoolbag. What the father has to do is to check the completion of the child, find out the problems existing in the child through the inspection, and put forward suggestions and plans for improvement, so that the child can learn and grow from bit by bit. With the increase of children's grade, children's independence should also be continuously improved. How much time does it take to write homework, what kind of homework is qualified, and what kind of behavior is a waste of time? We should constantly point out to the child and give him ways to improve.
The cultivation of children's autonomous learning requires the joint efforts of families and schools. Parents should understand teachers, and teachers should also understand children and parents, so as to condense children's education knowledge and form an education plan suitable for children, so that children can learn and grow better.