1. When someone starts to neglect you, intentionally deceives you, or decides to leave you, no matter how good the excuse is, don’t believe it, no matter how familiar the person is, don’t stay, no matter how unforgettable the memory is, don’t cry. . If that person leaves, you can't keep him.
2. When a person's mood is at a low ebb and he is not interested in anything, he must learn to shift his attention. Now that some things have become facts, try to accept them and face them. It is impossible for one person to change the world, and the world will not change because of you. All you can do is to adapt to the world, not to be the best, and not to compare with others. Your life should have your own splendor.
3. Life is like a road, requiring patience. Growth takes away not only time, but also the courage to not be afraid of losing. Since we all know that complaining is of no use to ourselves, we must always remind ourselves: as long as it is beneficial to you, you must do everything possible to practice it.
4. People can live truly, but don’t take it too seriously. Many times, in order to find true happiness, we need to be patient. After walking for a while, I always want to see a scenery, because it is unforgettable; when I think of a person, I always shed tears. Life is always full of ups and downs, don't complain about anything, no matter how happy you are, you will still have worries; no matter how unlucky you are, you will still be lucky.
5. Don’t miss the past too much, because it will bring you sadness; embarrassment is a state that we often encounter in life. There are some things that we cannot understand when we are young. When we understand, we are no longer young. Some things in the world can be made up for, and some things can never be made up for. The process of polishing oneself is painful, but in the end it can create a better self.
6. Be optimistic and smile hard! Everyone is beautiful in their own way. There are many beautiful things in the world. If God doesn't give them to us, we can create them ourselves. Your current contributions will be a kind of precipitation, they will silently pave the way, just to make you a better person.
7. In life, you will meet all kinds of people. Don’t take other people’s care for granted. In our lives, we are making choices throughout our lives. After making every choice, we have to face a result. Some results may make us confused and overwhelmed, but we have to bear these consequences.
8. Being tired is not a sign of incompetence, but a sign of responsibility. You are tired because you understand; you are tired because the burden is heavy. You also know that as long as you step back, or even give up completely, you will no longer be tired. But you can’t even if you don’t want to. All the responsibilities are for tomorrow to be better than today. Since you have chosen to pursue it, don't cry. Just hold on and get through today, and happiness will be one step closer. What can really wear people down is the despair in their hearts.
9. Sometimes, someone must make us cry in order to wake us up. In fact, we should have someone who makes us smile. The only thing in the world that can be gained for nothing is poverty. The world will not stop because of your fatigue. If you don’t walk hard today, you will have to run tomorrow. If it is unavoidable, then all we can do is to make ourselves stronger and strong enough to face the next challenge. Confusion is what youth should be like
1. If you try to seize everything, it may be all in vain in the end.
2. The pain that was spoken out has healed, and the pain that was never mentioned touches the bottom of my heart.
3. Youth is like a heavy rain. Even if you catch a cold, you still look forward to getting wet again.
4. You have your sufferings, we have our sufferings, you have your blessings, and we have our blessings. Don't think that you are unfortunate, and don't think that others are happy. Everyone’s destiny is different, and everyone’s path is also different.
5. Confusion is what youth should be like.
6. I want a small house. I can be your little wife. We can carry the vegetable basket together through the alley in front of the door. You don’t need to wash the dishes after dinner, but you have to be responsible for wiping them. For the table, I want a chubby child, as cute as a little ball. When you grow a white beard and sit on the old chair at home, you will remember these good days and my beautiful floral skirt.
7. Infatuated people always have this idea: Even I am moved by myself, so what reason does she have for not being moved by me? But persistent pursuit can only prove that you are a persistent person, nothing more.
8. The so-called growing up is to take things that you originally valued a little less and value things that you originally valued a little more. Many people come into your life just to teach you a lesson and then turn around and leave. When everything calms down, I suddenly find that habits are a terrible thing that people can't quit or forget.
9. What does it mean to live to the point? It just feels that your life has not been in vain, your happiness index is very high, your soul is very fulfilling, and you don’t have many regrets when you look back on your life path. If you were given the opportunity to live your life over again, you would still be willing to live like this.
10. Just live as long as you feel happy, there is no need to prove anything to others. Never take the wrong path by looking at others.
11. The curtain on the stage of life may open at any time. The key is whether you are willing to perform or choose to avoid it.
12. Perhaps, what God does not give me, no matter how tightly my arms are clasped, it will still leak out; what God gives me, no matter how I fail in the past, I will have it.
