The pendulum of the clock always swings back and forth, over and over again. 31-year-old Liu Ping did not expect that her husband Wu Xiaobo was actually a standard "pendulum man": In April 2013, Liu Ping and Wu Xiaobo divorced due to personality discord more than two years after their marriage; in 2014, Wu Xiaobo After his second marriage, he often sent messages to Liu Ping saying that he could not let go of her; in March 2016, Wu Xiaobo remarried Liu Ping soon after their divorce; now, after only two months of marriage, Wu Xiaobo also said that he could not let go of his second wife. , I want to divorce Liu Ping... The first scene: Second marriage after nine months of divorce from my wife. Yesterday afternoon, the editor met Liu Ping at her home in Huangnilong. On the coffee table, there were several divorce certificates and marriage certificates spread out. The certificate silently records the ups and downs of her marriage to Wu Xiaobo. Liu Ping is 31 years old and works in a transportation company in our city. In 2010, after being introduced by her classmates, she met Wu Xiaobo, a courier who was one year younger than her. In 2011, the two got married. Shortly after the marriage, Wu Xiaobo resigned and said he wanted to start a business, but he was always looking for projects. During this period, he relied on his parents for subsidies. "I really can't stand his idle state." The divorce certificate shows that the two divorced on April 2, 2013. On January 8, 2014, Liu Ping learned from a friend that Wu Xiaobo received his second marriage certificate on the same day. His second wife was named Xiaojuan. Daughter, "I felt that he and I were completely over." The second pendulum: Divorce again and get back together with his ex-wife. What Liu Ping didn't expect was that after Wu Xiaobo's second marriage, he would still call him from time to time. Every time he and Xiaojuan Whenever we quarrel, we have to talk to ourselves, "It makes me feel clearly that he still has feelings for me." On March 8 this year, Wu Xiaobo and Xiaojuan went through the divorce procedures. That night, Wu Xiaobo also invited Liu Ping and a group of good friends Eat together and celebrate liberation. After that, Wu Xiaobo began to pursue Liu Ping again. He also said that after being with Xiaojuan, he realized how good Liu Ping was. The marriage certificate shows that on April 8 this year, Wu Xiaobo and Liu Ping went through the marriage procedures again. "We were very sweet after our marriage, and I think it is worth cherishing." Liu Ping told the editor that after her marriage, she moved into Wu Xiaobo's mortgaged house in Eling, and Wu Xiaobo drove Didi to make a living. Since Xixi's custody rights belong to Wu Xiaobo, in addition to working every day, the two also take care of the baby together. "I am very good to Xixi. She even calls me mom." The editor saw that Wu Xiaobo sent WeChat messages to express his gratitude to Liu many times. Ping's selfless dedication to Xixi. Wu Xiaobo sent WeChat messages many times to express his gratitude to Liu Ping for her selfless dedication to Xixi. The third pendulum: Divorce again and wanting to return to the second marriage. At the end of April, less than a month after remarrying, Wu Xiaobo suddenly told Liu Ping that he felt that life could not go on, so he still wanted to get married. Said that life was not what he imagined and hoped to divorce her again. "Why didn't you tell me earlier!" The editor opened Liu Ping's WeChat records and saw that when faced with Liu Ping's question, Wu Xiaobo replied that because of Xixi's existence, he could never let go of his biological mother Xiaojuan. Liu Ping was so devastated that she moved back to her parents' home angrily. "I hoped that if we calm down for a while, he would wake up." On May 16, Xiaojuan used Wu Xiaobo's mobile phone to send Liu Ping, "I am Xiaojuan...I'm sorry." "Would you like to fulfill my Xixi? Let Xixi have a complete family." On May 21, Xiaojuan also sent a photo to Liu Ping. In the photo, Xiaojuan, Wu Xiaobo and Xixi were all in the bedroom of Wu Xiaobo's home. inside. Wu Xiaobo's father informed Liu Ping via WeChat that he would never support Xiaojuan's entry again and had strictly ordered his son to move all Xiaojuan's things away as soon as possible. "I didn't expect that they would be together now." Liu Ping couldn't help crying. Yesterday, Liu Ping invited a community emotional mediator to call Wu Xiaobo. The editor learned through hands-free listening that Wu Xiaobo said that he was too impulsive and hasty when he got back together with Liu Ping, and now he has decided to divorce. He also said that if Liu Ping does not divorce, He will file for divorce through the courts. As for the reason for the divorce, Wu Xiaobo said that everything was for the sake of his daughter. He also said that after remarrying Liu Ping, he felt that his life had changed. Later, the editor called Xiaojuan, but she hung up the phone because she was inconvenient to answer. The wife was angry and planned to sue her husband for damages. "Actually, I learned that he decided to leave me because Xiaojuan provided him with a sum of money to open a store," Liu Ping said. Yesterday, the editor heard a recording of a call with Wu Xiaobo's father provided by Liu Ping. Wu's father said that Xiaojuan provided tens of thousands of yuan to Wu Xiaobo's business and changed his mind. Wu's father also lamented in the recording: " This kid (Wu Xiaobo) is so heartless." Liu Ping plans to sue her husband. "He hurt me repeatedly, and it is considered an affair within marriage. I will definitely not forgive him." Liu Ping also said that she has contacted her. Lawyer, intends to seek compensation from Wu Xiaobo through legal means. Yesterday, Ms. Lei, the same friend of Liu Ping and Wu Xiaobo, told the editor that everyone was worried when Liu Ping remarried, but they did not expect Wu Xiaobo to change his mind so quickly and support Liu Ping in defending her rights. Yesterday, lawyer Zhang Mingqiang of Chongqing Jingsheng Law Firm said that according to Article 46 of the Marriage Law, if a spouse lives with others and other circumstances lead to divorce, the innocent party has the right to request damages. When love becomes a sharp sword, you must learn to let it go. Wu Xiaobo plays a role like a pendulum in love, constantly swinging between two women. No matter how high-sounding his reasons are for each swing, it highlights his selfishness and Being irresponsible has caused great harm to both women. I hope Wu Xiaobo can learn to grow up and let the latest choice become the last choice. "If they really get divorced, Wu Xiaobo might miss her again.

