Comment on Elegance 1 It is the dream of many people, and of course it is also my dream. I yearned for "money" since I was a child, so I began to save money and learn financial management knowledge very early. Among the financial books I dabble in, the investment and financial management book of elegant women is a special book I have read. There are both concept introduction and suggestions, theoretical explanation and case analysis, and strive to combine knowledge with practicality, which has profound guiding significance for family financial management.
Many people think that if you want to live a rich and comfortable life, you just need to find a good job, and you don't need to learn financial management. I don't object to the saying that a good job and promotion will bring a lot of money, but why do we feel less and less money and more and more economic pressure? After reading this book, you will understand that the crux of the problem lies in our neglect of the importance of family financial management.
Many female friends pin their future on the other half, hoping to find a rich husband, dreaming of becoming a full-time wife in the future, sitting at home and enjoying everything after marriage, and having no worries about food and clothing all their lives. I suggest these female friends watch a TV series "My First Half Life". Luo Zijun, the heroine in TV series, lived a pampered life every day because of her happy marriage. It was not until one day that her husband suddenly filed for divorce and her stay-at-home wife lost everything in an instant that she realized the hidden marriage crisis. Take this as a warning, or become an economically independent woman. After reading this book, we will get suggestions on how to arrange our income and expenses scientifically and reasonably, so as to lay a solid foundation for a relaxed, comfortable and worry-free life in the future and become more independent and wealthy women as soon as possible.
Many people use the proverb "life and death depend on fate, wealth is in the sky" to preach that wealth is predestined and we should not have wealth. After reading this book, you will understand that "to have wealth, you must first have the strength to obtain finance."
Many people are used to accumulating wealth slowly through hard work, thrift and desperate saving. Many people think that "Qian Shengqian" is a game for the rich and has nothing to do with themselves. After reading this book, you will know that no matter whether we have big money or small money, as long as we plan and invest reasonably, we can get rich returns and realize our personal life goals.
Buffett said that how much wealth you can accumulate in your life does not depend on how much money you can earn, but on how you invest and manage your finances.
Comment on Elegance 2 In our life, we will encounter many difficulties and hardships. Seeing this topic, I have many questions. How does a person walk gracefully through rainy days? Today, with this question, I read Chi's Gracefully Walking through Rainy Days.
The protagonist in the story is Qian Zixing, who was originally a daughter, but the news of her father's bankruptcy suddenly spread and all kinds of eyes came from all directions. Everyone thought that Qian Zixing would fall into the deep valley. I didn't expect the thousand stars in Libra to be defeated by difficulties, even stronger than his father.
At this time, the application form for the second season of the reality show "The Son of Heaven" accidentally entered her sight. Qian Zixing, who successfully passed the selection, entered the program group with the humiliating title of "Bankrupt Princess", but her opponents were very strong, including popular stars, high IQ geniuses and music prodigies. Ordinary Chihiro has no advantage. She just tries her best to finish every task. She overcame all kinds of difficulties and betrayed the unbearable friendship of ordinary people. She learned to persist and give up, and always had a strong smile on her tearful face. Finally, she stood on the podium of the champion and got the most beautiful flowers and the warmest applause.
After reading this book, I have a lot of feelings, just like encountering all kinds of difficulties in my life. In order to be admitted to the dance company, I practiced dancing again and again, but because I couldn't satisfy the judges, I finally lost the election. When I think of Qian Zixing, her strong smile will appear in front of me. I'm not sad or lost because of it. I found my own shortcomings and weaknesses in the dance. I spent more time and energy practicing dancing than other students. Finally, many good things happen, and in the next competition, I stand out!
Libra is the embodiment of elegance, independence, self-confidence, happiness and love to laugh. Never let others see her tears easily. Even with great difficulties and twists and turns, she just frowned, lifted her skirt lightly and walked gracefully through every "rainy day" of life. After reading this book, I want to say: Even if life makes us cry, don't forget to smile!