13. A safe body is not as good as a safe mind, and a wide house is not as good as a wide heart.
14. Some things can be cultivated and shortened by time. Now I find that time can bring people closer, and it can also push people further away. Good feelings cannot replace everything.
15. Loneliness is the lack of wine in the stomach, the lack of cigarettes in the lungs, and the lack of you in me.
16. In life, there are many things that are fleeting, like saying goodbye at the station. They hugged each other just now, but in the blink of an eye they are far apart. Many times, you don’t understand, and I don’t understand either. Just like that, things change as you talk. You get tired of listening, you get tired of watching, you slow down when you follow, and you get tired when you walk. It's gone, the love fades away, the more you think about it, the more you forget it.
17. Being able to give love is blessing, and being able to eliminate worries is wisdom.
18. The most precious thing is not the material things you own, but the people who accompany you. You can't force others to love you, you can only work hard to make yourself a person worthy of love, and the rest depends on fate.
19. No matter when you start, the important thing is not to stop after you start. No matter when it ends, the important thing is not to regret it after it's over.
20. Maturity is not about a person’s heart getting older, it is about still smiling despite the tears.
21. Only those who have experienced hellish torture can have the power to conquer heaven. Only fingers that have shed blood can play the swan song of the world.
22. When love has gone through all kinds of hardships, how much courage do you still have to love?
23. No matter how great you think you are, there will always be someone stronger than you.
24. There is pressure, but not overwhelmed; confused, but never despair.
25. True purity does not mean innocence, nor does it mean ignorance of the dangers around you. But after seeing all kinds of suffering and ugliness, he still retains his original kindness and innocence and sticks to his principles.
26. It only takes one minute to meet someone; it only takes one sentence to like someone; it only takes a day to fall in love with someone; but it only takes one day to forget someone. It takes a person a lifetime.
27. If love can be explained, vows can be modified. What if the encounter between you and me could be rearranged. Then life will be easier. If one day, I can finally forget you. However, this is no casual tale. It is not a drama that will be performed only tomorrow. I can't find the original manuscript, and then erase you with one stroke.
28. When there is no love, we say loneliness, and when there is love, we say loneliness. Classic Quotations: Human struggle should be what it should be
1. Don’t complain often
In life, there will be bumps and bumps. Many people will complain, which is nothing more than dissatisfaction with reality, focusing on plight, feeling unfair, and believing in flattery. Such people cannot control their own lives, but instead entrust themselves to the outside world and others.
If you complain about what you don’t have, the result will always be this: what you don’t have will remain unavailable, and what you already have will gradually be lost. Psychological research has found that people's subjective thoughts can affect the development and changes of things. Complaining will only make things that are originally good and normal become moldy and deteriorate!
We always like to tell others about our past to gain sympathy from others, but what we get is to hear other people’s sadder past.
Complaining can easily lead to a comparison mentality. Complaining is the most energy-consuming and useless behavior. Success only belongs to those who move forward without any excuses. Complaining will only keep our minds stuck in the past and stagnate our progress.
On the road of life, it cannot be smooth sailing for everyone. We will always face various setbacks and difficulties. When we face them, we should not complain, because complaining cannot Solving any problems and difficulties we are currently experiencing will only make us feel more depressed and upset.
2. Stop comparing yourself with others
The world is inherently unfair. Don’t imagine that you must race from a fair starting point, because God created man. Sometimes, people are not put in the same environment. However, some people say that God is fair because God gives everyone a soul, no more and no less.
But why are some people happy, some sad, some blindly obedient, and some confused? Later, I found that people always like to compare, because comparison will cause deviations, and deviations will lead to dissatisfaction. However, only a few people work hard to become satisfied because of this dissatisfaction. Most people have differences because of dissatisfaction, and their hearts are not satisfied. Resentment and jealousy arise.
Without comparison, there is no difference, at least you won’t know it in your heart. If a person compares everything with others, loss, jealousy, and low self-esteem are inevitable.
A person's struggle should not always compare oneself with others. The purpose of comparison is only to let oneself understand oneself more clearly, and then formulate correct methods to surpass oneself and improve oneself. What's more, everyone is different. What you have may not be available to others. Why not cherish what you have?
3. Don’t waste time on the wrong people
Many people don’t have much understanding of the concept that time is precious when they are young. Because you are young and can afford to squander your good time.
But when you reach middle age from youth, you will suddenly realize that wasting time is really a waste of resources. Let’s forget it was just a waste of time, after all, we were having fun at the time. But how would you feel if you invested one share and ended up getting nothing and losing money?
