As a gentleman, one should have a strong will, a never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen one's self-cultivation and complete and develop one's studies or career. Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibility and talent entrusted to a gentleman by the universe.
2, don't do it with evil, don't do it with good. -History of the Three Kingdoms
Don't do anything just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some tiny. Don't stop doing a good thing that benefits others just because it doesn't mean much.
3. It is better to see good than not to see good, and to see bad is like exploring soup. -The Analects of Confucius
When you meet an excellent person, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid it's too late to do it. Seeing evil people doing bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave at once and stay away.
4. It is far from complaining to bow your head and feel sorry for yourself. -The Analects of Confucius
Those who work hard and take the initiative to take the main responsibility for mistakes are "doing their best", and being more understanding and tolerant of others is "lightly blaming others", so that they will not resent each other.
5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman always starts from the good or beneficial wishes of others, and wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, instead of looking at the world coldly. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. The villain will always be "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults."
6, see xian Si Qi how, see not xian and introspection. -The Analects of Confucius
When you see someone who has more advantages than yourself in a certain respect, you should consult modestly, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him; When you see that a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies.
7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't impose what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster, etc.) on others. ).
8. Do your duty and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius
Don't hesitate to do good deeds, even if the teacher is on the side, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence".
9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. -The Analects of Confucius
A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous.
10, two people are United and break; The difference between one thought and another. -Zhouyi
Qi Xin's concerted efforts are powerful enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinion, which is convincing and easy to accept.
1 1, the gentleman hides the device in his body and waits for the opportunity. -Zhouyi
Even if a gentleman has outstanding skills, he will not show off everywhere. But to show your talents or skills when necessary.
12, Man Cang loses money and gains moderately. -"Shangshu"
Complacency will bring losses and disasters; Only by being modest and always aware of your own shortcomings can you benefit from it.
13, people don't know or care, aren't they gentlemen? -The Analects of Confucius
If I have some achievements, others will not understand, but I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a gentleman's demeanor?
14, keep your word and do what you want. -The Analects of Confucius
If you say it, you must do it; Once you have determined what you want to do, you should do it resolutely and boldly.
15, meaningless, without will, without solid, without ego. -The Analects of Confucius
Tell the truth, don't just guess; Don't be arbitrary, willful and feasible; Flexible action, not rigid; Everything is not centered on "I", not self-righteous, and cooperate with people around me to complete the task.