Teacher's comment: "Walking gracefully through rainy days" is very suitable for you who are beautiful, lovely and elegant. Not only can you read the book thoroughly, but you can also combine what you feel from it with your own reality. Beautiful writing makes the teacher feel warm after reading it, without losing a masterpiece!
After reading Elegance, I read Chichi's Elegance through Rainy Days, and I felt the calmness and strength between the lines.
Libra girl Qian Zixing, the news of her father's bankruptcy was officially announced, and everyone was curious about how she would face it. Qian Zixing bravely accepted her fate, but she was only a girl of 12 years old. Faced with the pressure from all sides, she felt powerless, so she participated in the reality show "Favorite". "Bankrupt Princess" Qian Zixing encountered many difficulties in recording the program. Undaunted, she won everyone's affirmation with her own efforts and won a large bonus.
I like Qian Zixing very much. She has the Libra personality characteristics introduced on the webpage: elegant and generous, confident and intelligent, cordial and sincere, easy-going and gentle, good at understanding other people's feelings, considerate of other people's difficulties and strong social skills, as if she were a girl living beside me. However, she is different from the so-called Libra style. When life changed dramatically and fell into a trough, she didn't "escape from reality, hesitate and be at a loss", but smiled, was calm, strong and brave, so that the suffering was no longer domineering in front of her, but fell down. She is like a duck to water when she is busy, and she faces it bravely when she is alone. This is the unusual Libra girl Qian Zixing. A thousand stars are the most ideal appearance for Libra girls. Although it is impossible to be exactly like her, I believe that every Libra woman can find her own shadow in her. Maybe Qian Zixing once lived an elegant and leisurely life that we thought was a little far away, but she also degenerated lower than most of us, endured unspeakable pressure and pain, and showed strength and courage that we could not imagine.
Qian Zixing is a model of Libra girls. Although I am not a Libra, she is also my idol. I hope I can "walk through the rainy days gracefully" like her! You may or may not be a Libra, but I still hope that thousands of stars can give you courage to face all the good times and bad times in your life gracefully, calmly, firmly and bravely.
Everyone can be a thousand children!
After reading Elegance, the world is beautiful because of differences, and the society is constantly developing because of differences. However, in life, it is related to ourselves. We always want to hear the same voice, but we don't want to, don't want to, and even hate different voices. Little did we know that we would lose a debater, a chance to feel different voices and a chance to grow up. Change your mind and cherish different voices.
First, learn how to talk peacefully with people who disagree with you, and listen carefully and learn to "listen". This is the first step to becoming "elegant". If you listen, you can get attention without shouting. Discussion is like talking. Listen carefully to show respect, talk calmly, disagree frankly, understand the other party's real views and reasons, listen carefully to find out where the other party distorts and misunderstood his position, and discuss the real problems openly.
Second, be vigilant and abandon those useless methods. Egoism: psychological egoism (everyone is selfish); Ethical egoism (people should be self-interested and self-interest is right) is mainly relative: sociological relativism and cultural relativism; Deism (theological voluntarism): It limits the real rational examination and moral exploration.
Third, elegantly construct * * * isomorphism and read more different kinds of books. Let books construct the same body for our teaching, such as Ya Bian; Learn the principles of debate, build a correct debate model and create a good debate environment. Practice bravely, start from yourself, argue gracefully and talk gracefully. Furthermore, organize debates and guide students to debate correctly and gracefully. Keep an open mind, have a "sense of the other party", receive the bright spots of the other party and create a harmonious atmosphere.
As a teacher, there are two things in front of us: "urgency is also urgent, urgency is also preparing lessons, and urgency is also growing up." We can't give up self-growth under the guise of busy students, which will make us lazy and stupid. Let me learn to listen carefully. Before making a speech, I should deal with my emotions first, and then express my views and deal with things.