Many things may seem invisible to you, but they are all irreversible. Don't always waste your time on the wrong people, and don't reason with people who don't understand, because even if you talk about vomiting blood, the person still won't understand you.
In the same way, don’t choose the wrong partner, the wrong couple, or the wrong friends, because you can’t afford to waste your time. One's struggle is not to waste time on all the wrong people and things!
4. Don’t run away from problems, think about getting through them
There are many helplessness in life, and we cannot reverse them. On the way to start a business, you may encounter insufficient funds; at work, you may encounter many complicated and trivial problems; emotionally, you may be separated due to quarrels, or you may feel lonely because you are alone. A lot of problems will come one after another, ranging from things as small as food, rice, oil and salt, to weddings and funerals.
There will be more or less a nepotism effect in the solution of a matter. Maybe the matter itself will not give you a headache, but the nepotism effect is enough to make you overwhelmed and choose to avoid solving the matter. . For example, many people are afraid of getting married, not because they don’t want to get married. They also know that getting married is a beautiful thing, but wedding preparations, socializing with relatives and friends, RV weddings, and post-marital life are enough to make a person feel entangled.
But as a struggling person, you must understand that people will always face many things that they have never experienced before. They are afraid, nervous, and overwhelmed. These emotional experiences are normal. But experience is experience, and you can't hide in your safe corner forever.
You need to face it bravely. Avoiding problems will not solve them. Only when you face it and face it squarely can you feel like you are coming back to life! Bite your teeth, hold on for a while, and you'll get through it!
Without the turmoil of heaven and earth, there would be no vicissitudes of life. In life, if there are no ups and downs, it is impossible to reach the top. Struggle has always been a high-spirited word, like a warrior. It is used to interpret all the happiness and sadness, sadness and helplessness, success and failure in a person's life...
The purpose of a person's life in the world is more to find himself and become what he should be. , and one's struggle is to find oneself, so one's struggle should also have its own look! A classic signature that a romantic couple should have
A classic signature that a romantic couple should have
When you slowly walked past my eyes, time seemed to have stopped at this moment.
When you pass quietly through my heart, every bit is so profound.
If you care, you will think wildly. If you don’t care, you won’t even think about it.
If you love you, you will be jealous. If you don’t love you, you won’t even care.
Black paper and white text. It clearly explains our perseverance
In black and white. It clearly records every bit of our life
Every familiar place has an unbearable memory#
Behind every memory, there is a bitterness and heartbeat#
-I am just me, I am just a me who gives up everything for love
-I am just me, I am just a me who is desperate for love
Girl, you are the smoke that I have breathed into my lungs and I can’t get rid of it.
Young man, you are the nail in my ear that can no longer be closed.
There is such a person who can make you smile happily every moment;
There is such a sentence that will keep your heart warm all the time; < /p>
When you look at it, you become enlightened and take it lightly;
When you listen, you wake up and begin to understand;
For you I don’t want you to pay back my heart, and I don’t want you to pay for my pain.
I don’t want you to bear the pain of loving you, and I don’t want you to block your tears.
Maybe I should have believed it a long time ago, so why not take it for granted.
Maybe I should have admitted it earlier, why not turn around and leave.
I care about you, because you are unique to me.
I care about you, because you are unique to me.
I don’t have more of anything. I just have a heart that loves you.
I don’t lack anything, all I lack is your concern for me.
Please cherish the tenderness I give you.
Please remember that I love you sincerely.
If you can't forget it, please let it go.
If you can’t let it go, don’t contact me.
Eat when you should, drink when you should, don’t take it to heart.
It’s time to stay, it’s time to go, the past will never be looked back.
Russia’s strength will not allow Russia to surrender mechanically.
Russia’s pride will not allow Russia to shed tears in defeat.
Forgetting is another kind of nostalgia for the past. You can never forget it, please remember it.
Giving up is another kind of fulfillment of love. I still can't get it, so please give up.
There was once a kind of love called friendship, but it is gone.
There was once a kind of love called love, but it was lost.
-I love him vigorously and crazily. My dreams have been broken but I will never forget them.
-I love that he stumbled into despair. My heart was deeply hurt but I will never forget it.
If you are not strong, no one will be brave for you
If you are not brave, no one will be strong for you
I am not a gentle person at all, but I have been doing all the gentle things for you.
I am not a patient person, but I have always tried my best to treat you.
There is some pain, how can I talk about it? Can speak, where to speak, when to speak
There are some secrets that cannot be said, cannot be said, need not be said, do not need to be said