1. In the past, drinking and singing were called class. Nowadays, I live a low-key life, work hard to make money, and spend more time with my family, which is called reliable. No matter how good you are or how rich you are, doing things that match your age is called responsibility!

2. The most important thing for adults to get along harmoniously is: you don’t have to ask others for your own lifestyle.

3. People are born with a bad habit of always comparing themselves with others to see who is better than themselves and who is not as good as themselves. In fact, what causes your troubles and sorrows is never other people's misfortune and pain, but your own attitude.

4. You must learn to cover your ears and not listen to the bustling sounds. There is no one in this world who is not suffering. The only one who can truly heal yourself is yourself.

5. Don’t get acquainted with anyone too quickly. Don’t think that the topics are the same at the beginning. You have many things in common and you are close friends who have met each other so late. Words are often fake, but what we experience together is real.

6. This world is not perfect, even a little cruel. You can't decide whether you will encounter good or bad things on the next journey, but you can decide your attitude towards them. The angle from which you look at the world determines the temperature the world gives you.

7. Survival rule: It is better to ask for others than to ask for yourself, and it is better to rely on yourself than to rely on others. Instead of putting down your face and trying to please others, it is better to work hard to change and live a good life. When you are successful, you are not afraid of wind and rain; when you are strong, you are not afraid of being bullied.

8. The saddest thing is that the people you lose are the people you have cared for sincerely. Be sincere and have no reservations, and then lose everything.

9. We once longed for the waves of destiny, but in the end we discovered that the most beautiful scenery in life is actually inner calmness and calmness. We once looked forward to the recognition of society, but in the end we realized that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others.

10. Life is always a dilemma. No matter how persistent and unwilling you are, you have to learn to accept things that are no longer pure. From crying and accusing, to treating with a smile, in the end, it was just a happy-go-lucky affair.

11. The root cause of your anxiety: lack of ability and many dreams are nothing more than greed; willingness to give but unwillingness to fight is nothing more than delusion; repeated entanglement and being too pretentious are nothing more than weakness.

12. If you feel wronged, prove that you still have a bottom line. If you feel confused, it proves that you still have pursuit. If you feel pain, you still have strength. If you feel hopeless, prove there is hope. In a sense, you can never be knocked down because you still have you.

13. The maximum breakdown time for an adult is 20 minutes. After all, everyone’s time is so precious. No matter how sad or sad you are, you still have to do what you should do, sleep when you should, and go when you should go. There is still a way to go.

14. Sometimes people are pitiful. They can’t get the ones they like, and they don’t cherish what they get. They are doubtful about being together, miss the loss, want to see each other nostalgically, and hate to see each other too late. My whole life is full of regrets.

15. When you can study well, study well; when you can work, work well. Don't think about comfortable things in your youth. Don't choose to fall asleep at the age when you should struggle the most. Remember: in every period of time you live, do what you think is the most meaningful.

16. Why should you worry about someone who doesn’t care about you? Why should you be so devoted to someone who doesn’t care about you? But at the same time, remember, never throw away the people who have been with you just because of novelty.

17. We always regard the small favors given by strangers as great emotional favors; but we take the love of those around us who are devoted to you as a matter of course!

18. When you grow up, if you are no longer impulsive and angry, it is probably not because your temper and character have been really worn away. But I understand that in this world, if someone pretends to be pretentious, someone will slap him in the face, and if someone lies, someone will expose it. So I learned to take action slowly and watch with cold eyes.

19. IQ determines your lower limit, and EQ determines your upper limit. The degree to which you make people comfortable with your words can determine the height you can reach.

20. No one will think that things that are easily available are precious. The right indifference will make people happy. Most people are like this, both cheap and pitiful.

21. You think it doesn’t matter whether you are beautiful or ugly, because you already have a good-looking face. You think it doesn’t matter whether you have money or not, because your family is rich. You think it doesn’t matter whether you are fat or thin, because you You have a good figure, but you think it doesn't matter if you are in the last grade because you are not bad at studying. Isn't that just the way people are? What you don't care about is actually what you already have.