Comments on "Confucianism" 5 temperament girl, not conformity: Wang Yongyuan is conformity, and what others say is what they say. Not only has she never had her own opinion, but she also won't refute those wrong views.
One day, Xiaomei smiled and said to Wang, "You don't look good with long hair. Your face is more suitable for short hair. "
Hearing this, Wang nodded and said, "Mm-hmm, I don't think my long hair looks good either. Let's cut it short at night."
However, Midora shook her head and said to her, "Xiao Mo, I think you look good with long hair, so don't cut it. If it doesn't look good, it's hard to grow so long. "
Wang nodded and said, "You're right, then I won't cut it."
Xiaomei reluctantly said to the king, "Don't listen to Midora. I think you'd better cut your hair short. " Why don't you decide for yourself whether you can see or not? "
Wang laughed and said, "Hehe, you are what you say!" "
Midora said in distress situation: "Xiao Mo, cutting your hair is your own business. How can I have the final say? "
The king said, "What you said is reasonable, but what Xiaomei said is also true. Why don't you two discuss it now? Should I cut it or not? Let me know when it is solved. I think it's okay to cut it or not. "
The little Q next to him couldn't stand it anymore, so he couldn't help but interject: "I think it looks good if you shave your head, so do you shave it?"
Ha ha ha ... "The whole class burst out laughing, and all eyes were fixed on Wang.
However, Wang is not angry. She said unhurriedly, "Your idea is very good, too, but it's a pity that the school won't let you shave your head."
Oh, my God! Wang, Wang, we really admire you! "Said the little q a face of helpless.
Since then, Wang has become a "good girl" in the class. No matter what happens, few people ask Wang's opinion, because her opinion is no problem!
This story tells us that we must not follow the trend. Otherwise, you won't have your own opinions and won't be trusted by others.
After reading Elegance, I bought Injong's memoir Elegance of Ambition, a signed edition, and a new book in my hand. I am very happy, but my heart is heavy, because I will see the dribs and drabs of Huayuan in the past 30 years, ups and downs, ups and downs.
The preface of the book-the fate of a small family and the fate of a country, I like this topic very much, and I always feel that this should be the truth that our nation has gone through in recent decades and learned from blood and tears. Although I haven't experienced that era, I still can't see the true restoration of that period of history, but from the fragmented information of all parties, I can still draw the conclusion that people in that era only knew there was a country, but they didn't know there was a home. Only when you lose it will you know how to cherish it! Renzong, who experienced that era, was able to express his feelings sincerely because he lost his home. If there is no home, where will there be a country? When I was a child, I always lived in a big safe and happy family. Now I have left my family and integrated into the society. My right to a stable small family needs to be guaranteed by a fair and just social system and legal environment. This is not a simple reincarnation. President Ren's thinking about himself has been answered and sublimated.
Favorite excerpts are as follows:
"The most important thing in this society is a sense of responsibility. It is an era in which everyone no longer regards himself as a bystander, but * * * devotes himself to the trend of social progress. Democracy did not fall from the sky, nor did wealth fall from the sky. If you want to gain something, you must work hard, start from sowing the ideal seeds, water and fertilize diligently, and let this society change in the struggle of * * *. ()
Education in early childhood makes us only know that there is no home in the country. When the Cultural Revolution and jumping the queue really made us lose our home, we realized that home is more important than the country. If there is no home, where will there be a country? China comes first only when it resists foreign aggression. So from the country to the individual, a return of human nature has been formed. After the initial stability of individuals and families, it is found that it is not enough to win the real rights of freedom, equality and democracy. We should also go out of our homes, integrate into society, and promote the reform of the entire social system. This is not a simple reincarnation, but the temporary stability of this small family without the ultimate right protection, and the system of the whole country must be fundamentally changed. "
A few days ago, I read the late Libra: Elegance in Rainy Days.