"Zhou Xiaoyan suggested that after Liu Ping and "Pendulum Man" really solve the problem, they become strangers completely. When love becomes a sharp knife, they must learn to let go. Haha, let the editor say that such a man does not understand "responsibility" , let alone insulting "feelings"! The difference between first and second marriages 2 There is no difference between the first and second marriage certificates and the first marriage certificate. From the perspective of Chinese marriage, the second marriage certificate is the same as the first marriage certificate. The certificate is exactly the same, there is no difference, and the procedures for the second marriage are the same as for the first marriage. But another point is that although the second marriage will not be shown on the marriage certificate, the marital status will not be shown. It will be shown in the household registration book. Usually, if you are married for the first time, it will show the first marriage, and if you are married for the second time, the household registration book will show the remarriage. 2. What documents are needed to register the second marriage? 1. My permanent household registration book and resident status. Certificate (photocopied on site) 2. The court’s divorce judgment or mediation document, or the divorce certificate from the Civil Affairs Bureau; 3. A signed statement that I have no spouse and that I have no direct blood relationship or collateral blood relationship within three generations with the other party (to be filled out on site). . 4. The parties concerned submit 3 recent 2-inch half-length color photos without hats (can be taken on-site, but a certain fee must be paid) 3. Procedures for remarriage registration 1. Both the man and woman who are registering the marriage are required to present the required documents. Apply to the marriage registration office at the district or county level civil affairs bureau (or town people's office) where one party has his or her permanent residence. 2. Both parties shall apply in person at the marriage registration office and each fill in a "Declaration for Marriage Registration." 3. Both parties must sign in person in the "Declarant" column of the "Declaration for Marriage Registration" in front of the marriage registrar. 4. The marriage registration agency will review the documents and statements submitted by both parties. If the marriage registration conditions are met, registration will be granted. Differences between First Marriage and Second Marriage 3 1. Introduction to Marriage Certificate A marriage certificate is a legal document issued by the marriage registration authority to prove the validity of the marriage relationship. It is made in two original copies, with each party holding one copy. Its format is uniformly formulated by the Ministry of Civil Affairs. , printed uniformly by the people's governments of provinces, autonomous regions, and municipalities directly under the Central Government, and stamped by the people's governments of counties, municipal districts, or cities without districts. The marriage certificate must have photos of both men and women, and a special stamp for marriage registration must be stamped if the marriage certificate is lost. You can apply for a replacement at the Civil Affairs Bureau. 2. Marriage certificate application process Registration location: The marriage registration authority where the male and female party has their household registration. Proofs to be carried: 1. Resident ID card; 2. Household registration book (or collective household registration certificate); 3. Proof of marital status. ; ① Fixed workers and retired employees shall be issued by the unit where they work ② Unemployed and self-employed persons shall be issued by the neighborhood (village) committee ③ Unemployed persons and self-employed persons shall also provide a labor manual (or license) 4. Three recent 2-inch color photos of the front face of the person 3 2-inch single color photos without hats, the colors of both parties' photos are the same, and the marriage registration office has Polaroid snapshot service; 5. Special certificates of the remarried parties (in addition, certificates of ①-④ are required) Divorce certificate (or certificate of settlement of the relationship between husband and wife) (or court mediation letter) (or court divorce judgment) Note: If you hold a lower court judgment, you must also bring proof that the lower court judgment is effective; 6. Special certificates for those who leave the country for private purposes (in addition, certificates from ① to ④ are required) I Proof of marriage while abroad, certified (or notarized) by the embassy or consulate stationed abroad; 7. Special certificate for those who have left the country for private purposes and settled in the country (in addition, certificates from ① to ④ are required). If there is no proof of marriage status while abroad, You can hold a notarized certificate of unmarried status abroad.