In the face of trauma, people generally have two different manifestations: one is unwilling to face trauma and blindly escape or seek dependence; The other is to learn to face the trauma alone and no longer rely on anyone or anything. These two different manifestations lead to two different people: one continues to escape and the other matures in trauma. Wheat that has not experienced trauma cannot bear mature fruit, and neither can human beings.
Everything goes well, which is not conducive to growth and will stop us. If you want to taste the joy of success, you must go through the necessary tempering and bear certain injuries. In the process of dealing with trauma alone, we can gain the mature charm brought by years. After experiencing trauma, difficulties and setbacks, I have been tempered, more and more mature and stronger.
No matter what life gives us, we should face it bravely. There is nothing fixed in the world. Trauma and happiness, pain and happiness often go hand in hand. Only when we face and adapt can life be different. When you have experienced all this, you will find that the trauma has indeed created a more mature you, and in the days to come, you can also easily shuttle through the trauma and see all kinds of scenery in life.