This book is written like this: Qian Zixing, a Libra woman, was originally a "princess" who had no worries about food and clothing, but later her family went bankrupt, but this could not knock Qian Zixing down with good living habits; Later, she was unexpectedly chosen as the guest of the variety show "The Son of Tianjiao" ... but this is only the beginning. Faced with the embarrassment of life, the right and wrong of friends, and the frustration of parents, she always shows an optimistic, strong and fair attitude ... At the same time, she performed well in the program and was deeply loved by the public, so she became the champion of this season's "Son of Tianjiao".
Qian Zixing's strong, optimistic and just attitude reminds me of something related to "justice".
That was when I was in the third grade. It was Wednesday, I was a student on duty, and the teacher couldn't come to class for some reason. After the homework was arranged, the teacher asked me to go up and take charge of discipline. As usual, I picked up my homework and sat on the platform.
After a while, my classmates' whispers interrupted my homework. I looked up and glared at my classmates who were gossiping, but they were not only "unrepentant", but they pushed their luck-they even made a loud noise in class, causing the whole class to burst into laughter. I couldn't bear it, shouting "Quiet! Quiet! " Write the names of those criminals on the blackboard. When the students saw it, they all shut up consciously and stopped talking. I saw that my classmates were very quiet, and I began to do my homework by myself.
After a while, there was a "twittering" voice from below. When I looked up, my brow suddenly twisted into a ball of cotton-the speaker was actually my good friend Tingting! I looked at her and wanted to give her some hints. But she didn't seem to hear it. The more she talks, the more energetic she is! I pretended to cough and tried to give her further hints. But she still pretended not to hear! If I were someone else, I would not hesitate to register, but she is my good friend. If I remember her name, will she be angry with me? If I don't remember ... I feel like an ant on hot bricks-running around, angry, anxious, what should I do? Just when I was in a dilemma, Qian Zixing's fair image flashed across my lost heart like a lightning bolt. Yes, fairness and justice are the wisest choice. ...
Libra: Walking gracefully through rainy days is like a mysterious gem, which contains infinite value; It is also like a loyal friend who always gives me help and support silently when I am in trouble.
After reading "Elegance", she is like a white and full magnolia, like a proud and tenacious plum blossom, like a small and exquisite gardenia, like a lotus without mud, like a fragrant orchid ... Who is she? She is the elegant old gentleman Jiang Yang.
Jiang Yang, a talented woman, was born in a scholarly family and was carefully cultivated by her father since childhood. Mr. Wang was associated with the word elegance all his life. Although her works are not as famous as Qian Zhongshu's, there is a strong gentle wind in every word, which makes readers intoxicated.
There are many beautiful comments about Jiang Yang. Some people say that she is patient and calm, others say that she is wise and quiet ... The best is her husband Qian Zhongshu's evaluation: "A good wife and mother are the most talented women." No matter how beautiful the comments are, the word "elegance" will be said eventually.
Elegance does not mean that the ladies in the palace pretend to hold goblets, whisper softly, sip red wine from time to time and sit impatiently. Elegance is not just a noble person. A 15-year-old girl in the countryside, with two thick braids, washes clothes by the stream, which is very beautiful.
However, I don't think Jiang Yang is like this. She will sit at a carved wooden table with a novel in her hand and a tea bowl filled with green tea. She will take a sip of tea from time to time and then continue reading ... she likes her husband's elegance best.
Elegance is not difficult. First, let the heart become calm, not impatient, slow, elegant, and finally become an elegant person. Jiang Yang was elegant all his life, which was unmatched by others. I want to spend my life gracefully like her.
I appreciate Jiang Yang's writing style and attitude towards life. I also like reading and drinking tea gracefully.
"We want to find the waves of life, and later we know that the most beautiful scenery in our hearts is inner peace and calmness; We wanted to be recognized by society, and later discovered that this society belongs to ourselves and has nothing to do with others. " You don't have to do too much in life, just follow your heart.
Although Miss Wang has left us, her thoughts have been shining for generations. Let us remember this elegant flower, elegant person and elegant words, and this lovely and respectable old man-Jiang Yang.
Comments on "Elegance" 9 Nowadays people like to flaunt themselves with "eating goods", but how many people have learned to eat and table manners? Eating is a science. If you just love to eat, then you are not a foodie, but a git.
With the passage of time, eating has been given various meanings. The first and most basic purpose of eating is to feel full. Then the pursuit and exploration of taste buds, then the emphasis on nutrition, then the sensory experience of dining environment, and finally evolved into a table etiquette culture for communication.
Eating can reflect a person's accomplishment. People in China are delicious. No matter business or blind date, many of them are discussed at the dinner table, and the details determine success or failure. From the personal voice when eating and drinking soup to the action when picking vegetables, the attitude towards the waiter, the arrangement of seats, and the order of setting dishes and toasting will all show your literacy and become the key to the success or failure of a contract or blind date.
Eating is a historical and cultural precipitation. Why do you eat with round tables in the east and square tables in the west? Why are chopsticks for serving vegetables 7 inches 6 minutes long and round at one end? What is the relationship between the title and one of the vessels used for drinking in ancient China? In the west, different cups are used for different wines. What is the design concept? The evolution from eating utensils to food, if deepened, will often involve weather, geography, ethnic changes, understanding of heaven and earth and other aspects of knowledge.
Eating can show the economic level of a society. In times of poverty, the goal is to eat enough. The greeting when people met in China in the last century was: "Have you eaten?" Because people were poor then. In the well-off society of 2 1 century, people began to pursue health preservation and began to have requirements for the eating environment. Many people even began to look for food in the streets to comment on.
This book taught me not only etiquette, but also a kind of culture and personal accomplishment. After reading this book, I realized many unexpected embarrassing details at the dinner table that I didn't realize before.
After reading Elegance 10 Listening to the Rain outside the window and reading Libra: Walking through Rainy Days gracefully by Chi, I felt that the rain that trapped me at home was also made lovely by the author's gentle and delicate words.
My mood seeped into the story with the raindrops dripping on the page: Qian Xing of Libra lived in a rich family since childhood, but when the news of Qian Xing's bankruptcy was revealed, intriguing eyes came to her from all directions. In order to get the bonus, she participated in the program "Favorite" with the title of "Bankrupt Princess". After many efforts, I finally impressed the judges with my talent and enthusiasm and won the award. Qian Zixing is a strong and elegant girl. In the face of many difficulties, she didn't bow her head and give up. Although she was in adversity, she did not forget to help Jiang, who was timid and inferior, regain her confidence ... She was actually just an ordinary girl, nervous in front of the flash and angry when she was laughed at by others, but she still walked forward with Libra's elegance and smile. The wet paper has dried. As a Libra, I haven't walked out of the author's "rainy day".
I think elegance and courage are not innate, but come from smiling and facing difficulties and setbacks again and again. I remember once, my parents took me to the playground for a run. On the second lap, I tripped and fell. I looked up and found that my mother was gone. Although my knee hurts a little, I still bite my teeth, clap my hands and get up. I continued to run a few steps forward, feeling some pain in my knee, and then stopped a few steps before I finished five laps as usual. When I got home, I rolled up my pants, only to find that my knees were bleeding, and my knees were full of blood. When I touched my pants, they hurt very much. I stuck six hemostatic patches to barely cover the main wound. When I tore off the hemostatic patch, tears came out unwillingly, but I still gritted my teeth and asked my mother to help me disinfect.
Mom said that I grew up and became brave and strong. I was no longer the little girl who loved to cry, and I was a step closer to the little lady ... I was a little embarrassed and a little proud.
Now that I think about it, although I can't compare with Qianzixing, I still insist on working hard in this direction and bravely experience life. One day, I can walk gracefully through rainy days!
Comments: The author first summarizes the main contents of Libra: Walking through Rainy Days gracefully in concise language, and then writes some insights according to his real life. The author understands the truth that "we should bravely overcome the difficulties in life", and the article has profound implications.
Comments on Elegance 1 1 This book was shelved in the middle of reading. Now start from the beginning and read it all at once. It is not too difficult to read.
In this book, I talked a lot about the curse of anger and how to avoid the outbreak of anger. After reading this book, I have a more comprehensive understanding of "anger".
In our life, we often get angry because of a trivial matter, or sometimes we often sulk. This result will only affect our good mood, make a beautiful day overcast, and people around us will feel depressed and hope to stay away from you. But how can you realize that you are angry? I used to sulk because of a little thing, but what's the use? I'm not the only one who is angry. It doesn't matter who makes you angry. Now, after we know more about anger, what we have to do is to use our existing knowledge to urge our future self, so that we will not often fall into the trap of anger.
If you want not to be angry, first of all, you should be aware of being angry. When you realize that your anger is about to erupt, you can stop and ask yourself, "Is this worth your anger?" "What will happen if you are angry?" "Is there a more effective way?" Knowing that you are going to be angry, you can stop the angry car in time, stop slowly and let your reason come back. Perhaps, there will be a more effective way. Secondly; When others offend us, or we can't stand other people's behavior, this situation is the easiest for us to sulk. Many times, we don't have the courage to directly resist the offense of others. At this time, our best way is to stay away from this person and leave it behind, instead of chewing his consciousness repeatedly, which will only make us more and more angry. When we can't look at other people's behavior and stay away from this person, we'd better learn not to care about and think about his behavior. He is him and I am me. His behavior has nothing to do with me, so I have nothing to be angry about. Finally, if you are angry, then the best way at this time is to stay away from the battlefield, so as not to be angry.
Anger is inevitable, but the most important thing is that we can make our brain circuits fail in time, pull our stubborn self back in time, convince ourselves to effectively resolve anger, or vent our anger in a way that doesn't hurt others.
Comment on Elegance 12 We can't dress ourselves without caring about the outside and the influence of the environment. Living habits, internal thinking and aesthetic level almost laid the level of appearance output.
French fashion books look simple. Simplicity and elegance have almost become synonymous with elegance. The book also introduces two styles, elegance is more than elegance, that is, chic and a little deliberate slovenly. These two styles are possible for people with great wisdom and knowledge.
The last article "French women will not get fat" is to hope that people can keep a healthy figure, keep it forever, not get fat, live a regular life, and be introspective and restrained. Elegance is not a book about clothing collocation, but is based on clothing collocation, and it is some suggestions on skills and details to make people more elegant.
First, women who dress best tend to pay the most attention to clothes, but that doesn't mean they spend the most money or time.
Second, the workplace dress style should be restrained and low-key.
Third, if the other half questions my taste, I will be disgusted.
Fourth, study fashion magazines.
Fifth, never sacrifice comfort for good looks.
6. As accessories, gloves, hats, shoes and handbags have infinite power, which can destroy the charm of big-name designers and add points to elegant manners.
Seven, because your skirts, coats and suits are gradually becoming simple, you need to pay more attention to the elegance of accessories. The ideal wardrobe for old ladies should have several sets of well-designed clothes and many exquisite accessories.
In short, after the first grade, the elegance of women depends on the polishing and cultivation of behavior.
The most elegant woman is a woman with her own personal style. They have been dressed up for many years, and they know what suits them best, and they are persistent.
Taking a few seconds every day to confirm your appearance is a small investment in developing self-confidence.
At Christmas, you should be grateful for the gifts you received, because deep down, you hope that your kindness, thoughtfulness and generosity will be greatly rewarded. For example, send a tie and get a piece of jewelry. Remember that this is a special night and it is worth dressing up for.
10, never sacrifice comfort for good looks.
Wei Shaosan's shoelaces are 150 cm long. Why is the full name of Shao Wei 3 not Zer0.3, but Russell? Westbrook's combat boots. Shao Wei's thi